Modern dating is often stressful and unpleasant to say the least, especially with all the new humiliating ways that potential partners now employ to dump someone, such as “ghosting” and “bread-crumbing.”

These ridiculous tactics virtually scream signs of someone’s immaturity and inconsiderate nature.

Unfortunately, many people get away with abusing others with them for years though because of the desperation that men and women have to finally find true love.

Luckily, there is a better, safer way to attract a mate though, and it is called “the law of attraction.”

Most people who have ever read about the law of attraction know that it is commonly used for manifesting money, jobs, and specific items that a person wants to have. But it can also be successfully used for obtaining your true love. To get it to work for you, it helps to use the following tricks.

Here’s how to use the law of attraction to find your true love:

Focus on You, Not Them

One of the hardest things to do whenever you feel lonely and down is to stop thinking about how bad you feel inside. But that is exactly what you have to do to introduce the positive changes into your life that you need to make to find true love.

In order to do this, you have to begin to remember who you were inside before you got your heart broken. What hobbies did you have? What was your favorite music? Which places did you like to go to in your free time?

Make a list of them all, and get back to doing them again.

Be Specific

Once you have started feeling better about yourself, it is time to make a list of all the things that you are looking for in a potential partner. Remember to be specific though and include things that really matter to you, such as their honesty, the hobbies you wish to share with them, or the type of personality you want them to have.

You can even write down certain physical characteristics that you think are attractive, like eye color and height.

Visualize Success

After making your list, try to come up with an image in your mind of what your true love looks and acts like. Put as much emotion into this as you can because the stronger that you feel about them, the easier it will be to attract them into your life. Then, each day before you go to sleep at night, and any other time of the day that you aren’t busy, let your mind drift off into thinking about them and what your life will be like together when you finally meet.

Don’t Settle

One of the mistakes people make whenever they are dating is that they come across a person who they think is potentially their true love, so they stop looking for anyone else. Somewhere in the back of their mind though, they know that things aren’t really working out. But they keep holding on because they don’t really believe that they could get anyone better. Settling for less than what you want isn’t doing you any favors in the long-run though. Sooner or later, things are going to come to a screeching halt, and a choice will have to be made regarding whether or not to continue investing energy into a relationship that is going nowhere fast. So, in order to use the law of attraction successfully, it is very important to keep your mind and heart open to the possibility that your perfect true love is out there searching for you too.


As you can see, using the law of attraction to find your true love isn’t a complicated process. It does take time and dedication though. Still, some people may find that it takes them longer to draw their true love to them than it does for others. If this happens to you, try not to get discouraged because negative emotions will limit the good that comes into your life. So it is very important to stay positive each day. And remember, just as it is when manifesting any other good things that you want to happen to you in your life, you have to let go and trust that the love that you want is coming to you, and it will be there at the perfect time.

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