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Studies Reveal: Sugar Overload in Kids Causes Major Health Problems

A new study from the Queensland University of Technology confirmed the dangers of sugar overload in kids. The Australian research on mice found that children who overindulge in sugar risk lifelong health effects. They have a greater risk of obesity, hyperactivity, and cognitive impairment in adulthood. The study was published by Frontiers in Neuroscience on June 7.

The findings also revealed some positive news, however. When researchers gave the mice smaller daily doses of sucrose, their risk of sugar-induced weight gain and other health issues decreased. The results support WHO guidelines calling for a drastic sugar reduction for children and adults alike.

One of the lead authors, QUT neuroscientist Professor Selena Bartlett, revealed the seriousness of the sugar overload epidemic. She says many children, adolescents, and adults in more than 60 countries, including Australia, consume far too much sugar. Most people in these countries consume over four times the sugar (100g) recommended by the World Health Organization (25g per person per day).

“More work needs to be done in the investigation of the long-term effects of sugar on adolescents and adults, but our results with the mouse model are very promising,” said Professor Bartlett.

“Recent evidence shows obesity and impulsive behaviors caused by poor dietary habits leads to further overconsumption of processed food and beverages, but the long-term effects on cognitive processes and hyperactivity from sugar overconsumption, beginning at adolescence, are not known” said Professor Bartlett.

Sugar overload causes significant, negative physical and mental health changes.

sugar overload“Our study found long-term sugar consumption (a 12-week period with the mice which started the trial at five weeks of age) at a level that significantly boosts weight gain, elicits an abnormal and excessive stimulation of the nervous system in response to novelty. It also alters both episodic and spatial memory. These results are like those reported in attention deficit and hyperactivity disorders.

“Human trials would need to be done, but it suggests a link to the long-term overconsumption of sugar, beginning at a young age, which occurs more commonly in the Western Diet and an increased risk of developing persistent hyperactivity and neurocognitive deficits in adulthood,” she said.

Some experts have cited sugar as a substance of abuse, much like drugs and alcohol. In fact, one study found that sugar is eight times more addictive than cocaine. While scientists still debate the concept of ‘sugar addiction,’ it’s clear that sugar impacts brain functioning. Brain scans show that sugar consumption and drug abuse affect similar brain circuitry and molecular signaling pathways.

“People consume sugar and food to regulate energy balance, but also for pleasure and comfort. This hedonistic desire for palatable food is reward-driven, and overeating can impact upon and even override our ability to regulate,” Professor Bartlett said.

“It is increasingly considered that unrestricted consumption of high-sugar food and beverages within the Western Diet might be linked to the increased obesity epidemic. A strong association between attention-deficit hyperactivity disorders and being overweight or obese have also been revealed.

“Taken together, these data suggest that sugar-induced obesity may participate to the developing pathogenesis of ADHD-like symptoms in western countries. In children, high sugar consumption correlates with hyperactivity and in adults, with inattention and impulsivity,” she says.

The study confirms sugar overload impacts health far into adulthood

“What has been unclear, though, is whether chronic overconsumption of sucrose — starting from childhood — would have the same negative impact on our nervous system, emotions, or cognition throughout adulthood as other addictive drugs,” Bartlett said.

The study on mice revealed the answer for the first time in scientific history. Long-term sugar consumption in childhood causes dramatic weight gain, hyperactivity, and cognitive impairment in adulthood.

Co-lead author Dr. Arnauld Belmer commented about an interesting observation he made. Since the 1990s, overall sugar consumption has decreased. However, in that same timeframe, obesity rates have skyrocketed. So, is sugar still to blame for the obesity crisis?

“This rise in obesity rates could result from a delayed effect of excess sugar, suggesting that adult obesity may be driven by high sugar intake over a life span,” Dr. Belmer said.

“Interestingly, our investigation with the mice found reducing the daily sucrose intake four-fold did prevent sugar-induced increase in weight gain, supporting the WHO’s recommendation to restrict sugar intake by this amount would be effective. It could also limit the other negative consequences including hyperactivity and cognitive impairment.”

A few statistics on the sugar overload in America

 The average American eats over 150 pounds of sugar per year.

  • An average American child consumes over 228 pounds of sugar per year.
  • The average American consumes over 146 pounds of flour per year.
  • Flour raises blood sugar even more than sugar.

So, how much sugar should we eat?

According to the CDC, Americans 2 years and older should keep sugar consumption to 10% or less of their daily calories. So, if you eat 2,000 calories per day, no more than 200 calories should come from added sugars (about 12 teaspoons). Data shows that in 2017-18, children and adults ate an average of 17 teaspoons of sugar per day. Most of these calories came from sugary beverages, desserts, and snacks.

If we want to stop the sugar overload, it boils down to our daily choices. Always opt for fresh, whole foods instead of processed, sugary snacks. Avoid sugar-sweetened beverages as well, as liquid calories add up very quickly. Also, don’t fall for the “healthy” drinks like smoothies and fruit juices, as your body treats all sugar equally.

  • Drink more water instead of sodas.
  • Do your teens drink coffee or tea? Encourage them to skip adding sweeteners to their coffee or tea.
  • Teach them to choose a piece of naturally sweet fruit over baked treats.
  • Prep healthy snacks kids can take on the go. They will not feel tempted to pick up a candy bar for an afternoon boost.
  • Watch for hidden sugar in baked goods like bread or bagels.
  • Do the kids feel tempted to snack on a sweet treat out of boredom? Go for a walk together! Distraction with exercise can keep people out of the cookie jar.

You will grow accustomed to these small changes after a few days. Soon, these will become lifelong healthy habits.

low carbFinal thoughts on a study confirming the accuracy of WHO guidelines on the sugar overload epidemic

Kids and adults alike eat far too much sugar as a result of modern diets. Most of our food comes from labs nowadays, and these highly processed food-like substances have loads of sugar. They’re more convenient, but we pay for it with health problems down the road.

WHO guidelines and the Australian study have made it clear that cutting down on sugar improves health. Your cognitive performance, weight, and nervous system will all benefit from eating less sugar.

Researchers Explain How Catnip Could Replace Chemical Mosquito Spray

Researchers from Northwestern University and Lund University collaborated on a study that shows how catnip could ward off insects. They found that catnip had the same effect as chemical mosquito sprays such as DEET. The paper was published March 4. 2021 in the journal Current Biology.

Companies often add catnip to snacks and cat toys because of its euphoric, hallucinogenic effects on cats. However, people have been using catnip for thousands of years to ward off insects as well. Recent research found that catnip compounds have the same effect on insects as synthetic insect repellants.

Researchers didn’t know what caused insects’ revulsion to catnip, a member of the mint family, until recently. In this study, the research teams found the mechanism behind mosquitoes’ aversion to the plant.

“Catnip and its active ingredient, Nepetalactone, have been used for millennia to ward off insect pests, at least since the time of Pliny, the Elder,” said Marcus C. Stensmyr, associate professor at Lund University and co-corresponding author. “But why Catnip is so potent on such a broad range of insect species has remained unknown.”

The most common method of controlling mosquito populations is the use of insecticides. However, those don’t target other insect species. Synthetic insect repellants such as DEET inhibit taste and smell receptors in mosquitoes so that they can’t recognize human prey. Catnip targets a different receptor in insects but proves equally effective in deterring them.

