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9 Early Warnings Your Body Is Low in Vitamin C

As an essential nutrient, vitamin C (ascorbic acid) protects the body against deficiencies in the immune system. The body needs regular doses of vitamin C for prevention against the development of common sickness and serious health problems. But most people don’t get enough of this important nutrient. When the body is low in vitamin C, its symptoms can manifest in many ways. Take a look at some early signs that your body is deficient in vitamin C.

Here Are 9 Early Signs Your Body Is Low in Vitamin C

“Vitamin C is the world’s best natural antibiotic, antiviral, antitoxin and antihistamine…” – Andrew W. Saul

1. Your gums swell and bleed easily.

Your teeth and gums need adequate amounts for optimum health. This nutrient strengthens the epithelium tissue, which is present all over the body. On the gums, the epithelium works as a barrier against bacteria that might cause dental diseases. If your body lacks vitamin C, your gums tend to swell, become inflamed, and bleed easily. Your gums could also recede. Low vitamin C has been linked to periodontitis, according to a study by the American Society for Microbiology. This disease leads to gum infection and damage that could cause tooth loss as well.

2. Your hair is dry with lots of split ends.

What vitamin C your body takes in goes to the more important tissues and organs first before the nutrient makes its way to the hair. If your vitamin C levels, however, are less than ideal then your hair roots won’t be able to benefit as much as they need to. So, you end up having dry hair with split ends. Additionally, vitamin C aids in faster hair growth, as it helps the body absorb more iron. A deficiency, therefore, may not just slow down hair growth. It could also lead to hair loss.

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3. You frequently have nosebleeds.

Regular vitamin C intake lessens the fragility of the capillaries. Since the nose is lined with several of these small blood vessels closer to the skin’s surface, then the nose can be quite sensitive. If you experience frequent nosebleeds, you may have inadequate “C” levels in your system. A nosebleed, also known as epistaxis, is one of the symptoms of scurvy, or a condition that highlights the body’s ascorbic acid deficiency.

4. You have dry, rough, and red skin.

Dry, rough, and red skin are also some indications that there is not enough ascorbic acid in your system. Your body needs vitamin C to synthesize with the skin’s collagen, so your skin remains in the pink of health.

The lack of “C” might also lead to the development of a skin condition called keratosis pilaris. Although most common among young people, this condition can occur at any age. It is characterized by rough patches or tiny bumps that appear on the thighs, buttocks, upper arms, and cheeks.

Keratosis pilaris can cause mild itching. While it doesn’t hurt and it’s not a serious condition, the sandpaper roughness could be uncomfortable. Moisturizers and lotions with vitamin components help treat dry skin and lessen the wrinkles.

5. You’re prone to bruising.

Because your capillaries are weaker without vitamin C, a simple bump might result in instant bruising. Are there instances when you don’t know how you got your bruises on the thighs or arms? Now, you have an explanation for it – your body probably lacks vitamin C. According to the University of Michigan Health Systems, bruising might also indicate an underlying health condition. Experts recommend that aside from eating foods rich in vitamin C, take daily supplements of about 400 mg “C” along with 400 mg of flavonoids.

6. Your wounds heal slowly.

Do you have cuts or scrapes that have lingered for weeks? Have you gotten surgery and still feel some tenderness around the wound? It might not be healing fast because you don’t have enough vitamin C that helps the connective tissues bind with the wound. “C” has an important role in tissue repair, as per the Journal of Dental Research.  It can also prevent infection of wounds.

7. You have painful, swollen joints.

Joints that swell with pain could be inflamed. This is common for those who suffer from rheumatoid arthritis. According to the Arthritis Foundation, people with low vitamin C levels have three times the risk of developing this disease compared to those with a regular intake.

8. You’re susceptible to colds and flu.

Vitamin C helps with the production of white blood cells that attack virus and bacteria. It’s also an antioxidant that protects your cells from infections. If your body is low in “C”, you’re likely susceptible to the common cold, and you’re weak against the flu virus or strep throat infection.

9. You’re in low spirits.

Ever find yourself easily tired and in low spirits and you can’t explain why? This deficiency has been proven to have psychological links as well. Separate studies in hospitalized patients and high school students with anxiety showed that their mood became more positive by as much as 34 percent after taking vitamin C supplements.

Final Thoughts on Increasing Your Intake of Vitamin C

The best way to increase your vitamin C intake is by naturally adding this to your diet.  Eat or drink plenty of fruits and vegetables – such as broccoli, capsicum, kale spinach, berries, and citrus fruits – to boost your body’s daily “C” requirements.

You get more benefits from eating fruits fresh, instead of juiced or blended. Studies have also shown that overcooking vegetables may reduce their nutritional value. So, make sure to add vegetables in soups and stews when it’s already boiling, and not before.

