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 20 Signs That Reveal A Child May Have Tourette Syndrome

Tourette Syndrome (TS) is a neurological disorder that affects both children and adults. According to research, approximately 1 in every 162 children have Tourette Syndrome. Sadly, many kids who suffer from TS go undiagnosed. As a parent, it’s important to be aware of the signs that could indicate your child has this disorder. Here is a list of common TS symptoms in kids.

About Tourette Syndrome

This neurological disorder was named after Dr. Georges Gilles de la Tourette, a French neurologist who first discovered TS in 1885. It’s characterized by involuntary and often repetitive movements or vocalizations that are called tics. Tics can last for several seconds or several minutes. A common misunderstanding of TS is that patients yell out inappropriate or obscene words and display obscene gestures, but these are rare behaviors and only add to the stereotypical thoughts about TS.

Tourette SyndromeCommon symptoms

Signs of TS typically show up in kids between 7 to 10, but it’s possible for signs to show up as early as 2 years of age or younger.  Although it can show up as late as 18, tics that start after that age aren’t considered Tourette Syndrome. Surprisingly, approximately 1/3 of kids with TS have no tics when they get to adulthood.

There are many symptoms of Tourette syndrome. Here are some that are more common, according to the National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke.

  • Humming
  • Hopping
  • Kicking
  • Eye blinking
  • Grimacing
  • Head jerks
  • Arm flapping
  • Shoulder shrugs
  • Stomping
  • Grunting
  • Constantly touching people or things
  • Barking
  • Throat clearing
  • Shouting out a word

Kids who have TS can also display these symptoms:

  • Trouble focusing and concentrating
  • Behavior problems: aggressiveness, irritability, or immature behavior.
  • Attention deficit hyperactivity (ADHD)
  • Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)
  • Purposeful self-harm
  • Emotional upsets
  • Anxiety
  • Sleep problems: troubling falling asleep, talking during sleep, nightmares, restless while asleep

These signs could reveal your child has Tourette Syndrome.

1 – Social problems

One common sign of TS in children is a  lack of understanding of social skills at an age when they should begin to practice them. Your child may have a total disregard for age-appropriate social skills like greeting, smiling, or playing with other kids. At first, you may think they’re shy or need extra training, but as you notice other kids their age practicing social skills, it becomes clear that your child has social problems.

2 – Sudden, brief repetitive movements

Early signs of TS will be tics that are sudden and repetitive. Young kids like to move a  lot and mimic others, but TS tics are different. Neurologists describe them as quick and repetitive motions, beyond what’s usually seen in kids.

3 – Vocalizations

Tourette syndrome vocalizations vary depending upon the child. According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), these vocal expressions are common in TS. They include:

  • Barking
  • Hissing
  • Grunting
  • Throat clearing
  • Whistling

As a parent, you may feel irritable at your child’s incessant repetition. At first, you may think the child is doing these movements on purpose to irritate you or a sibling. Watch what the tics look like and when they show up. Don’t assume it’s behavioral. Never punish a child for these tics. This can make them worse and make your child feel like you don’t understand.

4 – Tics worse when excited

Your child’s tics may get more pronounced when they’re excited about an event or a special surprise. You may think the movements are a silly habit that your child does to show excitement, especially if they’re very young. Keep an eye on these movements and when they occur. You’ll see a pattern emerge over time.

5 – Feeling of being out of control

Kids who have TS say that they feel an urge or sensation right before the tics begin. This is similar to when you feel a sneeze coming on. They can feel like they need to complete the tic a certain number of times to fulfill this urge or make it go away.

6 – Clothes can trigger tic

Your child’s clothing may trigger tics. Your son may complain of tight collars or long sleeves and want to wear shorts or tee shirts when it’s cold outside. They may feel frustrated about this and embarrassed if other kids or adults mention their off-season clothing.

7 – Sounds can trigger tics

Certain sounds can trigger your child’s quick jerking movements like someone sniffing or clearing their throat. Television shows can also trigger tics if there is barking or some kind of repetitive behavior that your child mimics.

8 – Tics while asleep

A sign that your child has TS is that they will continue having tics even while they’re asleep. The tics may be less pronounced, but you’ll see them moving a lot and the same type of movements you notice during the day.

9 – The tics seem to be in the head or neck area

Some of the earliest signs of Tourette syndrome are jerking or repetitive movements of the head or in the neck area. Repetitive shrugging or head shaking is often the first thing a parent notices, especially in very young children. It can be misinterpreted as typically silly childish fun, but over time you’ll realize it’s not something your child can control.

10 – Subtle tics at first

Your child’s tics may be very subtle at first, almost like they’re having fun using their body in funny ways. But over time you’ll see more pronounced tics and that your child isn’t trying to do the movements. Eventually, the tics may begin to disrupt the child’s daily life.

11 – Other neurological conditions at the same time

If your child already has a neurological condition, they could develop TS along with it. The conditions that go hand in hand with Tourette syndrome include the following:

  • ADHD
  • OCD
  • Trouble processing and understanding information
  • Aggressiveness
  • Rage
  • Mood disorders: depression or extreme excitability
  • Anxiety: fearfulness, shyness, and separation anxiety.

12 – Early symptoms

The early TS signs are hard to read, but they generally start in your child’s head, neck, or arms. They may start as:

  • Blinking
  • Eye rolling
  • Jerking head from side to side
  • Head shaking
  • Arm flapping

spanking13 – Biological and genetic connections

Studies show that Tourette syndrome has genetic components. Recently researchers have found structural changes in two genes associated with TS. As these researchers move toward understand the disorder’s biology, they’ll be able to find treatments to help kids affected by TS.

14 – Boys affected more than girls

Early Tourette syndrome is 3 to 4 times more common in boys than in girls. It’s often more severe in boys, too. It’s not totally understood why this is the case.

15 – Tourette Syndrome could look like an allergy

It’s hard to tell whether your child has Tourette syndrome or an allergy that’s causing sniffing, blinking, coughing, and throat clearing. If you see these symptoms, take your child to the pediatrician to check for allergies. Many kids spend years going to allergists and pulmonologists only to find out that they have Tourette syndrome.

16 – Anxiety makes tics worse

Experts agree that stress and anxiety make TS symptoms worse. You may notice the tics are more pronounced on your daughter’s the first day of school or before your son’s basketball game.

17 – Repeating

Kids are notorious for asking for things over and over. You may attribute your child’s repeating and mimicking of you or family members as childish behavior, especially if they’re quite young. Kids with TS often ask to hear something over and over again and then repeat it again and again.

18 – Combination of several movements

Your child may have more than one or more tics that happen simultaneously or right after each other, such as blinking and then shrugging or humming and then yelling.

19 – Tourette Syndrome can show up in babies

You’ll notice behavior that appears like your child is doing them on purpose, such as

  • Kissing sounds
  • Pinching
  • Sticking out their tongue
  • Lip-smacking

20 – Tiredness makes it worse

Just like anxiety and excitement trigger tics, when your child is overly tired you may notice that they have more pronounced tics. This can be alarming for a parent to realize these movements are involuntary.

Can my child stop the tics?

Studies show that even though Tourette Syndrome is involuntary, sometimes patients can suppress or hide their tics to reduce the impact. That being said, the tics can be made worse from the stress of trying to suppress the tic. Never try to force your child to stop doing these behaviors.