“We discovered that Catnip and its active ingredient Nepetalactone activate the irritant receptor TRPA1, an ancient pain receptor found in animals as diverse as flatworms, fruit flies, and humans,” said Marco Gallio, an associate professor of neurobiology in the Weinberg College of Arts and Sciences. “We now think Catnip is so aversive to so many insect species because it activates this widespread irritant receptor.”

Catnip may play a crucial role in warding off insect-borne diseases triggered by climate change.

Previous studies by the Gallio Lab and others found a common receptor among humans, insects, and many other animal species. All three possess a type of transient receptor potential ankyrin 1 (TRPA1) ion channel. This protein is commonly called the “wasabi receptor,” which senses environmental irritants such as pain and itch. However, catnip only seems to work on insects and animals like cats, but not humans.

“What is particularly interesting is that, unlike wasabi or garlic compounds that also activate these receptors in humans, catnip appears to selectively activate the insect receptor,” Gallio said. “This explains why humans are indifferent to it, and provides a serious advantage for its use as a repellent.”

Researchers don’t know exactly why cats react so strongly to catnip. Some studies have suggested that catnip affects the reward system in a cat’s brain, triggering the euphoric reaction. One of the catnip’s active ingredients is believed to interact with a molecular component in this part of a cat’s brain.

The research team believes that the same plant which attracts cats could repel insects like mosquitoes. As the climate continues to warm, it will create the perfect conditions for insects that carry diseases such as mosquitoes. Figuring out how to quell the mosquito population with repellants is crucial to preventing disease spread.

“Mosquitos, in particular those that act as vector for disease, are becoming a bigger problem as climate change creates attractive conditions for them farther north and south of the equator,” Stensmyr said. “Plant-derived compounds represent a new emerging approach to developing insect repellents, as plants have long known how to protect themselves from insect pests.”

Gallio says that plant-based repellants such as catnip have a much lower cost than synthetic chemicals. Plus, more people have access to them. In developing countries where mosquito-borne illnesses are rampant, catnip could make a huge difference due to these reasons.

The experiment that showed how catnip repels a variety of insect species

Gallio’s lab at Northwestern mostly focuses on studying the common Lab fruit fly Drosophila’s sensory systems. They investigate what controls their responses to external temperature and pain. However, in Lund’s Stensmyr lab, researchers mainly study mosquitoes and other insect vectors of human disease.

Both teams of researchers studied different insect species to understand why catnip repels insects but doesn’t affect humans. The team ran several tests, including giving mosquitoes food covered with a nylon sock soaked in catnip. They also performed experiments involving a wind tunnel and one where volunteers placed their hands inside a cage with mosquitoes. Some participants had catnip oil rubbed on their hands, and the other group did not.

Gallio believes that the mechanism they found in the study provides evidence for the development of new insect repellants. He says that these repellants will likely utilize knowledge about how to target the mosquito irritant receptor selectively. They will continue to study the mechanism behind how the catnip affects this receptor in insects.

“This is an entry point to study how this molecule works on the receptor,” he said. “Once we understand its chemistry and how it interacts with the receptor, we could design even more powerful and selectively targeted molecules.”

Repellants using catnip or other plant derivatives would positively impact the environment as well. Since so many people use repellants containing DEET, it ends up in waterways and can negatively affect marine life. It can also cause rashes and irritation in some people with sensitive skin. So, a plant-based product would not only help the environment but improve safety in humans as well.

catnipFinal thoughts: Catnip may ward off insects as effectively as chemical mosquito spray

Most people only think of catnip as the plant that gets cats “high” due to its hallucinogenic effect. However, researchers have found that this same plant can repel mosquitoes as well. In fact, the study showed it had the same effect as synthetic mosquito spray in warding off insects.

The team found that catnip interacts with an insect receptor that detects environmental irritants, called TRPA1. While the catnip doesn’t affect humans, this receptor becomes activated in insects exposed to it. In the future, perhaps catnip could replace all synthetic sprays, making a small positive impact on the environment.

20 Daily Affirmations for Peace to Enter Your Life

Throughout your life, you will experience many obstacles and hardships. With those experiences, you might find that you no longer feel peace in your life. Luckily, affirmations for peace can help you find balance again, allowing you to be happy and enjoy life.

Even when your life is difficult, you can find inner peace and calmness. It might be hard to focus on the positive when things aren’t going as planned, but you can learn to shift your mindset.

Daily affirmations for peace will help you train your mind to remain positive.

Twenty Daily Affirmations for Peace

Each morning when you wake up, choose a positive affirmation or two to repeat that day. Implement them into your morning routine, finding quiet time alone to say them aloud.

affirmations for peace1. I am comfortable with myself and the life I am living.

When you are comfortable with your life and the person that you are, you will experience more peace in your life. You will know that your life is the one that was meant for you. This knowledge will reassure you as you go through your day.

2. I choose to be calm and at peace, and nothing can stop me.

You are the only person that can decide the way that you feel. If you choose calm and peace, then those are the feelings that you will experience. Nothing can stop you, and nothing can hold you back, as long as you set your mind on it and don’t waver.

3. I feel more peaceful with every breath I take.

As you repeat this phrase, focus on your breathing between repetitions. As you breathe in, envision peace filling your body. On the exhale, think of negativity and stress leaving your body.

By using this positive phrase with visualization, you are ensuring that it works for you. Every breath will make you feel a little better, and the benefits will stick with you all day.

4. I live a wonderful, fulfilling life.

Reminding yourself of the great things in your life will help you find peace. You don’t need to have a bunch of pretty little things to have a beautiful life. Your life is full of meaningful people and things already.

When you forget how great your life is, implement this daily affirmation into your morning routine. It will help guide you on a peaceful path throughout the day because you will recognize the beauty in your life.

5. I feel joy and happiness as I work on my daily tasks.

If you feel joy and happiness as you go about your day, your life will be much more peaceful. You will find the beauty in the common parts of your day, and it will help you see things you didn’t before. Your daily tasks will be enjoyable, even if they are mundane and repetitive.

6. I am safe right now.

If you feel safe, you can experience peace in your life. Remember that you are safe right now, and you will feel a calmness take over your body. Anytime you are unexplainably afraid, use this affirmation to remind yourself that everything is okay right now.

7. I can do anything that I set my mind to and work hard on.

Anything you want in life is possible if you are determined to make it happen. If you want a peaceful life, do whatever it takes to make it happen. Keep your sight on the goal, and work hard every day until you achieve it.

8. I release all feelings of anxiety, worry, and stress.

When you release these negative feelings, you will experience peace in your life again. If you let these things go, you will find balance and harmony as your energy fields open. It will help if you visualize the negative energy leaving your body as you repeat this affirmation, too.

9. I can overcome any obstacle or hardship that gets in my way.

Life is unexpected, and things don’t always work out the way you hoped. Even with meticulous planning, obstacles pop up and hinder the perfect plan. Recognize your ability to overcome any hardships in your life, and you will be more resilient during them.

With resiliency comes peace, as you will find helpful solutions to the problem. Even when coming up with a new plan isn’t ideal, you find a way to make it happen. When you live this way, it is easy for peace to enter your life.

10. I release fear and embrace peaceful feelings.

Releasing fear opens up space for peace to enter your body. Remember that you are safe and that things will work out the way they were supposed to. If you can acknowledge those two facts, you can release built-up fear and embrace peace instead.

pop meme11. I trust myself and the decisions I make.