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How To Live A Beautiful Life – Life Changing Tips For Living The Life You Deserve

A wise person once said that in order to live a creative life, you have to lose the fear of being wrong. The same could be said about living a beautiful life. For each person living a beautiful life, it’s important to note that it’ll look unique differently. No person is the same. However, you know the things that will make you happy. You also know the things that will make you feel miserable and stuck.

In life, there is a balance. There is a desire to make others happy, but it can’t come at the expense of your own happiness and self-acceptance. In order to live a beautiful life, you’ll have to make some tough choices that involve putting yourself first. If you say yes to one person, you’re probably saying no to yourself in another way. This doesn’t mean that you can’t say yes to others. This just means that you need to be aware of the opportunity cost.

In moving forward to create a beautiful life, there are a few things you should consider. Start today with the following tips.

1. Indulge in the things you love.

Whether you love field hockey or the idea of spending time traveling abroad, make room for the things that you love. The reason why this is so important is that so many people live their lives chasing money, fame and notoriety. Too often, people live lives for the approval of others. They don’t really make decisions based on authentic desires. They make decisions based on their ego and how they want to be perceived in life. This doesn’t help you to be true to yourself. Discover what you want. As long as those desires are legal, take time to enjoy the things that make you happy.

2. Express gratitude.

There’s something to be said about someone who is constantly in a state of gratitude. It’s not something that’s easy to cultivate if you’re a pessimist. However, it’s not impossible to turn the tide. Start by keeping a gratitude journal. Every day, write down three things that you’re so grateful for. When you find yourself in a situation that is frustrating, do your best to find the silver lining of it all. When you practice a spirit of gratitude, you open up your heart to be able to receive more.

3. Be positive.

Life will offer its fair share of ups and downs. It’s easy to be positive when everything is going well. It’s very difficult to be positive when all you can see is trouble. However, understand that the tough times won’t last. Your spirit will. The best way to get through the challenging times in your life is to remember to be positive. Always focus on the good. It’s not that you shouldn’t notice or recognize the bad. However, it’s important to create a plan, take a deep breath and be positive through it all. A beautiful life has its challenging moments.

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4. Notice your patterns.

Notice your patterns. If you tend to find yourself in a specific predicament on a regular basis, take note of what you’re doing that gets you in that position. It might be that you need to change the circle of people you’re around. It could be that you need to learn the art of discipline. Perhaps you need to learn to talk less and listen more. Notice the things that are getting you into trouble and work towards changing yourself for the better.

5. Serve others.

Remember that you’re not an island. You live in a world with other people and should honor that. A wise woman once said that service is the rent we pay for living. Find different ways to serve those in your community. It will deepen your heart’s ability to give and receive love from others. A person who is living a beautiful life tends to possess a beautiful heart.

6. Discover and pursue your dreams.

Many people walk around aimlessly because they don’t really have any dreams. Realized dreams play a role in a beautiful life. Once you discover what your dreams are, pursue them. If you desire to travel the world, create a plan to save money and make that happen. If you’d like to become a multi-millionaire, study other multi-millionaires and implement the strategies you learn. It’s one thing to know what your dream is. It’s another thing to actually pursue the dream and implement the steps to get there. Don’t become stagnant if you experience disappointments. They’re a part of life. Even though you might hit a few bumps in the road, never give up on your dreams. It’s a part of what makes your life feel worthwhile.

As you work towards making this life a reality for yourself, know that you will experience obstacles. Whenever you’re trying to move in a positive direction, life will throw a few curve balls at you. Don’t let the obstacles deter you. Be relentless in your pursuit of a beautiful life and you will have it.

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8 Health Warnings to Never Ignore From Your Fingernails

Our nails are little more than hardened extensions of the skin. In fact, our skin, nails, and hair all contain the fibrous structural protein, keratin. Keratin, as a vital compound, protects our hair and skin. The hardened outer layer of fingernails and toenails is called alpha-keratin, damage to which could potentially indicate a health problem.

As stated by the American Academy of Dermatology (AAD), the state of our nails is often reflective of our overall health and wellbeing:

Nails often reflect our general state of health. Changes in the nail, such as discoloration or thickening, can signal health problems including liver and kidney diseases, heart and lung conditions, anemia, and diabetes.” – American Academy of Dermatology

Fingernail health and bodily health are inclusive, in other words. So if you want to know how your health is holding up, take a close look at your fingernail health. But don’t worry, we’re going to tell you how!

In this article, we are going to discuss eight potential warning signs from your fingernails never to ignore. Let’s go!

Here are 8 warning signs to never ignore from your fingernails:

1. Concave (Spoon) nails

Concave (Spoon) fingernails are linked to a number of internal health problems. While most healthy nails are rather thin and curve upwards, giving nails that naturally rounded appearance, concave nails are curved inwards.

Concave nails can link to various health conditions, including the liver disorder hemochromatosis, where the liver absorbs too much iron. Other possible health issues include cardiovascular disease, anemia (iron deficiency), and hypothyroidism.

