Sometimes, happy people are glaringly obvious. They have “pep in their step,” are often smiling, rarely complain, and won’t say a bad thing about anyone.
What’s that extra special element that they have that most people don’t?
Certainly, it appears there are some obvious things like genetics, upbringing, birthrights, money, fame (although both can be a downfall for many), a good job, a beautiful family, etc. But, none of these guarantee happiness.
Most happily contented people have very unobvious reasons that create happiness in their life.
Here is a list of 7 things that make most happy people, well, happy. 🙂
7 Habits Happy People Have (But Never Talk About)
1. These folks don’t need acceptance.
In our culture, it’s often about your “inner circle.” It’s not what you know; it’s who you know.
Wrong. For many with a joyful spirit, they are simply themselves, and through their infectious, radiant energy they attract other positive people.
Happy people don’t need to fit in with the crowd or change so that others will like them. They live and are guided by who they truly are and don’t need others to accept them.
2. Happy people embrace the temporary.
Happy people enjoy the ride and accept the bumps in the road that come along with it. They do so because they know that life is short and that things always work out. Besides, they are too busy excitedly awaiting the next good thing to come along anyway.
Jobs, relationships, and circumstances all come and go. In the meantime, these people seek out their next adventure, learn and make the most of it.
3. Happy people refuse to be denied their dreams.
Happy people are not only gregarious, loving people, but they are also passionate about their dreams and tough-minded. They take hits in stride. They don’t settle for excuses or problems, they create solutions. Their dreams are far too important!
They deeply care about their hopes, dreams, and goals. Ask a happy person what they want out of life. Most times, they will have an immediate answer. Joy-filled people are driven, passionate and creative individuals with a positive end goal in mind that is usually for the betterment of not only themselves but for humanity and a better future.
One tip though. . . Don’t get in the way of that dream. They may take their smiling face off for a minute or two.
Well, maybe not. But, they surely won’t let you stand in their way.
4. Happy people embrace equality.
There are folks among us who have a pedestal and tend to look down on and criticize others. They look for other’s faults like theirs a reward for it, as Zig Ziglar once said.
But, truly joyful people are completely different. They treat other people as equals, regardless of differences.
Look at some of the revolutionaries that have lived amongst us. The Dalai Lama, Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr., Mother Theresa… the list goes on. Do you notice a characteristic that is common among them all? They were ALL for equality. They were also optimistic and loving people who went to any level to help others.
We are all one, and happy people know it.
5. Happy people put themselves first.
Putting yourself first is important. Our society needs to re-evaluate the misconstrued belief about this. We aren’t referring to being selfish, greedy and “Numero Uno”.
We are talking about healthy self-care. Joyful people love and take care of themselves because that is the only way that they can show up for other people.
By constantly sacrificing your own needs, you cannot true and fully take care of others. Happy people know this and have to put themselves first once in a while to show their best selves and be of service to others.