If you can trust yourself and your decisions, you will feel a sense of peace wash over you. As long as you have kept your eye on your goal, you can rest assured that your decision was the correct one. With self-trust, anything is possible, and you will live a meaningful life.

12. I think positively in all settings and situations.

With positive thinking, peace is always possible. No matter the situation you are in, you can turn negative thoughts into positive ones. If you repeat this affirmation every day, you will have a positive mindset right from the start.

Anytime you feel your mindset slipping back into negative thoughts, use this affirmation again. Take a quiet break and say it a few times to rebalance your thoughts and energy.

13. I am calm and at peace with my life.

When you tell yourself that you are calm and at peace, then you will experience those feelings. Your mind believes anything you convince it of, so repeat this phrase until your brain recognizes this affirmation as the truth. You can choose your feelings at any time, so decide on peace every time.

14. I welcome and accept change.

Change is inevitable in life, and if you don’t accept it, it can disrupt your peace. Instead of thinking negatively about change, learn to welcome it.

Embrace the changes as they happen and recognize them as a new beginning instead of an end. When you accept it rather than fight it, the change will be beneficial and turn out to be a good experience.

15. I trust that everything is working out the way it is supposed to.

Everything will work out as long as you trust the universe. Things happen that you didn’t plan for, but it is all part of the plan to get you where you belong. Trust that everything is going as it is supposed to, and you will experience a feeling of peace.

16. I make beneficial decisions for my family.

If you have a family, making the right decisions for them might be a source of worry and anxiety. When you make the decision with your family in mind, then it is the right one. Find peace in the thought that you do your best for them and that they are taken care of.

17. I am confident and calm throughout all life has to offer.

When unexpected situations in life happen, staying confident and calm is your key to finding peace. Use this affirmation to remain positive through it all and make decisions with a clear mind. Life is an experience, and it offers you more than you expected.

18. I am thankful for a new day and another chance at life.

With gratitude for each new day, you will have an easy time finding peace. Acknowledge that each day is another chance to live, and embrace it as a gift from the universe. Your days aren’t guaranteed, so always be thankful for each one.

19. I love and accept myself exactly as I am right now.

With self-love and acceptance, peace will quickly enter your life. Don’t be afraid to be who you are, and embrace every unique quality you possess. You are perfect just as you are right now, so use this affirmation as a reminder each day.

20. I feel all negative energy leaving my body.

If you tell yourself that you can feel the negative energy escaping your body, it will happen. You might even experience a tingling feeling or lightness if you visualize the negativity leaving. Anytime you feel tense, try this affirmation and see if it helps.

affirmation for peaceFinal Thoughts on Daily Affirmations for Peace to Enter Your Life

Using daily affirmations for peace to enter your life is effective and beneficial. The positive phrases help you change your thinking and eliminate or reduce negative thinking. Use these affirmations for peace each morning to start your day on a positive note.

As you go through your day, use the affirmations for peace whenever you feel like you need a positivity boost. They can help you overcome any stress or obstacles you encountered, and you will be more resilient.

Choose the affirmations for peace that resonate with you the most, and write them down. Keep the written copy somewhere that you will see it often so you can reference it each day.

Is Drinking Tea or Coffee Healthier? 6 Pros and Cons of Each

Americans favor coffee and British tea, but is one beverage better for you than the other? A cup of java alone has zero calories, while the average cup of tea will give you a measly ten calories per cup. So, which drink is tea or coffee healthier, and is there one that you should avoid?

All About Coffee

According to PBS, having a good cup of Joe has been around since the 13th century. The funny thing is that there is some controversy about how it was discovered. It’s believed that an Ethiopian man stumbled on it when his goats were eating the red, fragrant berries of this bush.

He noticed that the goats were energetic after consuming the berries, and he tried it for himself. He, too, felt the burst of energy that came from the fruit. Then the story states that a monk wanted to give it to fellow monks to see if they had a similar reaction.

The monks were awake all night long. Things progressed as word spread of this plant’s abilities, and eventually, it became one of the most popular morning drinks for these reasons.

So tea or coffee–which is the healthiest? Let’s start by looking at the benefits and drawbacks of coffee.

tea or coffeePros

Today, coffee is one of the most traded commodities on the market, second only to crude oil. Here are some advantages to drinking Java:

1. Burns Fat

Everyone is fighting the battle of the bulge, it seems, but could drinking some Java be the answer to burning fat? It turns out that there is a component in this brew that helps to abolish fat cells, which leads to improved health.

2. Circulation Improvement

One of the least known facts about drinking coffee is the improved circulation that it provides. The benefits begin to work before it’s consumed, as just holding a piping hot cup in your hands improves blood circulation. The warmth from the cup spreads through the body from contact.

3. Weight Loss Aid

Did you know that many people drink a cup of Joe when they want to lose weight? Not only does it make you feel fuller for more extended periods, but the high levels of magnesium and potassium in it can increase the metabolism. It can also help regulate your glucose levels, which is a good thing if you’re struggling with diabetes.

4. Accelerated Hair Growth

Men and women have fought the battle of baldness for centuries. Who knew java could be the answer to their problems? Most shampoos that promote hair growth include caffeine, which is why it’s not a bad idea to rinse your hair with this elixir.

5. Lowers Risk of Premature Death

Would you be more inclined to drink coffee if you found out it could reduce your chances of premature death by up to ten percent? A study referenced in the National Institute of Health found that folks who consume three cups a day can reap these benefits.

6. Boosts Physical Performance

Since the red berries of this plant contain caffeine, it stands to reason that it has stimulating effects. Those who need a little enhancement before a performance can drink a cup of Joe for the energy boost they need.

Cons

While there are many advantages to drinking coffee, there are also some disadvantages to consider. The drawbacks are as follows:

1. Many Poor Processed Brands

As with most things, there are good brands, and then there are those that use lackluster beans to produce a more inexpensive product. When manufacturing companies use beans that are sub-quality, it introduces more toxins into what you consume.

2. Causes Restlessness

People who consume more than three cups per day may find it hard to sleep at night. Caffeine consumption causes restlessness, especially when you consume more than 400 milligrams in a day.

3. Heart Palpitations

Some folks experience heart palpitations when they drink java. Those who are prone to anxiety or are sensitive to the effects of caffeine should avoid this beverage.

4. Drinking Too Much Can Be Fatal

It sounds strange to hear that a cup of Joe can kill you, but it’s not just one cup, as it’s the overconsumption that can harm you. According to the New York Times, drinking 80-100 milligrams of caffeine can prove lethal.

5. Harmful to Fetus

The high levels of caffeine in this drink can be harmful to a fetus, which is why it’s recommended that expectant mothers only drink one cup per day.

6. Commonly Causes Bedwetting

Children may be inclined to want a drink of their parent’s Joe, but it can cause kids between the ages of 5-8 to wet the bed. It’s a drink that’s better reserved for the older crowd.

coffeeAll About Tea

So let’s take the debate to decide between tea or coffee to the other side of the argument–tea.

During the Shang dynasty, the Yunnan region of China began using tea as a health tonic. According to Lipton, the history of this beverage is just as rich as its taste.