2. Clubbed nails

In contrast with healthy nails, the appearance of clubbed nails is the most striking. They appear almost bulbish with bright white pigmentation. Clubbed nails form when the skin underneath the nail rises, forcing the nail to swell.

Clubbed nails have been linked to severe disorders such as AIDS, inflammatory bowel disease, liver disease, and lung disease.

3. Discolored nails

Healthy fingernails appear pink with a whitish-pink base. Nails that take on any other coloration may indicate a possible health issue. Nails that look “dull” in color points to a potential vitamin deficiency, for example. Here are a few other possible conditions linked to fingernail discoloration:

  • Bluish nails may indicate a low blood oxygen level in the body.
  • Green-yellowish nails signal a possible bacterial infection.
  • Red streaks found in the nail could be a sign of a heart valve problem.
  • White nails with no pink pigmentation could be a symptom of liver disease.
  • White streaks in the nail may indicate a kidney problem.

4. Cracked, dry, or brittle nails

Nails that are cracked, dry or brittle are typically the result of either a bacterial infection or a hormonal imbalance. Thyroid disorders can cause dry and brittle fingernails that often split or crack. Fungal infection of the nails – a condition that affects around 12 percent of Americans – can cause the nail to become powder-like as well.

5. Rutted or pitted nails

Nails that show numerous small holes or dips can result from trauma to the nail, among other things. Rutted or pitted nails could be connected to one of the following health conditions:

  • Alopecia areata, a disorder of the immune system resulting in hair loss.
  • Psoriasis
  • Tissue disorder
  • Zinc deficiency

6. Parallel ridging

Nails that have evenly-spaced horizontal ridges, a condition known as Beau’s lines, is also a possible sign of nail trauma. The condition may also surface after a long bout of high fever from an underlying medical disorder. Beau’s lines may also result from:

  • Diabetes or pre-diabetes
  • Psoriasis
  • Zinc deficiency

7. Split nails

It isn’t uncommon for split nails to leave a noticeable discoloration and gap right down the nail’s middle. Split nails have many of the same signs as cracked/dry/brittle nails, but instead of crumbling, the nails peel away in layers. Common medical conditions associated with split nails include:

  • Long-term malnutrition
  • Psoriasis
  • Nutrient deficiencies, including vitamin C, folic acid, and protein.
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This Is What Biting Your Fingernails Reveals About You

8. Proximal inflammation

The proximal nail fold is located immediately outside of the nail cuticle. If you hold your index finger straight (like if you’re pointing at something) and look from the side, you’ll see the surface of the finger rises where the nail bed ends. This is the proximal nail fold.

Proximal inflammation of the nail fold can indicate a connective tissue disorder such as lupus. Skin infection may also cause this fold to become irritated and inflamed.

Proper Care of Fingernails

If you experience repeated health problems with your nails, you should probably seek advice from a specialist. Doctors known as dermatologists specialize in diagnosis and treatment of skin, nail, and hair conditions. The specialist should also be able to point you in the right direction in terms of treatment options, including help for any underlying condition, should one exist.

Here’s a list of fingernail health health “Do’s and Don’ts.”

Do:

  • Apply a nail hardener, if necessary
  • Consider taking a supplement of biotin, which may strengthen brittle or weak nails.
  • Practice good nail hygiene by using manicure tools and trimming nails straight across. Afterward, gently round the tips.
  • Thoroughly clean and dry your nails.

Don’t:

  • Bite your nails.
  • Forcefully pull off hangnails.
  • Neglect any obvious nail problems. See a doctor or wellness professional.
  • Use too many chemical nail products.

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https://www.webmd.com/skin-problems-and-treatments/ss/slideshow-nails-and-health

This Is What I Did To Lose Weight Fast Naturally (Without Gym Or Dieting)

Losing weight takes time. We all are excited to see the progress we make, it’s important to be patient throughout our weight loss journies. While there is no miracle pill for overnight weight loss, you will notice a difference immediately as you continue to put in work. Here is how to lose weight fast naturally.

Here’s How To Lose Weight Fast Naturally

“It’s just making the choice for myself to be healthier because I know that I’m less sick when I’m more active; I have more energy when I’m more active”– Jordin Sparks

Your weight loss journey must begin with the understanding that you are the only one responsible for making this change in your life. The only way you’ll see your desired results is if you choose to go all in and take action. Read on to check out these five habits that will help you achieve the weight loss you desire.

1. Consider Eating Less Carbs

At the University Hospital of England, 115 overweight women underwent a study to determine the effectiveness of cutting carbs as part of a weight-loss plan. The results of the study showed that the women that were on a low-calorie plan lost five pounds, while those that were in the low carb group lost nine pounds. These results speak to the effectiveness of cutting back on carbs rather than counting calories.

Wondering how to lose weight fast naturally? While you don’t have to follow a strict diet, it is a good idea to get rid of bad carbs. Go on a carb detox to get rid of any excess weight brought on by all of the unnecessary carbs in your meals.