What should you do?

If you notice your child has a tic, you should take them to the pediatrician. Some children grow out of tics. This means that not all tics are Tourette Syndrome. But if your child does have this disorder, the sooner you get a diagnosis, the sooner your child can get treatment.

What causes Tourette Syndrome?

Tourette Syndrome is still a mystery to doctors. Scientists think there are genetic considerations that could contribute to it, plus they think that these things could contribute to this disorder.

  • Environmental risks
  • Smoking during pregnancy
  • Pregnancy complications
  • Low birthweight
  • Infections: For some reason, tics can show up after your child has an infection.

Treatments for Tourette Syndrome

Relaxation techniques and behavioral treatments such as awareness training have been successful for TS patients. Recent studies found that training patients to move when they feel the urge of a tic coming on can help reduce the symptom. Biofeedback and counseling may also prove to help.

Tourette SyndromeFinal thoughts on a Tourette Syndrome diagnosis in your child

As a parent, you want your child to feel healthy and happy.  Because you know your child best, you are the best person to notice symptoms and advocate on their behalf.

If you suspect your child may have Tourette syndrome, arrange an appointment with your pediatrician right away. They can help give an accurate diagnosis and find the best treatment for your child. The sooner your child is diagnosed the better since there are many treatments that can give your child the normal, happy life that you want for them.

Psychologist Explains Why Doomscrolling Causes Anxiety and Depression

Have you ever heard of the term doomscrolling? What is this new mental health concern that has psychologists up in arms? Well, people who are continually scrolling and looking for updates to tragic events may be in danger by ingesting so much negativity daily.

The past few months have brought about challenging conditions that people worldwide must learn a new reality. Life isn’t as it was before, and people are struggling to stay sane while living with a new set of rules. Many folks work from home, isolated from family and friends, and trying to adapt to dealing with the current epidemic.

Your lying-in bed with your mind racing about all the happenings of the world. Your bored, scared, frustrated, and have an unsettling feeling you can’t shake. You check into a local app or favorite news source to see what’s going on.

You want statistics and the latest happenings to put your mind at ease. Once you’ve satisfied your curiosity for an update, you move onto something else. The only problem is that you find that you’re repeating the process all over again in a few minutes.

You’re obsessed with knowing what’s going on, and it’s a thought or feeling you can’t shake until you find out. From presidential election updates to virus happenstances, you want to know where you stand. You’re concerned if life as you know it will ever return to normal.

Before you know it, you’ve been scrolling and reading comments on social media for hours. This year has been monumentally unpleasant, and people on Twitter developed the term doomscrolling or doomsurfing to describe those obsessed with staying informed. Is it possible that 2020 is causing a new concern that goes far beyond the obvious?

Protective Mechanisms and Primal Instincts

anxietyFirst, you should know that it’s completely normal to want to stay informed. It’s human nature to gather as much information as possible when someone feels they’re in danger. The amygdala is a structure within your brain’s limbic system that controls your fight-flight-freeze mode.

When there is a danger in your environment, you’re constantly scanning for new threats. Your brain kicks into overdrive as it’s an instinct that saves lives. Imagine how the cavemen felt with all the dangers around them, yet they didn’t have social media or other technological advances to keep them informed.

They had to rely on gut instincts and their protective mechanisms to keep their families safe. With the pandemic being a genuine threat in today’s society, your brain is kicking into a hypervigilant state with ease. Psychologists confirm that fight or flight contributes to anxiety, depression, and even obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Why Doomscrolling is Bad For Your Mental Health?

You may feel that it’s harmless to scroll the internet trying to find out the latest news. However, this activity is a significant waste of time, but it’s filling your mind with so much negativity. Reading this stuff makes you panicked about life and your security, which can cause you to be hostile, aggressive and lead to stress, anxiety, and eventually, depression.

The New York Times did a study in July of 2020 when the pandemic was peaking for the second time this year. They found that people were devoting 50 percent more of their time to scrolling for updates. This is precious time that you could be using to do other more resourceful things.

The more you search through commentary, news articles, and other occurrences, the more you feel helpless. You can do nothing to change the situations around you, but you can protect your family by following local mandates. If you continue doomscrolling endlessly, then some severe side effects can be harmful to both your physical and mental health.

Side Effects of Doomsurfing

What happens to an apple when it gets a bad spot on it? The rotten area is full of bacteria, and it grows until it takes over the whole piece of fruit. Now, use that analogy when it comes to putting negative things into your mind.

Sure, initially, it’s just a bad news report here or a troubling specialist giving their spill there. However, soon you become so permeated with the rottenness of negativity that it affects your entire wellbeing. Listening to all the terrible things occurring in the world leaves you with a sense of helplessness and dread.

You cannot change the circumstances, but you must learn coping skills to live with them. While you would think that doomscrolling is limited to your mental health, it can also affect your physical health. The following things have been observed with this state of mental unrest:

•Upset Stomach/Nausea

•Chronic Headaches

•Muscles Tension

•Fatigue

•Insomnia

•Poor Sleep Quality

•Appetite Issues

Reducing Internet-Induced Anxiety

You don’t have to accept the mental and physical consequences that come from doomscrolling. Rather than looking at all these negative things, why not look for something positive that makes you smile? If you think you’re alone in your internet scrolling obsession, you would be mistaken.

Doomscrolling is so pervasive these days that one Twitter user, journalist Karen K. Ho, now uses the handle Doomscrolling Reminder Lady. Each day, she sends our words of encouragement and advises people to put down the phone and appreciate the positive things in life. From the many positive comments on her feed, it appears that her followers are both welcome and respect her common-sense reminders.

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Clinical Psychologist Dr. Amelia Aldao warns that “doomscrolling traps us in a vicious cycle of negativity” that triggers those anxious feelings. Here are five easy ways to help you break this harmful habit.

1. Set A Limit on Your Consumption Time

Give yourself a timed limit of how long and when you can surf. Reward yourself for cutting down your internet usage. Set the alarm to alert you to check the news, and don’t surf news and world reports during any other period. A good 10-15 minutes is all you need to get the gest of what’s going on.

2. Focus on News Where You Live

While it’s easy to become engrossed with what’s going on nationally or in or another state, try to focus on the news that pertains to you. It doesn’t mean that you don’t need to be informed of happenings across the globe, but you need to pace yourself. Your depression or anxiety is your body is trying to tell you it’s on overload from all this negativity. So it would be best if you cut back.

3. Opt-Out of News Alerts

News alerts can be beneficial, but they can also give you a burst of anxiety when they alert you with the latest happenings. If you’re already suffering from depression and anxiety, the last thing you need is something alerting you always to negative things. Face it; nothing on the news is ever good.

4. Replace Scrolling with A Game Or E-Reader

One good way to divert your mind is to turn your attention to something else. Why not find a game on your play store that you love to play? Anytime you get the urge to scroll, you can play your game to release anxiety.

Additionally, an e-reader is an excellent choice so that you can brush up on your reading skills. Is there a new book you’ve wanted to read?

5. Don’t Keep Your Phone By Your Bedside

Most doomscrolling happens when you have idle time. So, rather than using your phone as an alarm clock or newspaper, please remove it from the side of your bed. Keep it close enough that you can hear if someone should call, but it should be out of your reach.