It all began when Emperor Shen Nung was boiling a pot of water. A leaf from a plant fell into the water, making it fragrant and delicious. Things progressed, and this beverage made its way around the world.

Have you ever heard of the famous afternoon tea times as often observed by the British? It was Anna Russell, the Duchess of Bedford, who invented this time-honored treasure. During the 18th century, these beverage prices were heavily inflated and taxed by the British government.

Sir Thomas Lipton is responsible for marketing and bringing this drink to the masses. He was a young boy whose parents owned a grocery store. He learned that marketing tricks and determination could bring this beverage to the world.

Pros

You’ve heard that drinking some varieties like black and green teas is good for you, but here are some other advantages to consuming this beverage you may not have known.

1. Reduces Inflammation

Tea has polyphenols and Catechins, which have a natural ability to reduce inflammation in the body. As natural antioxidants, these compounds also prevent cell damage.

2. Boost Fat Burning

Both the caffeine content and the natural chemicals in this drink can boost your metabolic rate. According to a study conducted by The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, it can increase fat-burning abilities by up to 17 percent.

3. Reduced Cancer Risk

When there is oxidative damage inside the body, it increases the risks of some cancers. Thankfully, this drink has antioxidants that help to reduce chronic inflammation and oxidative damage, according to The National Institute of Health.

4. Reduces Bad Breath

Who knew that chronic halitosis could be combated with this hot drink? One of the most common bacteria found in the mouth is Streptococcus mutans, but drinking this beverage prohibits this bacteria’s growth. When you have fewer bacteria in your mouth, you won’t have that chronic smell. The National Institute of Health references many studies on this matter.

5. Increases Longevity

A study in Japan followed 40,530 participants to see if there was a correlation between drinking this beverage and having longevity. The 11-year period proved that women have a 23 percent reduced risk and men a 12 percent reduction. It seems that having a cup of authentic matcha tea a few times a day is wise.

6. Prevents Type II Diabetes

Controlling blood sugar levels is essential for many folks. The caffeine content of this drink, as well as the ability to improve insulin sensitivity, shows that it’s a wise choice when you’re thirsty.

• Cons

While there are many benefits to sipping tea, there are also some drawbacks to consider. The downsides are as follows:

1. Teeth Staining

One of the biggest issues with those who regularly consume this elixir is they will notice teeth staining. This is a major problem when people have pits and fissures in their teeth from poor oral hygiene. Additionally, it’s the tannic acid in this beverage that seems to damage enamel.

2. Causes Gastric Ulcers

If you drink too much of this hot beverage, then you could develop ulcers. This is especially true in those who already have issues with an overproduction of acid in their stomach.

3. Can Cause Anemia

It’s recommended that you consume this drink at least one hour after a meal due to the high levels of tannic acid. These acids tend to cause iron deficiency and anemia, reducing the body’s ability to absorb iron.

4. Increases Anxiety

Like a cup of Joe, drinking too much of this beverage can also increase your anxiety. It should be noted that the caffeine content in this hot drink is much less than java.

5. Nausea

Some of the compounds found in this beverage can make many people nauseous, especially if you drink it regularly.

6. Dizziness

Though it’s not the most common side effect, dizziness has been reported by folks who have a sensitivity to caffeine. It’s believed this only occurs when people consume more than 6-12 cups in a day.

tea or coffeeFinal Thoughts on the Debate  Over Whether Tea of Coffee is Healthier

If you’re having a hard time deciding between a piping hot mug tea or coffee, it seems that there are many benefits. Thankfully, the cons of drinking either one of these beverages are mild and only experienced when people consume too much in a day. So, bottoms up as the health benefits cannot be ignored.

This Committed Couple Met in ADVERSITY Then Wrote Their Own LOVE STORY

When Riona Kelly met her personal trainer Keith, she never imagined the love story that would unfold. Ten months after Riona suffered a spinal stroke, she decided to look for a personal trainer to help her regain strength. She wanted a sense of normalcy in her life again, but unfortunately, most people she reached out to turned her down.

“Everyone that I’d reach out to had refused to train me because I was paralyzed – I had a spinal cord injury,” Riona explained. “So, as I connected with Keith, I just presumed that he knew that I had a spinal cord injury, but he didn’t, and I didn’t add that into my message.”

When Keith met her and learned of her stroke, he didn’t see that as a setback. He decided to train her anyway and help her become the best version of herself. Keith said she slowly but surely made progress with his guidance and support. The day Riona did her first squat since her injury, they both celebrated and saw that as a huge milestone.

Keith not only went to her house for personal training sessions; he also went on walks with her. He said that after getting to know each other, they just clicked. Their love story began in such an unexpected way, but the best ones usually do!

Keeping the faith after a significant setback

“We were speaking about Christ and faith and never giving up,” Keith said.

Despite Riona’s life-changing injury, she never gave up faith in overcoming it. Her doctors told her she had a 0% chance of ever walking again, but she and Keith didn’t accept that. Together, they knew she could do whatever she set her mind to, with a little faith and determination. Riona is thankful for her injury because it made her the woman she is today.

Little did she know, the adversity she went through would one day turn into a love story.

“Without the storm, without the struggle, you’d never realize who you were meant to be,” Riona said. “You’d never realize a fire in your belly. You’d never do the things that you want to do.”

She went on to say that everything we go through pushes us forward to the next chapter. It gives us momentum and drive to overcome obstacles and keep growing. Often, the universe gives us adversity to learn a lesson and lead us to something better.

Riona says:

“Don’t fear the storm. Embrace the storm and come out stronger.”

Because of Keith, Riona will never give up. Because of him, she has a renewed faith and a new lease on life. He inspires her to keep going, even if, on some days, the negatives seem overpowering. She never imagined the beautiful love story that would await her after meeting Keith. All the other trainers rejected her, but Keith saw something special in her from the beginning.

“I’m going to beat whatever I’m going through because you’ve given me that drive to do so,” she says of Keith.

Keith says his family and faith motivate him to continue on this journey. He promised Riona he would never give up on her, and he kept that promise. Her strength truly inspires him, and Riona admires Keith’s determination and loyalty. Their love story sounds like something out of a movie, and we couldn’t be happier for them!


After her stroke, Riona’s ex-husband of 14 years decided to leave her, and she was devastated. That was when she needed him the most, and he left her alone with a disability and five kids to care for. After she got out of the hospital, her children and her friend Sarah supported her during her recovery. Riona never imagined being able to walk again, let alone get involved with another love story.

How Riona has blossomed thanks to Keith and her unwavering faith

Despite all of these challenges, Riona continued to have hope that she could recover. At the beginning of her rehabilitation, however, she had a difficult time coping with it all. A lot of days, she said she really didn’t want to live anymore, but her children kept her going. Learning to use a wheelchair was difficult, especially when people stared at her when she’d go out in public.

However, Riona didn’t want to give up despite the doctors’ predictions about her being paralyzed forever. She somehow knew that she could one day walk again if she kept the faith. After doing hours of physiotherapy, Riona finally took her first steps on a parallel bar. She didn’t have feeling in her legs, and every step took all her energy, but that didn’t matter.

She was just thrilled to be walking again. Every day, she continued building her strength, and she finally got released from the hospital after 4 months. When Riona reached out to personal trainer and ex-rugby star Keith, her whole life changed. He helped her get stronger and also gave her the love she truly deserved.