To cut back on your carbs, consider the meals that you eat. While that bowl of spaghetti or that box of pizza may be within your calorie limits, the sheer amount of carbs in those meals will quickly add on a few extra pounds. When you intentionally cut out carbs from your meals, you’ll soon see you’ve lost anywhere up to five pounds in the first few weeks of the detox.

2. It’s All About the Protein and Veggies

Learning how to lose weight fast naturally is all about finding out exactly which changes to make to the way you eat. When cutting carbs, it is best to fill up on proteins. Proteins allow your body to find a new energy source, instead of relying on the sugars broken down from the carbs.

When looking for protein to add to your diet, consider beef, salmon, eggs, and chicken. Another great alternative to boosting your protein intake is to eat protein bars or throw in whey protein powder with your drinks and meals.

3. Sleeping Well Keeps the Weight Off

Getting the proper amount of sleep is seriously underrated. If you truly want to live a healthier life, it’s time to start honing in on your sleeping habits. With the right amount of rest, your body has time to recover from the stress of each day, allowing you to focus on perfecting your diet and fitness routine.

Similarly, with less sleep, you will be more prone to making poor decisions when it comes to healthy choices. A sleep-deprived version of you may be more likely to run to the McDonald’s for a quick bite in the morning instead of having your smoothie with your morning run.

4. Get Into Regular Exercise

As you continue to learn how to lose weight fast naturally, you’ll want to start finetuning your exercise routine. The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services recommends that staying healthy requires a minimum of exercising three times each week.

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Committing to exercise doesn’t mean you have to hit the gym. For your workout, consider doing cardio like running or walking at home and around your neighborhood. Building a consistent routine that you can follow every day will help you maintain your weight loss. With consistency, you will be able to clearly see the results of your fitness efforts and lose weight fast.

5. Choose Higher Quality Foods

Ever satisfy a food craving only to soon realize that your body isn’t enjoying it? For this reason, as well as wondering how to lose weight fast naturally, you’ll want to get into the habit of choosing higher quality foods. With all, of the work you have done with detoxing and routine fitness, filling your body with low-grade meals will undo all of your hard work.

Choosing meals that are made with key ingredients and higher grade foods will allow you to feel great and lose weight fast. Consider cooking most of your meals yourself or opting for a weekly meal service. Knowing how your meals are made and where the ingredients come from will allow you to make healthier choices about your body.

Weight Loss is About Building the Best You

Weight loss is so much more than running endlessly on the treadmill. Getting the body you want starts with making a major shift in your mindset and lifestyle. As you start to make key changes to your diet and routine, you’ll notice that your weight loss journey is quickly gaining momentum.

By introducing these five strategies into your life, you’ll be able to give your body and mind a major overhaul. Remember, while you won’t see your weight loss results immediately, you will instantly be able to feel a change, and that means that you’re on the right path.

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How To Drink Your Coffee When On A Keto Diet

If you’re like thousands of Americans, you dread any lifestyle or diet that dares to take away your caffeine. In nearly every food-based lifestyle, mixed opinions arise on caffeine consumption—keto included. Weeding through study data and deciphering medical and scientific jargon can be a headache-inducing, especially when you’re all looking for a simple and definitive answer.

Can you have caffeine while on keto? Yes, you can, but there are ways to maximize nutrition and positive benefits to work with your keto lifestyle.

Benefits of Caffeine 

Caffeine consumption can benefit your health. It’s a mood enhancer, reduces depression, and it might offer protection against Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s disease.

Other benefits can include:
Liver protection
Longevity
Cancer risk reduction
Skin protection
MS risk reduction
Prevents gout
Promotes a healthy gut

Coffee and Keto 

Adding coffee for weight loss to your daily diet might help you achieve your goals quicker. For instance, caffeine can increase your metabolism by up to 11% and your fat burning potential by up to 13%. This translates into your ability to burn about 79 extra calories per day.

Caffeine also promotes using fat as fuel, which is part of the science behind a keto diet. The glucose stored in your muscles can also last longer, which delays muscle fatigue and exhaustion. Coffee, specifically, works as an appetite suppressant and can be useful as an in-between meal beverage or added to meals/keto-approved snacks.

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Keto-Friendly Brews 

Taking it black is certainly keto friendly, but let’s face it, only a handful of people can palate it. You can safely add up to two tablespoons of heavy cream and a keto-approved sweetener without compounding your carb count. Restaurants vary on what they have on hand. Don’t hesitate to ask questions. This beverage is easy to order while you’re on the go or make at home too.

Optimizing Your Coffee Intake for Weight Loss 

Consuming coffee for weight loss at home is easy. Dave Asprey created the original bulletproof recipe because, after reading studies, he believed the production and nutrition were important to maximize the health benefits of coffee.

His recipe uses Medium Chain Triglycerides (MCT). What are MCTs? They’re medium chain fatty acids that provide you with energy, satiate hunger, and aids in burning excess calories and digestion. You’ll find them in coconut oil and animal milk. They also have a laxative effect, so if you’ve never used them before, slowly introduce them into your diet.

