It’s easy to put yourself last when everything seems out of control in life. However, no matter what’s going on in your life, making self-love a priority is essential to your well-being. Self-neglect will only worsen your situation, but when you love yourself, even your worst days will be manageable.

You might put too much time and energy into people that wouldn’t do the same for you. When you give so much of yourself to people who don’t deserve it, you sacrifice essential time in your life. Think of how better your life would be if you used that time and energy for self-love instead.

When you love yourself, you treat yourself with kindness and respect. You’ll nurture your growth and make your well-being a priority. Loving yourself allows you to have a favorable view of yourself and the world around you.

Daily Affirmations to Help Make Self-Love a Priority

Life is too short not to prioritize yourself, your needs, and your desires. You deserve to live a life you love, full of positivity and joy. Daily affirmations will remind you to make self-love a priority no matter what is happening around you.


1. I deserve to make loving myself a priority, even when life gets busy.

When you’re busy, you’ll feel pressured to cram everything you can into your day without allowing for downtime. You’ll remove the things deemed unessential from your schedule, starting with your self-care time. However, after living this way for a while, you’ll experience burnout and feel dissatisfied with your life.

This affirmation can help pull you out of that mindset and allow you to prioritize self-love again. If you know you have a busy day coming up, make sure to use this affirmation as you get ready. Don’t let a day pass where you don’t take some time to care for yourself.

2. I feel the love flowing within me.

It’s impossible not to love who you are if you feel love coursing through your body. With positive, loving energy flowing through you, you’ll start your day out on the right path. It’ll help you look for ways to practice self-care and make your well-being a priority.

3. I am gentle with myself and forgive my mistakes.

No one is perfect, and that includes you. When you make mistakes, be gentle with yourself and give grace when necessary. Reflect on what went wrong, but don’t dwell on it or spend time overthinking.

Learn what you can to do better next time, and then forgive yourself. If you’re holding onto any mistakes, this affirmation can help you move forward.

4. I am enough and worthy of love and being my own top priority.

You might encounter people who make you feel unworthy of love. They’ll say hurtful things, implying that you aren’t good enough. Sometimes, it’ll be you that makes yourself feel that way. If you experience not being sufficient or being unworthy of life, start using this affirmation each day.

This affirmation will help you overcome those feelings, and you’ll be able to push away negative self-thoughts. You are enough, and you are worthy of love. This knowledge will help you make self-love a priority each day.

5. I am complete just the way I am right now.

If you’ve lost someone you love, you might feel incomplete. Likewise, if you lost something that defined you, you might feel like you aren’t whole anymore. These feelings can cause you to neglect yourself as you search for what you already have inside.

6. I prioritize my mental and physical health over everything else.

Your mental and physical health should be at the top of your list of essential things. Please don’t put anything else before them, or it could cost you everything. Using this affirmation each morning will help you remember to put your needs first throughout the day.

7. I love the things that set me apart from others.

Your unique qualities set you apart from everyone else in the world. Embracing them can help you love yourself for who you are. When you start being critical of your unique qualities, repeat this affirmation to help you push away the negativity.


8. I am allowed to have and enforce boundaries–it will be a priority.

You are allowed to set boundaries for yourself and expect others to respect them. No one should be allowed to push your limits, let alone cross them. This affirmation can help you stay firm if there’s someone in your life that urges you to ignore what you’re comfortable with.

When you set boundaries and enforce boundaries, you make your well-being a priority. Never let anyone make you feel bad for having limits, either. The people in your life should respect what you want and need.

9. I am allowed to feel good about how I look and who I am.

Some people experience guilt for feeling good about themselves, but that’s not how it should be. When you feel good and embrace the sensation, you’ll be happy and love your life even more. You deserve to feel good about who you are on the inside and outside.

Spend time taking care of yourself so that you can be the best version of yourself. Don’t guilt-trip yourself for wanting to feel good, and don’t let anyone else give you a hard time, either. This affirmation will help you remember that there is nothing wrong with feeling good and loving yourself.

10. I am free of negative self-talk.

When you say that you’re free of something, it helps you envision it leaving your mind. It’s a reminder that while you once experienced negative self-talk, you’re now free of the burden.

This positive phrase helps reaffirm your mindset shift, allowing you to think good things about yourself. When you stop thinking negatively about yourself, you’ll find that self-love comes a little easier than before.

11. I choose myself in every situation.

When you make the conscious decision to choose yourself, you’ll have an easier time staying firm. It’s not uncommon for people to try to sway your decision, so keep this affirmation at the front of your mind.

If you use this affirmation each morning, you’ll feel more confident in yourself, too. It’s empowering when you know that you matter and that you can prioritize yourself.

12. I am embracing life and all it has to offer me.

Life is a blessing, and embracing it will help you live intentionally. Part of embracing life is doing the things that make you happy and feel fulfilled.

This affirmation will help you remember to prioritize what you need from life rather than putting everyone else first. When you take care of yourself, everything else will fall into place. Add it to your morning routine, and you can reap the benefits from the start.

13. I am letting go of those lower priority things that take my time and energy.

Letting go of things that aren’t beneficial to your life can make all the difference. You might spend your time doing things for others, knowing that they wouldn’t do the same for you. Or, you might struggle to say no when people ask you to do something, even when you know that you don’t have the time.

This affirmation will help guide you to let go of things that don’t bring fulfillment to your life. You could be using that time and energy to take care of yourself and become a better version of yourself. Don’t waste any more of that precious time on things that don’t matter.

14. I am kind to myself no matter what happens.

Things won’t always work out the way you hoped they would, but you should still be kind to yourself. It’s easy to beat yourself up and think about what you could have done differently. However, this easy way of thinking won’t help you at all, and it’ll only make you neglect yourself.

Repeat this affirmation when things don’t go how you wanted them to. You deserve self-love, especially when you’re upset. Push away the negative self-thoughts with these positive words, and focus on the things you did well instead.

15. I am successful, and I believe in myself.

Everyone’s measure of success is different, so don’t care yours to anyone else’s. Comparison only leads to disappointment and negativity rather than growth and development. Instead, consider where you are right now compared to where you were in the past.

If you’ve grown at all, you’re successful. You’ve learned and developed to get where you are today. This affirmation will remind you of your achievements, and it’ll help you remember that you can keep moving forward.


Final Thoughts on Daily Affirmations to Help Make Self-Love a Priority

It’s easy to neglect ourselves when things go wrong, or life gets busy. However, these are the times we must make self-love a priority the most.

Be gentle with yourself, and let go of anything that doesn’t make you feel great about life. Forgive yourself for your mistakes, and use them as guidance for something greater in life. Don’t waste any more time putting other people and things before yourself. When you prioritize yourself, you’ll experience all the joy and fulfillment that life has to offer.