After going through so much, Riona stayed strong through it all and persevered. Riona’s children love Keith, and he fits right in with the big, loving family. With the help of Keith and her wheelchair, Riona has since completed two marathons. She also can walk without assistance now and only needs her wheelchair for going long distances.

She’s even able to work out in the gym with Keith’s help and is better and stronger than ever.

Final thoughts: This beautiful couple turned adversity into a heartwarming love story

Keith and Riona’s story is the definition of true love: two people who believe in each other and never give up. Riona was making progress on her own, but without her husband around, it wasn’t easy. When Keith came into her life, she had another shot at a love story and a chance to feel happy again. Keith has been a knight in shining armor for Riona, and we wish them both the best in their journey.

What do you think of this beautiful love story? Please share with us in the comments!

6 Reasons Why Taking Revenge on Your Ex Is Always a Bad Idea

How many times have you heard that all is fair in love and war? However, some battles are better left to karma. You might be bent on taking revenge. But that’s a bad idea.

When someone does you wrong, you must remember that it’s not your place to get even with them after the breakup. In most cases, you should look at it as you’ve dodged a bullet because someone who would do you dirty is no one you want to be with for life.

Perhaps you were cheated on by your ex, or they may have become verbally and physically abusive. You may also be facing a case where they stole money and ruined your credit. Whatever wrong has been done to you, you must find a way to move on without getting revenge.

Who doesn’t love the country/pop song where the jilted lover takes a Louisville Slugger to both headlights and pops the tires? The premise is maybe next time, he or she won’t feel inclined to cheat. However, while an entertaining song, it shows getting revenge on an inanimate object.

It probably made the girl feel better to vent her frustration on his car, but it will do nothing to resolve the pain in her heart. Also, can you do that much damage to a vehicle and not face legal repercussions?

Six Reasons Why You Should Never Try to Exact Revenge on An Ex

revengeBefore you start down the road of getting revenge on someone who has done you wrong, you need to think long and hard about your choices. Here are some excellent reasons why you should never try to get even with an ex-lover, no matter what they’ve done.

1. It’s Not Good for Your Health

Sure, you think it will make you feel better to go after your ex, but the truth is that all the stress you feel will affect your health. You’ve probably heard that stress kills, but do you know how?

According to the American Institute of Stress, when your body is under pressure, it releases hormones that put you into “fight or flight” mode. If you stay in this mode too long, then it can lead to heart attacks and strokes. So, don’t sweat this stuff and let the universe take care of things.

2. It Takes Your Energy

Seeking revenge on someone takes plenty of energy, and this is the energy you can use towards positive things. When you focus on negativity and the harmful factors in your life, it inhibits you from pushing through to the good stuff.

Sure, it hurts to be dumped or done wrong, but you can rise above this with optimism. Always use your powers for good and not evil, and watch how much better you feel about yourself.

3. It’s a Bitter Act

You want to be blessed and have a good life. You want a lovely family, a promising career, and plenty of money. How can you ask the Universe to give you all these good things if you have bitterness and hate in your heart?

Releasing the power that this person has over you will make you feel better, but it also removes that bitterness you harbor inside. Have you ever heard that bitterness could cause cancer?

Many people don’t know that cancer has an emotional component. According to an article published in The Daily Mail, Professor Wrosch, from Montreal’s Concordia University Department of Psychology, has done numerous studies on the matter. His research shows that bitterness, left to fester, can have a dramatic effect on your health.

When these feelings live inside your soul, it causes biological dysregulation. This abnormality can cause mental or physical illness. The immune system is weakened, and your entire body feels the strain of bitterness. One of the conditions that it can cause is malignancy, though there are many others.

4. It’s Linked to Denial

Did you know that it’s much easier to forgive others than it’s to forgive yourself? There is no perfect relationship. Even if you were done wrong, you must admit that there were things that you didn’t always do right. No one is perfect, and you must take responsibility for your actions.

It’s so much easier to be mad at someone else than it’s to face your shortcomings. Additionally, you may be in denial about the situation. If you still love the person, part of you may think that this may get their attention.

It’s a distorted perception because after busting out headlights or flattening their tires, it’s not going to make them come running back. It may solidify why they left in the first place.

5. It’s an Act of Self-Destruction

You can get even with someone in many ways, but this act might get you in trouble. Assume you did flatten their tires to show them how much you’re hurting. Now, what if someone captured this act on a security camera, and it was turned over to the police; getting even just got you in trouble.

It’s illegal to destroy someone else’s property, and you could also get yourself in trouble for spreading vicious lies. It’s just not worth the fines, court costs, and repair bills. Think wisely, as getting even may cost you significantly.

6. It Doesn’t Change Anything

You plot, and you scheme, and you do everything in your power to get even with this individual. However, what does it do for you? Sure, you might have a slight feeling of euphoria at the thought that you made them suffer as you did. Consequently, it’s not going to change a thing.

You won’t erase the wrong that’s been done to you, and you won’t make them feel bad for the way they acted. All you’re doing is being destructive for self-gratification, which is always short-lived.

pop memeSix Better Ways to Heal Your Heart

You’ve experienced a breakup, and your heart is broken into a million pieces. While getting revenge isn’t the best way to handle things, what can you do to resolve the pain you feel in your heart?

1. Give Yourself Time

You didn’t fall in love overnight, nor are you going to fall out of love so quickly. Time is the best remedy for pain, as it lessens with each day that passes by. Don’t expect that you will be over a five-year relationship in a week.

2. Surround Yourself with Support

When you isolate yourself from everyone, it makes the pain more intense. Other people help you cope with the heartache you feel.

Call your friends and family members and get out of the house. Nothing good happens staying cooped up behind four walls.

3. Get Counseling

You’ve probably asked yourself 100 questions about your relationship. It’s best to get a professional, mutual person to talk with you. They can help you identify how to do better in the next relationship and pinpoint what you had no control over.

If you’re playing the blame game with yourself, counseling is an excellent place to start the healing process.

4. Get Back Out There

The best way to get over one person is to move on with another one. While you may not be interested in marriage and a family, no law says you can’t have fun. The dating pool is full of many ready, willing, and able to love you the way you deserve.

It would help if you had someone make you feel beautiful or handsome and show you that you have worth. Who knows, the next person you meet might be the one that sweeps you off your feet.

5. Let Karma Do Her Thing

The wonderful thing about doing nothing is that you allow karma to step in and take care of it for you. Remember the “Golden Rule” that you should always do unto others how you want to be treated; well, the Universe seems to enforce it. Karma can get involved in situations and turn their life upside down, and you don’t have to lift a finger.

6. Turn to Your Faith

Most people have a spiritual sense. It’s best to turn to your faith to help you get through the darkest days of your life. Believing that someone bigger and more powerful can help is just the thing you may need to get you through this tough time.

revengeFinal Thoughts on Why Taking Revenge on an Ex Is A Bad Plan

Anger and bitterness over a lost love will contaminate your life, while the person who hurt you will sail into the sunset without care. Forgiveness will free you of the ties that bind, and forgiving them is not about them at all; it’s all about you. This doesn’t mean you have to let them back into your life, but you’re doing this to make you a better person.

Count this betrayal as a lesson learned, and you should strive to do better in your next relationship. Learn to identify red flags of problems and get out before things accelerate to the boiling point. In most cases, you might not have seen the breakup or hurtful situation coming. Some lessons life teaches are hard.