Bulletproof Coffee (BPC) Recipe—Net Carbs 0.1g 

  • One cup coffee, freshly brewed
  • 1 tbsp. grass-fed butter, unsalted
  • 1 tbsp. virgin coconut oil or MCT oil of choice

Place all ingredients in a heatproof jar (for immersion method) or blender and blend until well combined and frothy.

Bulletproof Substitutions 

If you can’t tolerate dairy, you can substitute all coconut oil or use virgin coconut butter. You will benefit from MCTs, but it might not be as frothy as using butter.

You can choose a natural caffeine-free variety, such as hickory. Matcha and chai recipes do well with the bulletproof method for those who prefer tea or want a change. The bulletproof method also works in smoothies, shakes, dressings, and keto-friendly ice cream recipes.

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Caffeine Concerns 

Caffeine isn’t for everyone. Some people will metabolize caffeine more slowly, have a sensitivity, or they experience adverse side effects. Others might be on medications that don’t mix well with caffeine. You can also consume too much caffeine and negate the health benefits according to research.

How much is too much? The opinion varies, but any consumption beyond 400mg is excessive. This equals about four cups a day.

Common Caffeine Beverage Contents in 8oz a serving:

Brewed Tea—40-120mg
Coffee—102-200mg
Yerba mate—65-130mg
Decaf coffee—3-12mg
Cocoa—2-7mg
Espresso—240-720mg

You can enjoy your caffeine on keto, but you’ll have to be careful with carb counts in additives, such as sweeteners and milk. Adding bulletproof methods to your daily caffeine consumption can increase its natural benefits while optimizing your nutrient absorption and keeping you satiated. Don’t give up something you enjoy that’s not only good for you, but also good for your keto lifestyle.

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10 Positive Things To Remember When You Are Feeling Negative

It is a no-brainer that taking care of your physical health is a necessity in our lives. Have you ever considered, though, the importance of taking care of your emotional or mental health as well? Many of us neglect one of the most important parts of our lives and wonder why we end up in such an unhappy place.

To take care of our emotional needs and ensure a happier version of yourself, all you have to do is spend a little bit of time focusing on you. There are a number of books available for you to read but these resources will not make you immune to the hard parts of life. It is inevitable that in life we will have good days and bad days, but to help ourselves feel better we have to focus on the positive aspects of our day and of our lives.

Here are 10 positive things to remember when you are feeling negative.

1. Challenges Help To Mold You

No one wants to admit that going through hard times will help you become a better person. Once you are on the other side of the hurdle life has thrown in your path, you will look back and see that each challenge you went through was designed to help you become a stronger person. No matter how hard things seem to be, just remember that once you overcome it you will be better off.

2. You Are Stronger Than You Think

You need to take a step back and consider how strong you are to be handling your current situation. Some things to remember are that we have to dig deep and find the strength to carry on, but the deeper you dig, the more strength you will find. Trusting in your strengths will allow you to face your challenges with positivity and confidence.

3. Consider Your Challenge an Opportunity

Sometimes when we get bogged down with the trials of life, we often think to ourselves that the whole world is out to get us. This is not a realistic mindset and if you aren’t careful you can wind up making matters worse for yourself by overthinking the situation. Once you look at your negative situation ahead of you with a new perspective, you will see that it is an opportunity to become better in all different areas of life — your job, your family life, financially, etc.

4. Be Careful What You Think

Some things to remember as we face hard times is we can all become our worst enemy by spending too much time overthinking a situation. The more we think about something in a negative light, the harder it is going to be to find some positivity in the situation. Spend your time focusing on positive things and you will feel so much better.

5. Find Your Inner Strength

Something that will help you through your trials and challenges is remembering that you are not the first one to go through whatever it is you are dealing with, and you surely won’t be the last. Believe in yourself to get through this tough spot and focus on the outcome rather than dwelling on the current situation. When you have a goal you are working towards, you are more likely to succeed.

6. Fall In Love With Yourself

When we are dealing with negativity, it is easy to think that you will never get through the current situation you are facing. A great way to change your mood from negative to positive is to remember that YOU are in control of your life. If you don’t like the person you currently are, simply change. You need to love the person you are and if that means changing some things, then so be it.

7. You Are Not Alone

One of the best ways to overcome hard times is to lean on the people around you. Finding strength in others will help you to gain perspective and persevere. Whether it is a co-worker, family member or close friend, lean on them for comfort and support and always remember that you are not alone.

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8. Don’t Be So Sensitive

Another aspect among the list of things to remember is that challenging times have a way of making us hypersensitive to everything around us. One of the best things you can do is simply chill out and relax. The more relaxed you are, the better your chances are of making a negative situation a positive one and focus on the positive things.

9. Know That You Might Fail

One of the best things to remember is that no one is perfect and sometimes the outcome of a situation does not go how we think it should go. Being open to failure will lower your expectations and help you to be more open-minded about situations you will face in the future. Failure does not mean it is the end of everything, it simply means you need to stand up and continue to try hard in the future.

