Therapists Reveal 10 Positive Affirmations To Uplift Your Spirit

Therapists Reveal 10 Positive Affirmations To Uplift Your Spirit

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Do you need to uplift your spirit? Try giving yourself a little pep talk.

Positive affirmations are specific statements that you are meant to say to yourself. The idea is that saying these affirmations will subconsciously program your brain to believe them, thus allowing you to manifest the subject of your affirmations effectively.

Some scoff at the idea, but it has a scientific basis! When you’re feeling down, who better to talk you back up again than yourself? But how do you make positive affirmations? What words and sentences suit the task? Here’s how therapists reveal 10 positive affirmations to uplift your spirit.

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1.      I recognize and appreciate my many good qualities

This affirmation reminds you of the things you are capable of and is a fantastic way to boost your self-esteem. Instead of focusing on the negative, it encourages you to turn your attention to your positive qualities, reminding you that you are more than just your setbacks.

uplift your spiritThis affirmation is recommended by mind-master coach and trainer Carolina Rushforth. She discusses how improving personal image and self-esteem requires:

  • Changing how you interact with others and yourself
  • Changing the voice with which you speak to yourself
  • Believing in yourself
  • Living by your values and beliefs
  • Doing your best and recognizing that you do

Using affirmations like “I recognize and appreciate my many good qualities” helps you interact with yourself with personal power. You’re sending a message to your unconscious mind: you are worthy.

2.      This one moment does not define who I am. I believe in myself and am not afraid to keep going

Do you have anxiety or depression? Cognitive distortions and overgeneralizations are common in individuals who struggle with the aforementioned disorders. Research  proves that these problems can further exacerbate themselves, creating a cycle of unhealthy thinking.

One widespread way that this manifests is through exaggeration. Upon experiencing one negative moment, you may immediately feel horrified and start to catastrophize, losing your positive thinking. That’s why it’s important to remind yourself that this one situation will pass and is not a representation of who you are.

A longer affirmation, this inspiring affirmation is adapted from the recommendations of psychologist Catherine Moore. Other similar affirmations you can use in this vein include:

  • I have come so far and am proud of myself, and I will keep going.
  • This moment is isolated and is not a reflection of the larger world. Things will improve from here.
  • I am stronger than this situation; I will emerge victoriously.

3.      I am strong, brave, and powerful, and I am always becoming stronger

Many times, you may feel small or as if the world is too much for you. You may feel as if you aren’t worthy of that world, especially if you are often talked down or treated as lesser-than. And if you are a highly sensitive person, you may feel that pressure keenly. Saying that you are powerful, strong, and courageous and emphasizing how your power grows is a great way to bring back the pep in your step and boost your positive thinking, reducing stress even in difficult situations.

This affirmation comes at the author’s recommendation, certified life coach and Live Bold and Bloom founder Barrie Davenport. She talks about using the present tense in your affirmations as a method of manifesting something in the present. This language tells your brain that the affirmation won’t just become real but is already happening now.

4.      I love who I am and who I am becoming

This affirmation is rooted in concepts of cognitive-behavioral therapy, or CBT, specifically positive CBT. Positive CBT focuses heavily on improving wellbeing without a focus on pathology and without the need for treating specific disorders. It also focuses on amplifying your own strengths and making you more aware of them, which is exactly what this affirmation does.

Behavioral neuroscience research and psychologist Joaquín Selva states that this form of CBT is often used to treat depression and other similar disorders. It is also commonly used in conjunction with more traditional treatments for various conditions, and it’s been shown to benefit many patients undergoing it!

5.      I am safe and calm, and no one can disturb the peace of my world.

This affirmation is a great one for those who deal with anxiety. Often, anxious thoughts are filled with rumination, which is a series of repetitive negative thoughts that begin to control and consume you. Studies have found that using positive affirmations can halt rumination in its tracks, which is a great one to try.

Moore recommends using affirmations like this one when you feel stressed out, worried, or anxious, even if you don’t usually find yourself susceptible to nervousness. As you use the affirmation, make sure you regulate your breathing. Take soothing, deep breasts slowly and steadily, attuning yourself to the patterns of inhalation and exhalation. Here are some ideas for similar anxiety-busting affirmations:

  • My anxiety does not control my actions or my life; I am in control.
  • I feel serene and peaceful within.
  • I’m liberated from doubt, fear, and worry.
  • I recognize irrationality in my thoughts and stop them.
  • I breathe deeply with collected and calm thoughts.

pop meme6.      I hold the infinite potential to conquer my challenges and succeed

This affirmation is a great way to manifest your strengths into fruition. Intuitive psychologist, relationship expert, and author Dr. Carmen Harra states that affirmations like this are wonderful to affirm ambitions and dreams, thus empowering yourself with confidence and reassurance to turn those affirmations into reality.

Harra also talks about how affirmations, just like exercise and rewards, help to produce positive hormones in the body, leading to better responses to situations and challenges overall. It’s a way of saying “no” to fear and putting power into your hands, which is truly incredible!

7.      I am equipped with humility to be open to learning and growth

For those who find themselves stagnating in their current personal progress, this affirmation helps you be humble enough to ask questions and learn from those around you. It’s important to remember that every single person you meet has the potential to teach you something important, and you’ll miss out on those things if you’re too proud to learn from them. That’s why this affirmation can be so useful for self-improvement!

Well-being technology expert and consultant Tchiki Davis, Ph.D., outlines the importance of using positive affirmations that focus on the solution instead of the problem. In other words, if you phrased this affirmation as “I am not too proud to learn,” that might backfire because your brain is focusing on something inherently negative: pride. Basically, state improvements and goals, not the bad things that lead to the need for the affirmations in the first place.

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8.      I form healthy habits that further uplift me

This affirmation sounds generic, but it can be specific if you speak its energy into certain areas of your life. We all have habits that we wish we could work on, and this affirmation may help you get there.

Therapist and clinical psychologist Dr. Angele Close discusses the importance of making positive affirmations about experiences, not goals. If you focus on talking about specific things you need to stop or start doing, you’re creating statements that sound like chores instead of the aforementioned affirmation. That’s not very encouraging at all! Here are some examples of goal-based affirmations that you should not use.

  • I will exercise every day.
  • I will stop watching TV at 10 pm.
  • I’ll lose 5 pounds.
  • I will learn to knit.

9.      I can do this (gain confidence + uplift your spirit)

This very simple-sounding affirmation is effective purely because of its simplicity. Licensed clinical social worker and board-certified TeleMental Health Provider Katie Leikam is a huge proponent of this affirmation. When you doubt yourself, it’s a great quick reminder to reaffirm that you are the person with power, in control, with the ability to do what must be done, she says.

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