Most people find themselves surfing for hours on end when they cannot sleep, which will only acerbate the issue. Keeping the phone away from the bed will improve your sleep and help you to stay focused on getting some rest.

doomscrollingFinal Thoughts on Doomscrolling

If you’re continually scrolling your phone for the latest updates and breaking news, then you may find your brain is on overload. The bad-news-tracking impulse is something that is affecting millions across the globe because knowledge is power. Your primal instincts are kicking in as you want to protect you and your family.

Why do you think people are hoarding toilet paper, food, and doing other senseless things that are only making the situation worse? They hear of a toilet paper shortage and jump on the bandwagon. Fear is a tremendous motivator, and it’s time that you stop letting it have a foothold in your life.

Today, make an oath to yourself to slowly back away from the doomscrolling and start ingesting more positive things. You will be surprised by the difference it will make in your mental and physical health.

Cognitive Therapies Can Improve Schizophrenia, According to Research

Schizophrenia is a chronic and serious mental disorder that affects around 20 million people worldwide, according to the World Health Organization. Symptoms and characteristics include distorted thinking, emotions, and sense of self, auditory and visual hallucinations, and delusions. Most people with schizophrenia develop it in early adulthood, and men tend to show symptoms earlier than women. Annually, the new number of schizophrenia cases is 1.5 per 10,000 people.

Schizophrenia is in the top 15 leading causes of disability worldwide. In the U.S., around 1.5 million people get diagnosed with it every year. Risk factors for schizophrenia include genetic traits, chemical imbalances in the brain, and environmental stress in early life. People with this disorder are 2-3 times more likely to die early than the general population. This is mostly due to physical illnesses like cardiovascular disease or infections.

Common symptoms associated with schizophrenia, according to the World Health Organization (WHO):schizophrenia

  • hallucination: hearing, seeing, or feeling things that are not there;
  • delusion: fixed false beliefs or suspicions not shared by others in the person’s culture and that are firmly held even when there is evidence to the contrary;
  • abnormal behavior: disorganized behavior such as wandering, mumbling or laughing to self, strange appearance, self-neglect, or appearing unkempt;
  • disorganized speech: incoherent or irrelevant speech; and/or
  • disturbances of emotions: marked apathy or disconnect between reported emotion and what is observed, such as a facial expression or body language.

Other symptoms may include:

  • The poverty of speech: Minimal speech or giving short-responses to questions.
  • Anhedonia: Lack of pleasure from things they used to enjoy, decreasing interests. This leads to decreased involvement in a person’s community, affecting the quality of life.
  • Lack of motivation: A person may not have the internal motivation to follow through with tasks in everyday life, such as getting ready in the morning.

Despite the severity of this disorder, it’s highly treatable. Research suggests that Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is most effective in treating schizophrenia. A study recently published in the Journal of Psychological Medicine found that antipsychotic medicines, along with therapy, led to significant improvements. Specifically, UCLA scientists and colleagues found that patients receiving both treatments showed better cognition and increased productivity.

Researchers also said that patients using this combined treatment approach saw dramatic improvements in work and school performance. This is partially due to memory, and problem-solving skills taught in therapy sessions. Since schizophrenia affects how a person thinks, feels, and behaves, cognitive treatments help them organize their thoughts better. This leads to improvements in all-around functioning, helping them integrate with society and have a chance at a normal life.

People with this disorder may appear to “be in their own world” or lose touch with reality, leading to permanent disability. Many sufferers don’t even recognize it as a problem at first because the hallucinations appear so real. It usually causes distress for friends and family, but therapies can help the patient reconnect with loved ones. Consistent treatment can help patients perform better in school or work settings and regain independence.

pop quoteThe schizophrenia study

For the research, the team put patients through a 12-month randomized controlled trial. 60 patients from the UCLA Aftercare Program who had recently experienced a schizophrenic episode for the first time took part in the study. They either received oral or long-acting injectable antipsychotic medication and either cognitive therapy or healthy behavior training.

Cognitive-behavioral therapy included training in attention, memory, and problem-solving skills to help patients handle complex, real-life situations. Healthy behavior training included proper nutrition, stress management, and exercise, with the same treatment time. All patients received help with employment and education to encourage them to re-enter work or school environments.

The study confirmed that cognitive training and consistent doses of long-acting antipsychotic medication significantly improved symptoms of schizophrenia. The therapies showed a separate positive impact on work and school functioning.

UCLA researchers included: Keith Nuechterlein, Joseph Ventura, Kenneth Subotnik, Denise Gretchen-Doorly, Luana Turner, Laurie Casaus, John Luo, Michael Boucher, and Jacqueline Hayata. Morris Bell of Yale University and Alice Medalia of Columbia University also contributed to the study.

The value of early detection and treatment

Early treatment can significantly improve the long-term outlook for patients with this disorder. Patients often experience the worst symptoms in the early stages of the illness, when the risk of suicide is highest. At the onset of schizophrenia, around 5% of people die by suicide. 20% of people with the disorder attempt suicide at least once.

The majority of people with schizophrenia get better over time with proper treatment. In fact, 20% of people improve within five years of showing symptoms. Since genetics is a huge risk factor, people with a family history of this disorder may want to seek mental health treatment. This way, treatment can begin early, increasing the chances of improvement.

Unfortunately, only around 31% of people with the disorder seek treatment. Usually, the stigma attached to the disorder and being low income prevents people from getting help. 90% of people with untreated schizophrenia live in low- and middle- income countries.

Racial inequities are evident in schizophrenia

Schizophrenia diagnosis by race/ethnicity

  • The lifetime prevalence of self-reported psychotic symptoms is highest in African Americans (21.1%), Latino Americans (19.9%), and white Americans (13.1%). (Psychiatric Services, 2013)
  • The lifetime prevalence of self-reported psychotic symptoms is lowest in Asian Americans (5.4%). (Psychiatric Services, 2013)
  • Research has found that Black Americans are three to four times more likely than white Americans to be diagnosed with schizophrenia. (World Journal of Psychiatry, 2014)

schizophreniaFinal thoughts on the study showing cognitive therapy can improve schizophrenia.

While schizophrenia is a severe, debilitating mental illness, studies show that cognitive therapies, along with medication, can lead to significant improvement. In fact, around 20% of people with the disorder improve within 5 years of first showing symptoms. As with any mental illness, early treatment and intervention significantly increase the chances of getting better. If you have a family history or show early symptoms of schizophrenia, you may consider seeking mental health treatment.

Research Connects Positive Thinking With Reduced Memory Loss

A new study reveals that positive thinking may help reduce memory loss as people age. It seems the people who look at life through rose-colored glasses may have the right idea after all. This study adds to mounting research about the role of a good attitude, or ‘positive effect,’ in healthy aging.

The study, published on October 22, 2020, in the journal Psychological Science, found that people with an optimistic attitude have better memory as they age. Most people want to retain good memories in life, but the ability to do so largely depends on emotional and physical health. While many factors come into play in regards to the strength of our memory, it turns out being cheerful can reduce memory loss.