10. Trust Your Strength To Overcome

When we take a step back and trust our inner strength to shine and have the willpower to overcome, we are going to be strengthened and more positive overall. Once we are aware of our weaknesses, we can become a better person and face our negative situations with more positivity.

It is no secret that overcoming negativity is a challenging thing to do, but with some motivation and encouragement, you can do anything you set your mind to do! The best way to handle a negative situation is to focus on the positive elements and push through to the other side.

8 Ways to Let Go and Move On After A Breakup

Trying to let go after someone has hurt you is no easy task. However, this process encourages both resilience and self-confidence. Mastering techniques to let go of past relationship mistakes and forgive yourself is easier than it may seem.

The writer Lewis B. Smedes once said that “To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.” You are more than worthy of being set free! Above all, be gentle with yourself. Honor the time it takes to let go of a bad relationship and reflect on what you’ve learned. You’re much stronger for it.

Here are 8 ways to let go and move on after a breakup:

1. Adopt a Mantra

Try finding a phrase, or set of phrases, that you can repeat anytime you want to move on from a painful breakup. It’s a great way to let go of any previous difficulties and stay focused on the present. Some of these phrases can include reminding yourself that “I am still breathing” and that “I am strong.” These quotes affirm for yourself that you are able to let go.

2. Change Your Diet

The stress of a breakup can cause unhealthy eating habits. You don’t have to fall into that stereotype! Allow your emotional healing extend to the physical by avoiding junk food.

3. Practice Compassion

It’s right there in the Golden Rule, which has been found within almost every culture: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Don’t lash out because you’ve been mistreated, but that doesn’t mean being a doormat, either. Again, it’s about strengthening your sense of self-worth, which may have been damaged by the way your partner treated you.

4. Avoid Social Media

Hit that unfriend button and unfollow your ex on any other social media apps that you had in common. This is one of the most direct ways to let go of past relationships. Out of sight, out of mind! You might feel tempted to just do “one quick check” from time to time. Be disciplined and have someone hold you accountable if you feel yourself slipping and unable to let go of that habit.

5. Don’t Seek Them Out Offline, Either

This may be hard if you and your former partner met through hobbies that you both still enjoy, or if you share a workplace. However, try to minimize your time with them at these events as much as possible. Be civil if you do cross paths, but don’t go out of your way to interact. Let go of painful memories you may associate with those events. Take ownership of your experience; your ex can’t influence your enjoyment!

let go

6. Take Time for Yourself

Breaking up can actually be quite freeing. You no longer have to answer for anyone but yourself. Recognize this freedom by making a list of everything you can do now that you’re single. This could be as small as renting a movie you’ve always wanted to see, or visiting a local museum that you love. It could also be a major life decision such as moving to a new city, or even a new country! A breakup might mean the end of a relationship, but you should also think of it as your new beginning.

7. Keep a Diary

It might seem counter-intuitive to keep a record of a painful experience. However, getting it all down on paper, or a digital journal, has mental health benefits. It keeps you from overthinking about what might have gone wrong. You have a clear visual of what your thought process was at the time, which can help you avoid making similar mistakes in the future.

8. Find a Support Network

This can take many different forms. It could be a professional, such as a therapist who’s trained to help you let go of past fears. Other networks could be more personal: friendships, family members, or other loved ones. That second category can strengthen connections that may have languished while you were in the midst of a toxic relationship.

It’s important to remember that moving on from a bad relationship is not always an instantaneous process. Don’t get frustrated if you’re not over it right away. However, adopting these suggestions can help you recover from a breakup more quickly.

10 Ways To Make A Man Fall In Love

It takes less than one second to fall in love with someone. If you’re smitten with a guy, it can be frustrating to feel like you’re going unnoticed. However, you can’t hope to get their attention unless you’re willing to put yourself out there. Getting someone to fall for you can’t be done through force or mind-willing, but you can make it possible through consistent effort.

When trying to get someone to fall for you, it’s important to understand and respect their boundaries. No healthy relationship can be formed through deception and manipulation. These are ten easy ways to make a guy fall in love with you.

1. Be yourself

It might be one of the most clichéd sayings, but it’s certainly true. If you want to get someone to fall for you, it’s crucial that you show them who you really are. If you’re afraid of being yourself around them now, it’s going to be even more difficult as you get closer to one another.

2. Be a good person

Most everyone fancies themselves as a good person, but have you ever taken the time to really evaluate your moral compass? Having good intentions is not the same as being a good person. Your actions speak louder than your words. So, make sure you’re actually doing things that you’re proud of.

3. Solicit their help

People love feeling that they’re valued. There’s no better way to show someone you appreciate them than by enlisting their help. Ask them for a favor or for their advice on a difficult situation and see if they are drawn to you more.