Sure, you want to get revenge because you feel it will make you feel better. Sadly, it’s a bandage that will soon fall off, and the gaping wound in your heart will still exist. Cry if you need to, talk to a friend to fill the void, but don’t get revenge. It’s just not worth it.

4 Habits That Make It Easier to Keep Going (Instead of Giving Up)

Everyone is going through their journey in life, and most of them have a big goal somewhere at the end of the road. You probably have one of your own, too, if not several. They’re not always easy to achieve, but you do your best to get to them anyway.

But what happens when your initial motivation and inspiration wears thin? What happens when you’re not sure if you want to keep going? How can you stop yourself from falling apart? Here are four ways to keep going when you think about giving up.

1.    Get In Touch With Your Emotions

Some feelings are driving your desire to give up. Avoiding or ignoring them will only drive you further away from persistence. What does this mean? Well, it’s time to get in touch with yourself and what you feel.

The emotions that you experience are happening for a reason. It would be best if you acknowledged them to work through them. Remember, your feelings come from something that concerns you, even if it’s subconscious. Working to find the roots of those emotions brings you closer to yourself and tells you what you need to do. Here are some tips:

giving up·         Acknowledge The Importance Of Your Emotions

Mental health and positive thinking determine a lot of things, from motivation to physical health. It’s essential to recognize that what you feel is just as concerned about your health as a physical health threat. By remembering this importance, you allow yourself to trust and value how you feel.

·         Pinpoint Why You Want To Give Up

There are so many reasons that you may be feeling the desire to put an end to things. It’s essential to determine what that cause is. Are you tired? Afraid? Bored? Discouraged? Traumatized? Apathetic? Depressed? These details determine what you can do next to help yourself.

·         Get Comfortable With Discomfort

There will always be points in your life where you’re outside your comfort zone, and those points are necessary for progress. If this fuels your desire to give up, it’s time to take a step back and acknowledge the necessity of discomfort. You will have to practice being uncomfortable with new and unfamiliar situations if you want to progress in any area of life!

·         Do Not Let Hopelessness Win

No matter what you do, do not give in to feelings of hopelessness. Your emotions may not always reflect reality, so think about if your feelings are validated by actual circumstances or are the product of unrealistic anxieties. Acknowledging your emotions doesn’t mean being a doormat for them, so don’t let them win if they aren’t warranted. Instead, show yourself the evidence that your emotions aren’t grounded in facts and power on through.

2.    Plan Ahead

When it feels like your world is spiraling out of control, sometimes what your brain needs is to help make it stop being so overwhelmed. The desire to give up is often the cause of being unable to think about the road ahead of you without being frightened, feeling hopeless, or feeling like there’s too much or that you’re not capable of your dreams.

·         Create A Schedule

A schedule allows you to build routines around everyday tasks. These tasks will become more comfortable and feel more natural the more often you do them. By planning a schedule, you’re assigning clear responsibilities to yourself that can make the future seem less intimidating.

·         Set Goals

Setting goals often has a positive effect on you because it helps you keep organized, visualize success, and hold yourself accountable. When you feel like giving up, it can motivate you while showing you how your goals can be manageable. Try setting several different purposes, but start small. Plan a few simple short term goals and then work your way up. If a goal becomes overwhelming, break it down into even smaller goals!

·         Learn And Adapt

Your plans don’t have to be set in stone. Apply lessons you learn along the way to your goals and adapt them to be more suited to you and your desired destination as you go. The knowledge that plans don’t have to be set in stone and that you aren’t ruining your chances by making a mistake can spur you forward in difficult times.

·         Know Challenges Are Normal

All roads get a little bumpy. You will face challenges, and that’s part and parcel of the process of going towards what you want. Plan for those challenges and expect them to pop up now and then!

·         Create A Backup

Anxious about everything falling apart? Make a backup plan. This way, you’ll know that you have yourself covered if things go south. Just make sure that you don’t jump into your backup preemptively!

pop quote3.    Remind Yourself Why You’re Here

The so-called grind is vital to progress, but some people focus so much on the grind that they lose sight of why they began that grind in the first place. Remembering your journey’s humble beginnings is a great way to bring yourself up and inspire yourself all over again. Here are some ways to do so:

·         Remember Your Enthusiasm

You were likely excited about this goal when you began. Think about that excitement, the thrill of the upcoming adventure, and the single-minded belief in your ability to accomplish your dreams. What’s changed? You are every bit as capable of it now, if not more so! Bring your roots back into perspective and remember those positive feelings.

·         Visualize Success

Think about the accomplishments you want and visualize them. Think about all the beautiful things you desire and how great it’ll feel to get there. If you give up now, you’ll never taste that success – so don’t give up! Keep going and grinding and make that visualization a reality!

·         Think About The Good

Struggles and challenges seem like dark clouds, but silver linings always exist. Think about all the things you can be grateful for. Think about how strong you are, how fortunate you are to have found a goal, and how each struggle teaches you more and more so that your future is brighter. With this kind of positive thinking, things that could make you give up are transformed into valuable educational experiences.

·         Think Of New Reasons

You will change as a person over time, and that’s okay. In the beginning, what motivated you may not motivate you anymore, or it may no longer be valid. That’s okay! Find new reasons that you want to go towards your goal! If your old reasons were unhealthy, find intrinsic healthy reasons to keep going.

But what happens if you try to remember why you’re here and find that you no longer want that goal? What happens if you don’t have a good reason, or if all your senses have to do with sad things, like pleasing others? Know that it is also okay to evaluate your dreams and see if you want to continue them. If you decide it’s no longer your path, you’re not giving up – you’re starting a new chapter in life.

4.    Be Kind To Yourself

It’s easy to be hard on yourself when times are rough, expecting a lot of your mind and body, and being upset with yourself when you fall short. Ironically, this may be one of the reasons you want to give up in the first place!

If you only criticize yourself again and again, how can you expect to stay inspired and succeed? You likely already know that being harsh on others isn’t an excellent way to help them grow as people, so why would you apply that to yourself? Worse still, if you would never speak to others with the harshness you use on yourself, what’s the rationale for such self-cruelty?

People often forget that things like self-compassion are just as crucial as being hard-working. If you don’t practice this kindness, you’ll lose your positive thinking and wind up in a bad situation. Here are some ways to be kinder to yourself so you can keep going when you think about giving up:

·         Celebrate Even Small Victories

Every win is one worth celebrating. If you don’t allow yourself to appreciate your little victories, you’re indirectly telling yourself that small accomplishments aren’t good enough. You should remember that your successes are all amazing, and you should pat yourself on the back for them!

·         Stop The Comparisons

If you beat yourself up because you’re not like someone else, you’re imposing unfair and unreasonable standards on yourself – and also on the other person! Each individual has their journey and their own experiences that lend themselves to where they are today. You cannot possibly know everything others are going through, so focus on building yourself up instead of comparing yourself to others.

·         Make Your Expectations Realistic

If your expectations are too high, you’re forcing yourself to adhere to impossible standards. No matter how hard you try, you’re setting yourself up for failure, which is incredibly unfair to you. Make sure that your expectations are challenging to achieve but not flat-out impossible!

·         Remember How Far You’ve Come

When you feel like giving up, it’s easy to forget how much you’ve grown. Most change happens gradually, so you may not even notice your improvements until you stop and think about them. Reflect on your past accomplishments and efforts and realize how powerful you are to have come this far, to begin with!