The study

reduce memory lossFor the study, a team of researchers analyzed data from a 9-year longitudinal study involving 991 middle-aged and older U.S. adults. They all participated in a national study conducted at three separate times: between 1995 and 1996, 2004 and 2006, and 2013 and 2014. In the questionnaires, the participants reported on various positive emotions they’d experienced in the past 30 days.

In the last two assessments, the researchers also gave the participants tests to observe the strength of their memory. For these assessments, participants had to recall words right after they’d been said to them, and again after 15 minutes passed. The researchers analyzed how positive thinking could reduce memory loss, taking age, gender, education, depression, negative outlooks, and extroversion into account.

“Our findings showed that memory declined with age,” said Claudia Haase, senior author of the paper and an associate professor at Northwestern University.

“However, individuals with higher levels of positive affect had a less steep memory decline over the course of almost a decade,” added Emily Hittner, the paper’s lead author and a Ph.D. graduate of Northwestern University.

In the future, they hope to do further studies on what life factors may improve positive affect, and therefore reduce memory loss. For example, better physical health and stronger relationships may play a role in one’s overall happiness.

Other ways to reduce memory loss

 In addition to thinking positively, other lifestyle factors can help improve your memory:

1 – Get plenty of exercise.

pop memeExercise improves every aspect of health, not just our physical appearance and muscle-to-fat ratio. You will increase your endurance and strength, plus give your brain muscles a run for their money as well. Since the mind and body are inarguably linked, we must take care of them both.

Lack of exercise can lead to developing health problems such as obesity. A growing body of evidence links obesity and all the health complications that go along with it to increased memory loss. Furthermore, obesity heightens the risk of developing Alzheimer’s or dementia later in life.

Researchers believe this may occur because obesity negatively affects brain structure and volume. Overweight and obesity cause the hippocampus to shrink, which leads to cognitive decline. Also, the same proteins in the brain that lead to Alzheimer’s have been found in those with severe obesity.

Several studies show how regular exercise may help reduce memory loss. For example, studies have shown that regular aerobic exercise can result in a larger hippocampus. This area of the brain aids in learning and memory; therefore, a larger brain can support a stronger memory.

2 – Prioritize sleep.

Unfortunately, in our “24/7” society, many of us suffer from some level of sleep deprivation. When we run on little sleep, it starts to affect our cognitive function, including memory. Deep, quality sleep helps us consolidate and sort through memories, so without enough REM sleep, our memory suffers. No matter what your schedule looks like, aim for 7-8 hours of sleep each night, and make sure to keep it consistent.

3 – Eat a healthy diet.

What we put into our bodies not only affects our physical health, but our mental performance as well. Eating too many processed, high-calorie foods can lead to a feeling of brain fog, impairing our memory. Experts say that if you want to reduce memory loss, you should include these foods in your diet:

  • Fatty fish, such as salmon
  • Blueberries
  • Turmeric
  • Broccoli
  • Pumpkin seeds
  • Dark chocolate (near 100% cacao, little or no sugar added)
  • Nuts such as walnuts
  • Oranges
  • Green tea
  • Coffee

4 – Do brain games and puzzles.

Just like any other muscle in your body, your brain needs regular exercise to perform at its best. Do crossword puzzles or other brain games which require you to jog your memory. Instead of passing your time scrolling through social media or watching Netflix, take a few minutes a day to challenge your brain. Not only will you possibly learn something new, but you will reduce memory loss in the process.

5 – Watch your sugar consumption.

This tip will help both your physical health and your memory. Just like berries and nuts can improve your memory, unhealthy foods like sugar can hinder it. Studies show that people who eat a lot of sugar have difficulty remembering things and have a heightened risk of developing dementia. Even if the person doesn’t have diabetes, eating too much sugar can hinder memory and brain health.

Researchers believe that, once again, the hippocampus starts to malfunction with too much sugar intake. While it requires a certain amount of glucose to function, too much of it can cause the opposite effect.

reduce memory lossFinal thoughts on research that shows positive thinking can reduce memory loss

Positive thinking enhances many aspects of life, from our relationships to our physical health. Researchers have found that optimism may help reduce memory loss as well, perhaps due to stronger pathways in the brain. While more studies need to be done about the relationship between memory and positive thinking, this shows great promise for future research.

Since thoughts create our reality, it seems vitally important that we pay attention to what goes on inside our heads. Positive thoughts lead to better outcomes in life, so make sure to take care of your mental health.

7 Things That Happen To Your Body When You Don’t Eat Enough Protein

Protein is present in many different foods. Fortunately, some of the best options for protein content are also among the healthiest. It makes sense that protein isn’t just healthy but crucial to everyday life. Without it, the body cannot function.

It’s rare in this day and age for protein deficiencies to be significant enough to have hugely noticeable or dangerous effects. But that doesn’t mean that there aren’t some negative factors associated with a moderate or even mild lack of protein. Here are 7 things that happen to your body when you don’t eat enough.

1.    Muscle Mass Loss

The muscles are where most of the human body keeps its stores. A lack of protein consumption can force the body to use up those stores to provide the body with the nutrition it needs.

Protein is needed to preserve numerous bodily functions and crucial tissue. To continue supporting those functions when you don’t eat enough, skeletal muscles provide their protein reserves. Doctors call this issue, “muscle wasting.”

Unfortunately, even just a moderate level of insufficiency in protein consumption can lead to muscle wasting. In fact, research has confirmed many times that muscle loss occurs at a greater rate, the less protein you consume. It is also believed that eating more protein can reduce the rate of age-related muscle degeneration.

enough protein2.    Increased Caloric Intake

Lacking protein often means you’re making up for it with other kinds of foods that are more packed in calories. In mild deficiencies, you are likely to consume more calories. This happens for many reasons, as proven below:

·         The Body Fights To Restore Protein

A lack of protein means the body must find ways to compensate for the amount it uses from muscle storage. To achieve this, the body tries to push you into finding more food, hoping protein will be among the new consumed components. This leads to increased appetite, according to studies. Resisting the desire to eat is often very difficult, as the lack of sufficient food as perceived by the body drops positive thinking and concentration.

·         You Might Experience Increased Savory Cravings

For some, the body is more specific about the kinds of food it wants you to eat. Research has found that many people experience a craving geared toward savory meals instead of general hunger when they lack protein. Unfortunately, a lot of the most convenient ways to sate savory cravings involve junk food, packaged meals, and high-calories fare all around. Worse still, these empty calories have even less protein than healthier options, so it won’t aid the cravings!

·         You May Gain Unwanted Weight

Unfortunately, with the added consumption of excess food to make up for protein deficiency, you’d be subject to something that experts call the protein leverage hypothesis. The hypothesis states that humans will naturally prioritize protein over other foods and eat until those requirements are met. Supposedly, if they meet their protein requirements, their desire to eat other foods will be reduced, and they will eat less overall. Sadly, this means that if you don’t eat enough protein, your body will keep demanding more and more food to seek it out, even to the point of significant weight gain.

·         Protein Is More Filling

Protein is known to be more satisfying than fats and carbs, which is why it plays a big role in weight loss programs. This means that lacking protein means you’re less likely to feel full from the calories you do eat, leading to further consumption.

3.    Higher Fat Accumulation In Liver

The liver cells can accumulate fat over time, leading to a dangerous condition called fatty liver disease that may result in liver damage, inflammation, and failure. It’s most common among those who drink excess alcohol or the medically obese.