4. Be confident

If you want a guy, you need to show it. You shouldn’t be yelling in the streets about how much you love them, but you should put yourself out there. Talk to them whenever you get a chance. Take initiative by asking them out or complimenting their clothes. You want to show that you’re willing to take a leap of faith.

5. Be their friend

It’s rare to have a strong relationship that goes straight into romance without a platonic introduction. To get someone to be in love with you, it’s important to show them that you are someone who cares for them. You should have fun with them and be willing to let your guard down. Relationship coach Chris Armstrong says that “being in love is about the physical connection we make with someone, sprinkled in with what limited intellectual and emotional connection we’ve made with them.” Keep this in mind as you look for love.

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6. Be a good listener

Being in love with someone means that you should care about what they have to say. Don’t make it all about you. It’s very likely that you’ll be eager to share about yourself, but you should also remember that they have things to share about themselves. It should be an even distribution of information shared between both parties.

7. Look them in the eyes

Eye contact is such an overlooked aspect of courting. When you give someone eye contact, you don’t necessarily say that you’re in love with them, but you do suggest that you are highly interested in them. They should hopefully return the eye contact and help spark a mutual attraction.

8. Look good

Everyone is beautiful, but not everyone knows how to show off their beauty. If you want to catch a guy’s attention, you need to work on your appearance. Make sure your clothes fit well and are well-matched. You should also be well-groomed, making your hair and nails look great.

9. Consider similarities

While opposites attract, there needs to be enough common ground between you and the guy to get him in love with you. Think about all the ways that you are alike. It could be a shared hobby or a friend in common. This can be a great branching off point and way to get closer.

10. Let him court you

When you put your bait out for a fish, you should be patient and wait for them to bite. Similarly, getting a guy to fall for you means you should trust your instincts. If he is keen on your signals, you just have to wait for him to reciprocate them.

Getting a guy in love with you should not be rushed. It’s important to take your time with each expert and trust yourself. You want to be considerate, not only to them but to yourself. Take things one step at a time and let yourself enjoy the journey of romance.

14 Natural Pain Killers That are Scientifically Proven

Traditional medicine doesn’t always involve natural methods, but research shows natural pain killers are helpful.

In fact, many doctors say that natural pain killers can help with lower back pain, toothaches, headaches, arthritis, and other painful situations.

The National Center for Health Statistics explains that chronic pain affects more people than diabetes, heart disease, and cancer. Around 11% of adults suffering from chronic pain, and another 25% suffer from pain that lasts more than 24 hours. Plus, nearly 18% of adults suffer from severe pain regularly.

Traditional pain relief methods often require a pill that alters your brain chemistry. When abused, they can cause hospitalization, overdose, coma, dependence, or death. The American Society of Regional Anesthesia and Pain Medicine lists the most common treatments for chronic pain relief as:

  • antidepressants
  • anticonvulsants
  • muscle relaxants
  • nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs
  • opioids

With the potential dangers of traditional pain killers, choosing from the below variety of natural pain killers is safer and healthier. Many herbs and spices reduce pain levels, and other natural methods such as acupuncture and yoga are beneficial, too.

Try These Fourteen Natural Pain Killers

Interested in learning the best natural pain relief options? Try some of these fourteen home remedies for pain.

natural pain killers1. Willow Bark

Willow bark can help ease inflammation that causes aches and pains. The bark contains salicin, which is a chemical that is similar to the main ingredient in aspirin.

You can find willow bark as a dried herb that you can brew into tea. You can consume it as a liquid supplement or in capsule form. Willow bark helps with headaches, lower back pain, and symptoms of osteoarthritis. It can also alleviate severe knee and hip pain.

Taking too much willow bark can cause problems, though, so be careful that you take the right amount. Otherwise, it can cause an upset stomach, decrease kidney function, prolong bleeding time, and increase the risk of bleeding.

2. Turmeric

Curcumin, the main ingredient in turmeric, contains pain relief and anti-inflammatory properties. It is an antioxidant that helps protect your body from free radicals that can damage cells and tissues. Research shows that when compared with other pain relief methods, turmeric was more effective.

Turmeric can help with pain caused by inflammation, including pain from arthritis. It can also help with pain associated with autoimmune disorders and tendonitis.

3. Cloves

Cloves can help relieve pain from headaches, arthritic inflammation, and toothaches. You can add ground cloves to meat, rice dishes, pies, and other foods. Additionally, you can consume cloves in capsule form, powder, or oil.

Eugenol is a natural pain reliever and an active ingredient in cloves. It is often found in over-the-counter pain rubs. You can rub it on your tooth and gums to ease a toothache until you can get to your dentist.

4. Acupuncture

Researchers at the World Health Organization have found that acupuncture is effective in nearly 96% of chronic pain situations. It helps most with lower back pain and headaches, two of the leading causes of chronic pain. Acupuncture can also help with migraines.

Acupuncture involves having needles placed just beneath your skin at your pressure points. The thin needles might be placed far from where you feel the pain, but this is because it affects your internal energy.

