High-functioning depression is perhaps more insidious than we can imagine. It impacts people across the board–even those with significant successes in life.
In Michelle Obama’s podcast, she admits, I’m waking up in the middle of the night, cause I’m worrying about something, or there’s a heaviness … There have been periods … where I just, have felt too low … I know that I am dealing with some form of low-grade depression.
Ms. Obama’s description of what she experienced, calling it low-grade depression, is often called high-functioning depression. This type of depression can plague individuals even in the midst of what seems to those outside to be an everyday, happy, active life.
What is high-functioning depression?
High functioning depression’s scientific name is Persistent Depressive Disorder. NIH estimates that approximately 2.5% of adults in the United States experience Persistent Depressive Disorder at some point in their lives.
High-functioning depression is the term most people use today to describe this type of depression that remains even though a person functions in their work, at home, or in school. It often goes unnoticed by family and friends and sometimes even by the person who has it.
Sadly, many people who have HFD believe they don’t need to get help because they’re able to “press through” their sadness. They feel happy on the surface but could be still battling underlying symptoms of depression.
What are the 13 key signs of high-functioning depression?
High-functioning depression is hard to detect because the symptoms are less debilitating and less visible than other depression. The symptoms of this condition include:
- Insomnia or sleeping too much
- Loss of appetite or overeating
- Lack of concentration
- Feelings of hopelessness
- Feelings of sadness
- Poor self-esteem
- Lack of energy or motivation
- Feelings of guilt about your past
- Easily overwhelmed
- Getting frustrated easily
Your symptoms may last for a couple of days, or you may constantly have a poor mood that lasts for years. Most people can live reasonably normally but still struggle on the inside. If you struggle with HFD, remember, you’re not alone. There is a treatment for your depression. You don’t need to suffer.
Why is it hard to notice high-functioning depression symptoms?
People who experience high functioning depression rarely have paralyzing depression symptoms. They can usually go about their everyday life and routine with no signs of sadness. They have energy and seem to experience satisfaction and enjoyment. But those individuals who suffer from HFD will describe how they feel inside as “numbness.”
This situation is why mental health providers may misdiagnose HFD. Plus, those who suffer from it have a problem acknowledging their real feelings.
Who is most at risk for high-functioning depression?
Specific individuals are more susceptible to depression, including those who have
- Family history of depression
- Trauma, stress, or significant life changes happening
- Taking certain medications or physical illness
Why don’t individuals who suffer from high functioning depression seek help?
Those who struggle with high functioning depression don’t always seek help because they may feel like their depression isn’t as severe or persistent. They may tell themselves that it isn’t a real problem or don’t want to bother their family or friends.
Maybe they feel as if they should go through the pain and suffer in silence. This may cause those who suffer from high functioning depression to feel isolated. Because they don’t seek help, they feel even more isolated and sad until they increase their risk of suicide. All types of depression are treatable. The first step is to talk with a counselor. They may prescribe medications to help control your depressive feelings and thoughts.
What can help individuals who suffer from high functioning depression?
Besides taking medication and regularly seeing your therapist, you can do some practical things to help fight high-functioning depression.
Accept the fact that you have this persistent condition. By accepting that you experience high functioning depression, you can feel relief or grief. It’s the first step to being able, to be honest with yourself.
Acknowledge that it affects your life. Once you’ve accepted this, you can adjust your life around it if needed.
Keep the faith
Connect to God. Find time every day to pray and read about God. Seeking help from a higher being will add meaning and purpose to your life. It can bring a sense of peace and calm to your heart and mind.
Disconnect once in a while
Limit your screen time on your iPhone or computer. There’s such a thing as screen time depression. If you look at a screen for several hours per day, it can make you feel anxious and depressed.
Discuss your emotions
Talk about how you’re feeling. Talking out your sadness and anxiety can help you feel better. Don’t worry about talking about your depressive symptoms. Don’t hide your feelings. In the end, others will be glad you were honest with them.
Keep a routine
A simple daily routine when you eat, exercise, work, and sleep can help reduce your symptoms.
Exercise to decrease high-functioning depression
Getting regular exercise sets off brain molecule changes that enhance your sense of happiness.
Get outside. Getting outside is a natural cure for depression. Whether you run, hike or walk, the fresh air and sunshine can help improve your mood. Plus, you get your blood going, allowing you to feel physically better.