·         Take Breaks

You are allowed to rest. No one can go full steam ahead all the time. Every once in a while, recognize that a desire to give up can be a warning sign of burnout and take some time to chill out. It’s okay to take breaks when you need them, and taking breaks may even have positive effects on your progress and motivation later. Your brain is using your off-time to continue building itself and its cognitive function!

giving upFinal Thoughts On Some Ways To Keep Going When You Think About Giving Up

There are hurdles in every effort, bumps in every road, and unexpected circumstances in every journey. It’s natural to sometimes feel like giving up and to wonder if it’s all worth it. What matters is that you know how to keep going healthily and positively, even when thoughts of throwing in the towel come to the surface. Need more help? Seek support groups or mental health professionals!

How Can You Stop Hyperventilating Before It Starts?

Do you have issues with hyperventilating? This common symptom of anxiety is hard to deal with, and it’s not something you can just shake off. Anxiety is an issue that plagues millions of people around the world, and living with this condition is never easy.

Anxiety can be mild or severe, and regardless of the severity of your case, you want relief. The key is to learn effective coping skills, but it’s a long process that doesn’t happen overnight. Hyperventilating is especially a scary part of a panic state because you feel like you can’t breathe.

Without breath in your body, you will soon pass, or so the mind thinks. However, you need to realize that anxiety is the great pretender, and when you’re hyperventilating, your body is responding to the current rush of cortisol in your body.

Now anxiety isn’t the only reason you may hyperventilate, and your body may do this after exercise or during an asthma attack. However, it’s essential to understand what’s happening so that you know how to combat it.

When you go to the doctor’s office, they check your respiration rate, which is how many times you breathe in a minute’s time. The average amount of breaths is between 15-20, but it depends on your age. When someone hyperventilates, they’re breathing faster than usual, so you lose more carbon dioxide than you should.

Your blood gas is a perfect balance, and when you expel all this extra carbon dioxide, it throws everything off-kilter. Naturally, you will feel confused, like you’re going to pass out, and dizzy. The key is to calm yourself to prevent any further complications.

Understanding Feeling “Short of Breath”

hyperventilatingWhen you feel “short of breath,” it’s called dyspnea, and it’s often caused by having issues with your lungs or heart. This issue usually comes on suddenly and is often observed from those who are in poor health. It’s usually resolved by giving a person oxygen or doing breathing exercises.

Bradypnea is when a person is not taking in enough oxygen because they are breathing too slowly. This is often observed in someone who has sleep apnea or has taken too many drugs and overdoses. The exact opposite of this condition is tachypnea, which is when a person is breathing too fast.

Your lungs only have so much room to hold air, and your body may breathe faster, trying to get sufficient air if there’s a lung issue like COPD. Your body is trying to accommodate for the lack of oxygen by speeding up you’re breathing. Lastly is hyperpnea.

The person suffering from hyperpnea is taking in more air than they need, but there are no signs of breathing faster. Many people have this issue when they exercise, or they have a medical problem like sepsis that makes the lungs work overtime. It’s often that people hyperventilate during this state.

Ways to Stop Hyperventilating

Now that you know what’s going on inside the body when you hyperventilate, you need to know how to fix it. Thankfully, regardless of whether this is caused by asthma, a medical condition, or anxiety, you can take steps to ease the issue. Here are the most common ways to stop hyperventilating.

1. Use A Paper Bag

The idea behind using a paper bag is simple; you inhale all the Co2 you expelled into the bag back into your lungs. When you put the Co2 right back into your system, it balances out your blood. Many people find that they can ease their breathing by using this easy trick.

While some say this works well, the jury is still out on whether it’s medically useful. A word of warning is that you should never do this for more than nine breaths, and you shouldn’t try this if you have a lung or heart problem. Just remember it must be a paper bag and not plastic.

2. Use A Mental Distraction

Mental distractions work great when you’re breathing too fast. Instead of focusing on the situation, which will only make it worse, try focusing on something else. Find an object and go to your happy place.

You will find it easier to calm yourself when you take a mental trip to somewhere relaxing.

3. Use Mindfulness

Another helpful tip that goes along with mental distractions is mindfulness. This is commonly used with DBT therapy, and it seems to be wildly successful. Basically, you learn to live within the moment.

Stop focusing on your breathing and find five things around you. If you’re sitting in your bedroom when it happens, notice the color of the room, any sounds you hear, things you can feel and touch against your skin, and any smells wafting about.

Finding something in the room that you can call out to ground you helps you switch your focus from breathing to something else.

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4. Hold Ice Cubes

Holding ice cubes might not be your cup of tea, but it’s shown to be especially useful in handling breathing issues from anxiety. The brain cannot focus on two sensations at once. For instance, your panic cannot exist in your brain when it’s focused on the cold feeling in your hands.

Roll the ice cubes around within both hands as long as you can stand it. The chances are that by the time the ice is melted, your breathing will return to normal.

5. Take A Walk

Taking a walk is not advisable if you’re having an asthma attack, but it can do wonders for anxiety. As soon as your body hits the fresh air, you’ll feel an instant calm.

If the weather permits, take off your shoes and feel the ground beneath your feet. Breathe in the air from mother nature and watch your breathing rate normalize.

6. Try Rhythmic Breathing

Rhythmic breathing is a trick that many psychologists teach their patients who suffer from anxiety. Since you need your breath to live, this technique teaches you to harmonize your breathing. When you learn these rhythmic patterns, your nervous system will calm as well as relax your body.

Additionally, you will take in more oxygen and enhance your focus and concentration. It’s hard to get comfortable when you’re breathing fast but do the best you can. You want to inhale to the count of seven through your nose and hold it for the count of seven.

Now, slowly exhale your breaths through your mouth for the count of seven. If you do about ten repetitions of this, you will notice your breathing is better, and you will feel amazing. This is a simple way to restore your breathing and increase your concentration.

7. Wear Non-Restrictive Clothes

If you’re having an ongoing issue with hyperventilating, you need to change your attire to see if it helps. Avoid belts and anything that might be restrictive around the waist and lungs. While it might not prevent the issue, it can help you breathe more comfortably if there are no restrictions.

8. Lose Weight

Another common reason why you may feel out of breath all the time is your weight. Have you packed on a few pounds? Losing even 10 percent of your body weight can have a significant impact on your overall breathing.

Remember, fat pushes against your major organs and can make your daily functioning difficult. Losing weight can be a significant benefit.

9. Keep A Fast-Acting Inhaler with You

Whether you have asthma or not, doctors will often prescribe a bronchodilator to those who have problems with breathing. When you start a spell where your breathing is too fast, you can often slow it by taking a few puffs from your inhaler.

10. Use Self-Talk

Sometimes you need to reassure yourself that you’re okay. Remember, anxiety can put all sorts of things into your head, even if you have a verifiable condition like asthma. Remind yourself that you are not going to die, and this breathing issue will soon pass.

Use positive affirmations and speak things to yourself that are calming and reassuring. Most cases of hyperventilating resolve within a matter of seconds.

hyperventilatingFinal Thoughts on Hyperventilating

Hyperventilating is very scary and can make you feel as if you are going to die. Even if an underlying medical issue causes the situation, it’s easy for panic to slip in and make the matter worse. The very worst thing that can happen is that you will pass out from the drop in your blood gasses, and then your body will start breathing normally.