Surprisingly, this disease links in some ways to protein deficiency. Researchers believe this might be due to impaired proteins responsible for transporting fat throughout the body. These are lipoproteins. And a deficiency in their synthesis can lead to fat deposits being left in the liver.

So far, research is still working on better understanding these links. Still, current studies seem to support some form of impairment from protein deficiency as a risk factor for fatty liver disease.

4.    Higher Fracture Risk

Most of us don’t associate protein with bones, but the fact is that bones are also at risk from even a moderate deficiency. How? Here are some studies that explain and prove the concept:

  • “Low protein intake: the impact on calcium and bone homeostasis in humans,” published in The Journal of Nutrition (2003). This paper covers many of the basic factors and relationships between protein deficiency and bone weakness, specifically of the kind that worsens fracture risk. It indicates that these links are well-studied and understood.
  • “Protein supplements increase serum insulin-like growth factor-I levels and attenuate proximal femur bone loss in patients with recent hip fracture. A randomized, double-blind, placebo-controlled trial” published in Annals of Internal Medicine (1998). This study indicated that 20 grams of protein supplementation over the course of six months could reduce bone loss by an impressive 2.3%.
  • “Prospective study of dietary protein intake and risk of hip fracture in postmenopausal women” published in The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition (1999). This study indicated that is postmenopausal women, eating higher protein amounts, can reduce the risk of developing hip fractures. At the highest healthy intake, this caused a reduced risk of 69%, with animal proteins having the most positive.

woman with headache5.    Worsened Infection Severity

Did you know that a lack of protein can harm the immune system? If you don’t consume enough of the nutrient, you’ll be at greater risk for catching viruses and developing severities and complications from infections of any kind. Here are some studies that discuss this:

  • “Protein-energy malnutrition decreases immunity and increases susceptibility to influenza infection in mice,” published in The Journal of Infectious Diseases (2013). This study was conducted on mice and revealed that, when following a diet consisting of 2% protein, mice had a higher chance of developing severe infections from influenza than mice with an 18% protein diet.
  • “Amino acids and immune function,” published in British Journal of Nutrition (2007). This research identified strong links between deficiency and symptoms involving worsened infections and overall immune system function. So if you want positive health, you’d likely have to eat more protein.
  • “Elderly women accommodate a low-protein diet with losses of body cell mass, muscle function, and immune response” published in The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition (1995). This work of research was performed on older women who were asked to follow a diet that was low in protein. After nine weeks, they showed a notable reduction in immune system response.

6.    Hair, Nail, and Skin Issues

If you lack protein to a minor or moderate degree, then you’re unlikely to notice problems with the appearance of your:

But if you are severely deficient, you might start seeing the marks of that unmet nutritional needs. Many parts of your body are made of protein – and nails, hair, and skin are among them.

Here are some studies showing the links between a deficiency and the changing appearance of protein-based body parts:

  • “Nutritional factors and hair loss” published in Clinical and Experimental Dermatology (2002). This study discusses the clear links between nutrition and the premature loss of hair, positing that protein-energy malnutrition is among one of the many causes of the issue.
  • “Skin, hair, and nail in protein malnutrition,” published in World Review of Nutrition and Dietetics (1961). This extremely early study shows that researchers discovered malnutrition’s effects on hair, nails, and skin even back then. Low-protein diets would consistently result in discoloration, thinning, loss of hair, and increased nail brittleness.
  • “Skin in protein-energy malnutrition” published in Archives of Dermatological Research (1987). This study focused on children living with severe protein deficiency in countries with less positive economic standings. It revealed that skin in children with that deficiency could split, become flaky, develop depigmentation, and experience redness.

7.    Edema

Edema is a condition where the skin becomes puffy and swollen. In some cases, it’s at least mostly harmless. In others, it can be a symptom of something serious or even be dangerous. Most scientists think it is the result of low blood albumin levels in humans.

Serum albumin, aka blood albumin, is an incredibly abundant in the blood plasma. It is the most prevalent of all proteins within that liquid portion of the blood and has multiple functions. It works in many ways, with one of its most notable functions being oncotic pressure maintenance.

The oncotic pressure is a kind of force that brings fluid into the circulation system of the blood. This prevents the accumulation of any fluid in compartments of the body, like tissues. Thinking about how a deficiency can lead to edema can be complicated. So let’s break it down step by step:

  • 1: A deficiency in your consumption leads to a drop in serum albumin levels.
  • 2: Serum albumin, due to its insufficient quantity, cannot perform its duties accurately, causing unbalanced oncotic pressure.
  • 3: Oncotic pressure is too weak to pull fluids into the bloodstream and away from other places. This leads to swelling in those locations.

enough proteinFinal Thoughts On Some Things That Happen To Your Body When It Lacks Enough Protein

Protein deficiency, while rare, is something to be taken seriously. It can cause many different symptoms in the body that could have serious long-term effects.

Worried about your protein intake? Put on your positive thinking! It’s hard to be significantly deficient in nutrient. So make sure that you’re consuming 0.36 to 0.45 grams of the stuff per pound of your body weight. This is the daily recommended intake. If you’re still concerned, consult a doctor or nutritionist for advice!

Remember These 15 Quotes on Grief When It’s Time to Say Goodbye

Saying goodbye to a loved one is likely the hardest part of life. Many quotes on grief explain the pain and suffering involved with this. These quotes on grief can also help you find a way through the darkness and will help you smile again.

It can be easy to stay in the dark when you experience a loss, but it is important to find a way out. Through the wisdom and experience of others, these quotes on grief can help you get through it.

Saying goodbye doesn’t mean you are letting go of someone. You will always have your memories and feelings, and you can cherish these always. Instead, it means acknowledging that they will no longer be a part of your life.

Fifteen Quotes on Grief

When you have to say goodbye, remember these quotes on grief. While the quotes won’t take the pain away, they can give you hope for a brighter future. Plus, they will remind you that you aren’t alone and that you can get through this hard time.

quotes on grief1. “When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure.” – Unknown

The memories of your loved ones are something that can never be taken from you. They will be with you always, and they are something you can treasure. These memories tie you to the person you have lost and that feeling can never be lost.

2. “The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not ‘get over’ the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same nor would you want to.” – Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

Grief doesn’t end, even when you work through it. Getting over the death of someone you loved will never happen, but you will learn to adjust. As you heal, you will build a new life, always missing the person but learning to live without them.

3. “Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.” – Dr. Seuss

Grief comes at the end of something spectacular. Not everyone experiences something so amazing, so smile at the memories that were created. Remind yourself that you were lucky to have had the experience instead of being sorrowful.

4. “How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.” – Winnie the Pooh

Similar to the previous quote, this one reminds you of how lucky you are to have loved someone so much. To love someone enough to grieve their loss means you had something truly amazing in your life. When you are grieving, make sure to spend time being thankful for having the person in your life.

5. “What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes part of us.” – Helen Keller

Everything precious to you becomes a part of you. The time spent with a loved one and the love you felt for them can never be taken away. Those memories will always be with you, and their contributions to your life will stay with you always.

6. “Those we love don’t go away, they walk beside us every day…unseen, unheard, but always near, still loved, still missed, and very dear.” – Unknown

Just because you can’t see someone doesn’t mean their presence isn’t there. They played a role in the person you are today, so they are always walking with you.