In some cases, acupuncture can make the pain disappear entirely, and other times it’ll subside drastically. Acupuncture can alter the pathways that go from your body to your brain and perceive pain. As the neural pathways become balanced, your body will release serotonin, making you feel better and experience less pain.

5. Essential Oils

Essential oils are known to help with many ailments and are one of them. You can inhale them through aromatherapy, add them to your massage oil, or dilute them and apply them to your skin.

Before applying oil to your skin, test a small area to ensure you don’t negatively react. Some of the essential oils that are natural pain killers include:

  • peppermint oil
  • rosemary
  • lavender

6. Massage Therapy

High-quality massages can promote blood flow, reduce muscle tension, and boost overall feelings of wellness. Massage therapy manipulates your muscles, tendons, and ligaments, helping reduce pain naturally.

Make sure to choose a licensed massage therapist, as their professional massage will benefit you the most. While other massages might feel good, they don’t manipulate your body the way a professional can.

7. Meditation

Meditation comes in different forms, and finding the one that works best for you is essential. Some people find that listening to a pleasing sound, closing their eyes, and sitting comfortably while repeating the sound works best. If you try this approach, recognize when your thoughts wander and return to the sound.

Another meditation technique that can help relieve pain is guided imagery. Guided imagery involves imagining yourself in a better place. You will use hearing and internalizing suggestions to help devalue pain signals.

natural pain killers8. Cold Compress

Applying an ice pack or cold compress can reduce swelling and inflammation. When your pain is due to a strained muscle, tendon, or ligament, the swelling and inflammation could be responsible for the discomfort. If you have a headache, you can hold a cold pack to your head for a few minutes to reduce the pain.

For pain in other areas, apply a cold pack to the painful area for about 15 to 20 minutes. Then, wait about two hours before you do it again. When you put the cold compress on your skin, put a layer of cloth between the ice and your skin.

9. Warm Compress

Sometimes, a warm compress is better than a cold compress. Once the inflammation is gone, you might experience stiffness after a sprain or strain. When this happens, a warm compress can help reduce the stiffness and help regain motion without intense pain.

If your pain is due to arthritis, applying a warm compress to the affected joint can help reduce pain. A warm compress will also help with muscle spasms, but avoid heat if you have any swelling in the area.

10. Dry Heat Therapy

Since warm compresses typically create moisture, some people prefer dry heat therapy. Another benefit to dry heat therapy is that you can apply heat more often this way, too. You can use heat packs or an adhesive back wrap that offers continuous heat without getting anything wet.

11. Anti-inflammatory Diets

Studies show that an anti-inflammatory diet can stop pain progression and improve pain tolerance. If your pain is related to obesity, osteoarthritis, or blood sugar, changing your diet can help significantly.

As you switch to a healthier diet, you don’t have to worry that your food options will be limited. There are plenty of  to choose from, including:

  • fruits
  • vegetables
  • legumes
  • nuts
  • fatty fish
  • healthy oils
  • whole grains
  • beans
  • unsaturated fats

12. Sleep

Without enough sleep, your pain tolerance will be lower, and you won’t heal as quickly from injury. Work on getting more sleep at night by making some simple lifestyle changes, and you will notice that your pain subsides. If you are prone to overthinking at night or struggle with insomnia, there are ways to remedy the problem.

Find some activities that make you feel calm and relaxed. Exercise before bed, practice meditation, or do anything else that slows your mind and body. As you improve your sleep health, you will notice a significant improvement in your pain management.

13. Exercise

Exercise can help relieve chronic pain by altering the neural pathways of your brain. The pain causes them to become out of sync, and exercise can fix the problem. Exercise helps release your endorphins, which are natural painkillers produced in your body.

Endorphins bind to the opioid receptors in your brain and block your perception of pain. If you promote increased production of these hormones, your pain will naturally subside. You will also experience feelings of pleasure and satisfaction.

Any activity that gets your blood pumping for a sustained period counts as exercise. Consider things like:

  • yoga
  • running or jogging
  • walking at a brisk pace
  • playing tennis
  • swimming

14. Resveratrol

Resveratrol is a natural phenol produced by several plants when the plant is injured or under attack. Researchers discovered that some of the properties found in resveratrol help with pain regulation on a cellular level.

If you want to use this for pain relief, you can find it in grapes, red wine, blueberries, raspberries, mulberries, and peanuts. You can also find resveratrol supplements to help increase your intake.

natural pain killersFinal Thoughts on Natural Pain Killers That are Scientifically Proven

Suffering from pain can be debilitating and interfere with your daily life. It can interfere with your ability to live a fulfilling life, and you could miss out on so much. Natural pain relievers can help you alleviate the pain until you can see a doctor, and sometimes they can eliminate the pain.

Don’t give up if one of the natural pain remedies doesn’t work for you. What works for some people might not work for others, so keep working your way through the pain-relieving tips. Once you find one that works for you, use it in place of traditional pain relievers.

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