If you notice that you hyperventilate often, then it’s worth a trip to the doctor. If you’re suffering from anxiety and panic, it’s a very treatable condition. Additionally, you may find that therapy is an excellent help for you to learn to control your fears.

Lastly, if there is an underlying medical condition like asthma or heart disease, then you need to have a medical team working with you to control the problem.

20 Quotes to Help Promote Emotional Growth

Emotional growth is the process of mental or spiritual development that allows you to grow as an individual. While you can take classes and attend webinars regarding emotional growth, reading inspiring quotes can help you, too.

Striving for emotional growth will encourage you to keep moving in life, helping you reach your goals and better yourself. It would be best if you didn’t stay in a comfortable place for long because that means you aren’t growing.

Twenty Quotes to Help Promote Emotional Growth

Always continue to better yourself because life isn’t supposed to stay still. Use these growth quotes for inspiration and guidance as you work on your personal growth.

emotional growth1. “Don’t let the negativity given to you by the world disempower you. Instead give to yourself that which empowers you.” – Les Brown

There will always be negativity in the world, but you can let that hinder your emotional well-being. When the world threatens to interfere with your growth, turn to yourself for empowerment instead.

2. “In a growth mindset, challenges are exciting rather than threatening. So rather than thinking, oh, I’m going to reveal my weaknesses, you say, wow, here’s a chance to grow.” – Carol S. Dweck

Instead of viewing challenges as a negative situation, think of them as a chance to learn something new. If you view it as a learning opportunity, it will always provide an opportunity for growth, as Dweck explains in this quote.

3. “If we’re growing, we’re always going to be out of our comfort zone.” – John Maxwell

As Maxwell explains, emotional growth will always make you uncomfortable. If you find that you are comfortable, then you aren’t growing. Continue finding things that force you out of your comfort zone, and you will continue to grow.

4. “You’ll never be able to grow if you’re afraid to lose people during the process. Sometimes past relationships don’t belong in new seasons.” – Trent Shelton

Growth sometimes requires that you let go of some people in your life. Some relationships shouldn’t continue into the next part of your life. You outgrow people you once loved, and that is a natural part of life that you shouldn’t fear.

5. “Life’s challenges are not supposed to paralyze you. They’re supposed to help you discover who you are.” – Bernice Johnson Reagon

Obstacles and setbacks shouldn’t cause you to freeze and give up. They should help you learn things about yourself as you keep trying and looking for a new plan.

6. “Stay afraid, but do it anyway. What’s important is the action. You don’t have to wait to be confident. Just do it, and eventually, the confidence will follow.” – Carrie Fisher

There is nothing wrong with fear, as long as you don’t allow it to hold you back. Don’t stop moving forward and trying new things, even if you aren’t entirely confident. Once you do it enough times, you will become comfortable with this lifestyle.

7. “Personal growth is not a matter of learning new information but unlearning old limits.” – Alan Cohen

Growth requires change, and that means letting go of limited ways of thinking. Unlearning old limits and replacing them with new ones is essential to personal development.

8. “Never be afraid to tread the path alone.  Know which is your path and follow it wherever it may lead you; do not feel you have to follow in someone else’s footsteps.” – Eileen Caddy

Don’t follow others just because you don’t want to be alone. Follow your own path, and don’t worry about where other people are heading. When you go a different way, you are embracing personal growth.

9. “Life does not always give you what you want, but if you look closely you will see that it gives you what you need for your growth.” – Leon Brown

You will experience disappointment in life, but you will get something much better than what you wanted. Look for the signs of emotional growth as you accept change, and you will see that life gives you what you need instead.

10. “If you don’t make the time to work on creating the life you want, you’re eventually going to be forced to spend a lot of time dealing with a life you don’t want.” – Kevin Ngo

Don’t get stuck living a life you don’t love because you didn’t focus on growth. Take the time to grow and develop so that you can live the life you have always dreamed of. Never stop improving who you are, and you will live a meaningful and fulfilled life.

pop meme11. “The tiny seed knew that in order to grow, it needed to be dropped in dirt, covered with darkness, and struggle to reach the light.” – Unknown

You will experience hardships and dark times during your life, but you can thrive and grow from them. For things to grow, they have to struggle and work their way toward the light.

12. “Absorb what is useful, discard what is not, add what is uniquely your own.” – Bruce Lee

For the best personal growth, gather your information from different sources. Take in the things that will work for you, release the things that don’t benefit you, and add anything you want. By following this advice, you will live a life that is unique and true to you.

13. “The key to growth is the introduction of higher dimensions of consciousness into our awareness.” – Lao Tzu

Emotional growth requires connecting with your consciousness and become more aware. Try mindfulness meditation and breathing exercises to begin connecting on this level.

14. “Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” – Viktor Frankl

You always have a choice, no matter what the situation is. Even when things happen quickly, you have time to make a split-second decision. If you respond wisely, you will grow and improve as a person.

Make a choice either way because even if it wasn’t the right one, you still learn from it. Learning opportunities are always a chance for growth. If you didn’t choose anything, you missed out on any opportunity, including the chance to learn.

15. “One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen, again and again, fear must be overcome again and again.” – Abraham Maslow

While it might be easy to stay in your comfort zone, it isn’t beneficial for your growth. If you want to grow, you must move out of your comfort zone and into the unknown. When you can do that, you have begun your spiritual journey.

16. “Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” – George Bernard Shaw

You can search forever and never find yourself, but creating yourself is entirely different. If you create yourself, though, you choose your inspiration and what guides you through life. You become responsible for your growth, and you take control of where your life is heading.

17. “Love yourself enough to create an environment in your life that is conducive to the nourishment of your personal growth. Allow yourself to let go of the people, thoughts, and situations that poison your well-being. Cultivate a vibrant surrounding and commit yourself to making choices that will help you release the greatest expression of your unique beauty and purpose.” – Steve Maraboli

With self-love, you will surround yourself with positivity and let go of anything that interferes with your emotional health. Create a life for yourself that allows you to be true to yourself and live joyfully as you work on your emotional growth.

18. “Real growth is when you start checking and correcting yourself.” – Unknown

You must admit your faults and fix your mistakes whenever you can. If you don’t own up to imperfection, you won’t learn from the experiences, which means you can’t grow. Accept the situation as a learning opportunity, and you can gain emotional insight.

19. “You must change certain thought processes, actions, and surround yourself with the right people that will encourage your growth, enlightenment, and state of awareness.” – Curt Hinson

Life is all about change, and that requires you to change, as well. Change the way you think, take action, and spend time around encouraging people. If you do these things, you will continue to grow emotionally.

20. “Growth can be painful, change can be painful, but nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.” – Unknown

Emotional growth isn’t always easy, but it will be worth it once the situation is over. Plus, you will feel better once you are beginning to heal. The alternative option is to stay in the painful situation with no end in sight, hindering your emotional growth.

emotional growthFinal Thoughts on Quotes to Help Promote Emotional Growth

Emotional growth is essential to living a meaningful life. Don’t let anyone or anything hold you back on your growth process. As you develop, it will benefit all areas of your life.

Don’t miss out on opportunities for growth just because you are comfortable where you are right now. Continue striving to become a better version of yourself.

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