7. “Although it’s natural to forget your power after you lose a loved one, the truth is that after a breakup, divorce, or death, there remains an ability within you to create a new reality.” – Louise Hay and David Kessler

No matter how you have lost the person you love, it can take a toll on your sense of power. Oftentimes, losing someone will leave you feeling out of control of your life, but it doesn’t have to be that way.

Instead, work to create a new normal and build your life the way you want to do it. Then, you will be able to remember that you are in charge of your life. You have the power to create happiness for yourself, even if things seem unbearable right now.

8. “Deep grief sometimes is almost like a specific location, a coordinate on a map of time. When you are standing in that forest of sorrow, you cannot imagine that you could ever find your way to a better place. But if someone can assure you that they themselves have stood in that same place, and now have moved on, sometimes this will bring hope” – Elizabeth Gilbert

Grief can leave you feeling stranded, alone, and like there is no way out. You might feel like you can’t find a way to cope or move on, but you must find a way to do so.

One way to do this is to remind yourself that many others have been through the same thing before. They have lost people they love and still moved forward in life. You can do this too, so find your way out so that you can begin to heal.

depression meme9. “When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.” – Kahlil Gibran

The thing you are grieving for is likely one of the things that made you happiest. When the grief becomes too much, look in your heart, as Gibran says, and see the happiness, instead. All of the happy memories you made together will be right there whenever you need a reminder.

10. “You will survive and you will find purpose in the chaos. Moving on doesn’t mean letting go.” – Mary VanHaute

While saying goodbye to someone you love is hard, you will get through it. You will learn to live again and to move on. Moving on doesn’t mean letting go, however, because you will always carry the love you feel with you.

11. “And when great souls die, after a period, peace blooms, slowly and always irregularly. Spaces fill with a kind of soothing electric vibration. Our senses, restored, never to be the same, whisper to us. They existed. We can be. Be and be better. For they existed.” – Maya Angelou

While it may seem impossible now, you will experience peace again. Life will become normal, although it will be a new idea of normal, and you will be happy. With this will come the realization that if the person you love existed, then you can get through life and become better.

12. “I learned that, with grief, you have to take it one day at a time and learn how to find the happiness amid the heartbreak.” – Adrienne C. Moore

When you lose someone you love, it is only expected that you will feel heartbroken. There is no magic way to get over it and stop grieving, so you have to keep working on it. Find happy moments whenever you can, and eventually, it will all get easier.

13. “Tears have a wisdom all their own. They come when a person has relaxed enough to let go and to work through his sorrow. They are the natural bleeding of an emotional wound, carrying the poison out of the system. Here lies the road to recovery.” – F. Alexander Magoun

You must allow yourself to grieve and cry when the time is right. This may not happen right away, but once you begin to accept the situation, it will begin. Crying is good, though, because it means that you are healing.

14. “Grief can be the garden of compassion. If you keep your heart open through everything, your pain can become your greatest ally in your life’s search for love and wisdom.” – Rumi

Good things can come from grief, even if that seems impossible right now. If you allow yourself to grieve, you will become wiser and find those who can help you through.

15. “This is not goodbye, my darling, this is a thank you. Thank you for coming into my life and giving me joy.” – Nicholas Sparks

Since it can be hard to say goodbye to someone you love, say thank you instead. You were blessed to have them in your life, and they left you with memories and love. For this, you should be thankful, and that will be easier to express than saying goodbye.

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When you have to say goodbye to someone you love, you will inevitably experience deep grief. These quotes on grief can help you get through and will remind you of the good in your life. You have to allow yourself to grieve and grow in this situation.

Give yourself time and grace, and remember to take it one day at a time. Eventually, it will get easier, as these quotes on grief explained. Knowing you aren’t alone in this feeling can help, too, so try to find peace in the experiences of others.

15 Quotes on Beauty Explain Why It’s in the Eye of the Beholder

Wise people often say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and these quotes on beauty help explain why. Everyone is different, both physically and mentally. Different things resonate with different people, and there is no sure definition of beauty.

What one person finds beautiful, another person may find hideous. Beauty is also normally a reflection of what a person feels inside. So, things that don’t reflect who they are may not seem beautiful to them, while things that do will be beautiful.

People tend to find beauty in things that align with their souls. When someone makes them feel alive and awakens their spirit, they will think that person is beautiful. To further explain why beauty is in the eye of the beholder, read these quotes on beauty.

Fifteen Quotes on Beauty Remind Us That It Is in the Eye of the Beholder

Remember these quotes, so you can see the beauty all around you.

quotes on beauty1. “Beauty is no quality in things themselves: It exists merely in the mind which contemplates them, and each mind perceives a different beauty.” – David Hume

As Hume explains, each mind views beauty differently. No one can say what truly qualifies as beauty because everyone finds beauty in different things.

2. “Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.” – Khalil Gibran

Only those who see the light in your heart can truly love you. No matter how someone portrays you physically, true beauty comes from within. So, if you want someone to think you are beautiful, make sure you show them the good in your heart.

3. “She was beautiful, but not like those girls in the magazines. She was beautiful for the way she thought. She was beautiful for the sparkle in her eyes when she talked about something she loved. She was beautiful, for her ability to make other people smile, even if she was sad. No, she wasn’t beautiful for something as temporary as her looks. She was beautiful, deep down to her soul. She is beautiful.” – F. Scott Fitzgerald

Everyone thinks differently and loves different things, and this is where much of their beauty lies. Behavior and attitude also contribute to beauty.

This is why beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Since beauty is different for everyone, people will recognize beauty only when it aligns with their soul.

4. “I say that the most liberating thing about beauty is realizing that you are the beholder.” – Salma Hayek

With all of these quotes on beauty explains why it’s in the eye of the beholder, this quote is important. You can’t only think about what beauty means to others. When it comes down to it, you determine what beauty is, and no one can change that.

5. “The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode, but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years.” – Audrey Hepburn

Those that you show love to and those who see your passion are the ones that will find you beautiful. When you allow people to see your soul, they will see the beauty within. Even still, not everyone will find you beautiful, but the right people will.

6. “Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical.” – Sophia Loren

One of the many reasons beauty is in the beholder’s eye is that it is what is inside of you. Each person is different, and you won’t always attract everyone else. You will only attract those who see the inner beauty that is reflected in your eyes.

pop quote coco chanel7. “Beauty is not who you are on the outside; it is the wisdom and time you gave away to save another struggling soul like you.” – Shannon Alder

When you help others, your beauty will be evident. The person or people you helped will see the beauty you carry within. Plus, those who witness the kindness will see the beauty.

When people see that you are genuinely kind, their image of you will be more positive. Plus, when they see you are willing to give others wisdom and time, their image of you may change for the better. The way people see you behave will have an impact on the beauty they see in you.

8. “The value is always in the eye of the beholder. What is worthless to one person may be very important to someone else.” – Peter Ackroyd

Since everyone sees things differently, the definition of beauty is different for everyone, as well. What one person sees no beauty in, another may think is the most beautiful thing.

9. “Some of us teach ourselves and our children to love the superficial outer; our looks, hair, skin, clothes rather than the greater beauty that resides within whereas it is that inner beauty that really defines you and who you truly are.” – Rassool Jibraeel Snyman

The reason superficial beauty doesn’t appeal to everyone is that true beauty comes from within. Being a good person and treating others with kindness will make you more beautiful.

10. “There is a road from the eye to the heart that does not go through the intellect.” – G.K. Chesterton

It is on the road that Chesterton describes that you will find beauty. When someone speaks to your soul, you will see the beauty in them without thinking about their physical appearance. You will see them and immediately feel it in your heart.

11. “To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.” – Thich Nhat Hanh

Other people may not see your beauty, but that shouldn’t matter. Since beauty is in the eye of the beholder, you should be the beholder who decides it for yourself. Everyone won’t ever accept you, so your ultimate goal should be to find yourself beautiful.

12. “We turn outward, attracted by the beauty we see in created things, without realizing that they are only a reflection of the real beauty. And the real beauty is within us.” – Ernesto Cardenal

People find beauty in things that reflect who they are internally. The things that speak to your soul and make you feel alive are the things you will find beautiful. This is why beauty is in the eye of the beholder because everyone finds beauty from what they feel inside.

13. “The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.” – Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

If someone can recover from their hardships, they will be more beautiful to everyone who encounters them. This is because they have developed an appreciation for life and are more compassionate, gentle, and loving. These characteristics will help their beauty shine through for the world to see.

Those who see the good that arises from the pain will find this beautiful. Rising from hard times and being positive afterward will deeply resonate with some people.

14. “The common ‘eye’ sees only the outside of things, and sadly judges by that. But the loving eye pierces through and reads the heart and the soul.” – Mark Twain

When someone loves you, they will see the beauty in your heart and soul. Those who don’t love you, however, will fixate on your outward appearance. This is why some people find you beautiful, and others do not.

15. “Beautiful has nothing to do with looks. It’s how you are as a person and how you make others feel about themselves.” – Anonymous

When someone feels connected to you, they will see your beauty. If you make them feel good about themselves, your beauty is even more obvious to them. Your connection with people and the way you make them feel are the things that constitute beauty.

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Beauty is defined differently for everyone, and this is because no one is the same. What one person may find beautiful, another may not. These quotes on beauty explain why this is the case.

Remember these quotes on beauty the next time someone makes you feel inferior. While they may not have seen your beauty, there are plenty of other people who do. It is all about the way you connect with someone and the way you make them feel.

It is important to remember that oftentimes the things someone finds beautiful are a reflection of their soul. So, someone’s opinion of you may truly have nothing to do with you. Keep this in mind, and remember that you are beautiful.

15 Quotes on Loving Yourself

No matter what stage of life you are in, you may struggle to put yourself first. This is likely because you have been taught that you must put others first, although that is far from the truth. As these quotes on loving yourself will explain, putting yourself first is most important.

It is important to remember that you have to take care of yourself if you want to take care of others. If you have no energy or motivation left in you, it would be impossible to be the person you want to be. This is why putting yourself first is so important, so that you can continue doing what you set out to do.

This isn’t selfish at all, as it is beneficial to all of those around you. If you are happy and taken care of, you can help make those around you feel the same way. Plus, spreading happiness and positivity will change the world, which you will also be able to do.

On the other hand, if you don’t put yourself first, you won’t be fulfilled. You will feel like something is missing, or you will constantly be drained of energy. If you are starting to feel this way now, remember the following quotes on loving yourself and putting yourself first.

Fifteen Quotes on Loving Yourself Remind You to Put Yourself First

quotes on loving yourself1. “Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have.” – Robert Holden

If you don’t love yourself, you will struggle to love anyone else fully. The way you think of and treat yourself sets the tone for how you think of and treat everyone else. Keep this in mind and treat yourself the way you want to treat those you love the most.

2. “Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it.” – M. Scott Peck

Your time will never be used wisely if you don’t value yourself. You have to value your time and learn to use it for the best possible scenarios.

If you can do this, you will find that your time is being used well. Before you know it, you will see that you are accomplishing much more than you were before.

3. “Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how you use it. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won’t accept.” – Anna Taylor

Set boundaries and hold people to them. Your time and energy are more important than what other people want from you.

The choice is entirely yours, so you have to remember to put yourself first in every situation. By doing this, you will be setting the tone for how others treat you, too.

4. “Because one believes in oneself, one doesn’t try to convince others. Because one is content with oneself, one doesn’t need others’ approval. Because one accepts oneself, the whole world accepts him or her.” – Lao Tzu

You don’t have to convince others of your greatness or receive their approval. The only approval you need is yours, and the only way you can get that is by putting yourself first. With self-approval, you will suddenly receive the approval of those around you.

5. “Loving yourself starts with liking yourself, which starts with respecting yourself, which starts with thinking of yourself in positive ways.” – Jerry Corsten

To respect and love yourself, you have to think positively about yourself. Put yourself first and do what will make you happy and make you better to love yourself.

6. “The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I’m not going to let myself pull me down anymore.” – C. JoyBell C.

This reminder is intended to make you realize you are the one holding yourself back. If you want to get past this, you have to put yourself first and keep moving forward. Decide to stop hindering your progress and work toward your goals instead.

7. “Self-care is never a selfish act — it is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have, the gift I was put on earth to offer to others.” – Parker Palmer

Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish at all. You can’t take care of anyone else if you haven’t taken care of yourself first. Remember this so that you can keep giving the best of yourself to those around you.

pop meme8. “Never doubt that you are valuable and powerful and deserving of every chance in the world to pursue your dreams.” – Hillary Clinton

You are greater than you may initially realize, and you deserve all the things you seek in life. As Clinton says, you are valuable, powerful, and deserving. Remember this, and make sure to put yourself first always.

9. “Love yourself. Enough to take the actions required for your happiness. Enough to cut yourself loose from the drama-filled past. Enough to set a high standard for relationships. Enough to feed your mind and body in a healthy manner. Enough to forgive yourself. Enough to move on.” – Steve Maraboli

Put yourself first and do what needs to be done so that you can be happy. Let go of negativity and set high standards for those you let close to you. Be healthy, forgive yourself, move on, and put yourself first.

10. “We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create.” – John Lennon

No one is perfect, including you, but you should still love yourself as if you were. Love your imperfections and mistakes, and love who you are. This is the only way you will ever be able to love someone else fully.

11. “There is nothing noble about being superior to some other man. The true nobility is in being superior to your previous self.” – Ernest Hemingway

Being better than others won’t make you love yourself any more than you already do. What will increase your self-love is being better than you used to be.

Every time you learn or grow, your self-love increases. So, put yourself first so that you have growth opportunities. You won’t ever have these chances if you are constantly putting other people first.

12. “Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves even when we risk disappointing others.” – Brené Brown

As stated before, you have to set boundaries and enforce them. As Brown explains, even if it upsets other people, your boundaries and well-being should come first.

13. “Falling in love with yourself first doesn’t make you vain or selfish – it makes you indestructible.” – Unknown

By loving yourself, you are becoming stronger and more resilient. You are taking control of your happiness away from others and leaving it in your own hands, instead.

14. “The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on, or blame. The gift is yours – it is an amazing journey – and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.” – Bob Moawad

This is your life to live, no matter what happens. Remember that and put yourself first because you are the only one who can make the most of your life. You can only rely on yourself, so you have to make sure your well-being comes before that of others.

15. “You were born an original work of art. Stay original always. Originals cost more than imitations.” – Suzy Kassem

Be true to yourself. Stick to your morals and ethics, and do what you know is right. Don’t change yourself for anyone, or you will lose yourself completely.

You are better when you are original and real. Make sure you portray yourself this way always, no matter what those around you want.

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Many people find it hard to love themselves and put themselves first truly. They constantly think that putting themselves first is selfish, but that is far from the truth. To take care of others, you must take care of yourself first.

If you are struggling with self-love, remember these quotes on loving yourself. They will remind you always to put yourself first and to think of your well-being above the well-being of others. This is the only way you will be strong, successful, and happy in life.

Now, this isn’t to say you shouldn’t consider the well-being of others. It would be best if you continued to do that, but only after taking care of yourself first. Remember these quotes on loving yourself, and you will quickly find that everything else in life falls into place.

15 Quotes About Moving on After a Breakup

Breakups are hard no matter what the situation was, but these quotes about moving on will help. Despite your feelings about the end of the relationship, you must move on. You can’t stay stuck in this negative place forever, and you owe it to yourself to be happy again.

While moving on is easier said than done, it is still easier than you may think. With the right mindset and positive reminders, you will be well on your way to healing.

If you are struggling to move on, read these quotes about moving on after a breakup. They will remind you why it is important to move on and what you have to look forward to. Plus, they offer tips for positively moving on and doing what is best for you.

Quotes About Moving on Post-breakup

1. “Sometimes you must let people go because their pieces no longer fit. This departure is for the betterment of your energy, your space, and your precious life.” – Melody Lee

quotes about moving onAs life changes, the people in your life might have to, as well. The things and people that once seemed to fit may not fit anymore. When this happens, moving on from them is the best thing you can do for yourself.

You will be able to focus on yourself and your dreams. Your energy will all be given to what you want to do and become the best you that you can be.

2. “If you don’t leave your past in the past, it will destroy your future. Live for what today has to offer, not for what yesterday has taken away.” – Unknown

When you spend your time fretting over your past, your future is the only thing that will suffer. You have to spend that time and energy, focusing on making your future great instead. Stop living for the past and start living for the present and the future.

3. “The thing about heartbreak, I realized, is it’s not really about waiting for things to stop hurting before you start moving. A broken heart can and will heal in time, but for time to actually do its job, I needed to acknowledge what I had lost, and move on.” – Ana Tejano

You can’t wait for the pain to go away before you begin to move on. Instead, you have to begin moving on if you ever want to heal. Accept what has happened and that the relationship has ended, and then you will feel yourself healing.

4. “When thinking about life, remember this: no amount of guilt can solve the past, and no amount of anxiety can change the future.” – Unknown

You can’t guilt yourself into changing the past. The past has already happened and cannot be changed no matter how badly you want it to. Being anxious won’t change it either, so try to stay positive so that you can move on.

5. “If life can remove someone you never dreamed of losing, it can replace them with someone you never dreamt of having.” – Unknown

Remember that you will be happy again one day, and you will find someone who makes you understand this loss. When you find them, you will realize that this breakup happened for a reason. You will find someone who is even better than you ever imagined spending time with.

6. “Those awful things are survivable because we are as indestructible as we believe ourselves to be… We need never be hopeless because we can never be irreparably broken.” – John Green

This moment may seem like it will end you, but it won’t. You will survive because you are strong and indestructible. As long as you can remember that, you will be able to move on and heal from this hard time.

7. “The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new.” – Dan Millman

Put your energy into your future. Stop fretting over the past and wasting your energy on things you cannot change. Instead, put that energy into building a new life and a new opportunity for yourself.

This is your time to shine, and you deserve to create the best future possible. If you can do this, you will realize that the break up is not the end of the world for you. Keep moving on and working toward a better future.

pop meme8. “Let go of your mistakes and failures. You can’t do anything about the past, but you can do something about right now.” – Joel Osteen

Make an effort to let go of the things that are hurting you. If you made a mistake in your relationship, you can’t change it now. So, accept it and accept what the outcome was.

You can’t change what has already been done, but you can change the future. Use those mistakes and failures as a learning opportunity, so it doesn’t happen in other relationships.

9. “They say heartbreak is a blessing. It helps you grow and turns you into a better, more powerful person. You become as strong as a beast.” – Priyanka Agarwal

There is no better time to grow and become stronger than after a breakup. You will have so much negative energy afterward and, when used wisely, it will help you. It will lead to you becoming better in all areas of your life, and you will learn your true strength.

10. “Eventually all the pieces fall into place… Until then, laugh at the confusion, live for the moment, and know that everything happens for a reason.” – Carrie Bradshaw

Life always works out the way it was supposed to. Keep moving, even when things get hard, and remember that it will all fall into place. In the meantime, laugh at the unexpectedness of life and bask in every moment you are given.

11. “The curtain has fallen on the past, the performance has gone dark, and the actors have moved on. Applaud the show, but don’t stay in the dark, hoping for a reprisal that will never come. It’s time to get up and move toward the next act, the one that stars YOU.” – Toni Sorenson

The past is already done, and you can’t go back and change it or re-live it. Everyone else has moved on from it, and it is time that you do the same. Enjoy the good moments when you look back, but you have to keep moving forward.

If you stay in one place, waiting for the past to return, you will stay in the dark, as Sorenson explains. Instead, you have to focus on what is coming next, which is your future. Focus your attention on that, instead, so that the next show will be even better.

12. “The best revenge is moving on and getting over it… Don’t give someone the satisfaction of watching you suffer.” – Unknown

Personal suffering will never bring anyone back into your life. Sometimes, unfortunately, that person may enjoy the knowledge that you are suffering. Make a conscious effort to move on; instead, you don’t give them this opportunity.

13. “Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.” – Marilyn Monroe

When a relationship ends, it normally happens because it wasn’t meant to be. Without that relationship ending, you would never be able to encounter the one meant for you. So, remember that the end of this relationship signifies that something better is out there.

14. “I’m choosing happiness over suffering. I know I am. I’m making space for the unknown future to fill up my life with yet-to-come surprises.” – Elizabeth Gilbert

As Gilbert explains, the unknown future ahead of you will be filled with surprises. Choose to move on and to do what makes you happy so that you can choose happiness over suffering, too.

15. “Real love moves freely in both directions. Don’t waste your time on anything else.” – Cheryl Strayed

When love is real, both people will feel the same way. There will be love flowing from both of you, and not from just one.

If the relationship you were in wasn’t this way, the breakup was likely for the best. Remind yourself that you now have a chance to find one that is. You will be happier, and your life will be more fulfilled than if you had stayed in a one-sided relationship.

quotes about moving onFinal Thoughts on Quotes About Moving on After a Breakup

Going through a breakup is hard, but these quotes about moving on will help you get through it. Just remember what you are worth and what you deserve. You will be happy again, and you will find someone who is even better for you.

Keep moving forward and working on making your future better. If you can do that, you will heal quicker than you thought possible. If you are struggling to do so, remember these quotes about moving on. They will give you all the reminders you need about why you have to move forward with your life.

You are stronger than you realize, and you can get through this. As long as you are moving forward and focusing on your future, things will work out for the best.

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