11 Signs the One You’re With Is the One You’ll Stay With

11 Signs the One You’re With Is the One You’ll Stay With

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You may know a couple who seem so perfect for one another. They must have seen something in their relationship that confirmed they should always be together. If you asked them, it might surprise you to learn good looks or a “spark” wasn’t what clued them in to the fact they were suitable for one another. They would say that what clued them into knowing they were with “the one” was something much deeper and more reliable.

Eleven Signs Your Partner is The One for You

These are the ten signs these couples would say can show you that you’re with the one you’ll stay with long term.

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1 – Respect for one another

Without respect, a relationship won’t last long. Respect is not just admiring the other person but showing regard for their wishes, feelings, and their rights in the relationship. When you respect someone, you value their thoughts and opinions. You’re saying, “you’re the one for me.” A healthy relationship includes respectful initiatives, such as:

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  • Listening to each other: Listening means you look at your significant other when they talk to you. You allow them to finish their sentences instead of interrupting them. They feel you care about what they say and how they think. Listening shows them you respect them, which is a sign you two are definitely on the right road for a successful relationship.
  • Accept advice: If your person takes your advice, this is a sign they respect you. They value your thoughts enough to take them to heart when they decide. Couples who can give one another’s advice show humility.
  • Kind words: Respect means you refuse to resort to mockery or name-calling, even during an argument. You choose kind words over rude ones. It takes self-control to explain your frustration during a fight. But if you respect one another, you make the extra effort it takes to be kind rather than rude.

2. Laugh together

Laughter is a powerful bond to a strong relationship. When couples laugh together, it helps them feel more positive about one another. They feel more in love with one another. Here are things you can do to add some laughs to your relationship. Whether you watch a funny movie, tease one another, or go out on a fun date to an amusement park or comedy show. Your ability to laugh together is significant and worth cultivating together.

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Besides being a good bond with your relationship, laughter is also good for your health. When you and your significant other laugh together, you’re helping one another stay healthier. Laughter affects your body in many ways, including the following:

  • Lower your stress
  • It helps your heart health stay healthy by improving circulation
  • Boosts your immune system
  • Lowers your blood pressure

3. Encourage one another

Words of encouragement go a long way in helping your relationship. Encouragement is affirming the other person’s worth. It’s saying things like these words:

  • You are special to me.
  • I’m crazy about you
  • I couldn’t have done this without you.
  • I love you!
  • I’m so grateful to you.
  • You are all I have ever wanted in a partner.

When your partner tells you these things, you feel motivated to make the relationship work. You see the sparkle in their eyes when they look at you, and it makes you fall in love with them all over again.

4. Don’t always feel “in love”

Contrary to what you’ve heard, being in a relationship doesn’t mean you always feel “in love” with the person. Sometimes you feel mad at your significant other for what they said or did. That’s okay. All relationships have their ups and downs. Love means commitment and keeping your promises. It’s more than a feeling. Instead, it’s an emotional connection to the other person and being the best companion you can be to them. Love is an action more than a feeling. If you notice this in your relationship, there is good chance you with the one you’ll stay with long term.

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5. Vulnerable with one another

Being vulnerable means, you’re willing to take emotional risks. You let down your guard to talk about your weaknesses, fears, and disappointments in life. It takes courage to express your emotions with your partner. Vulnerability is essential for the health of your relationship. It gives your relationship more meaning and depth. When you’re both vulnerable, it allows both of you a sense of security and feelings of love. It’s a sure sign you are with the right person. If you’re not experiencing this, you need to see this as a big red flag.

6. Make one another a priority

People who are in love make time for one another. They want to be together. Making your partner a priority speaks volumes to them. Your actions tell them they are your most significant relationship. It’s a clear sign of someone’s commitment to you if they regularly carve out time with you. If this isn’t happening, it could be a sign that something is broken in your relationship, so speak up and find out what’s going on.

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7. Resist blameshifting

Happy, strong couples resist the urge to blame one another when they’re upset.

It’s easy to slip into blaming, especially when you’re angry. Usually, several things contribute to your angry feelings. Maybe you had a hard day at work, then when your partner says something that pushes you over the edge. It’s easy to see them as the problem when it was the culmination of it all. In a strong relationship, a couple can sit down and unravel what is going on instead of lashing out at one another.

8. Have trust

Trust is a massive component of a relationship. The best way to earn your partner’s trust is to live your life consistently. Let your actions speak louder than what you say. Earn your partner’s trust by refusing to do these things, including these:

  • Lying to them
  • Breaking your word to them
  • Not keeping your promises
  • Not being there for them emotionally or physically
  • Not flirting with others

Show your partner you are trustworthy. It will help your relationship grow strong.

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9. Create unique rituals

If you find your relationship is a slump, try creating simple rituals to make it more unique. Things like breakfast in bed together or weekend walks around a lake are simple ways to start small but significant rituals as a couple. These are often the simple things that build happiness in a relationship, making it unique for you and your partner. Use little pet names or nicknames to add a special sparkle to your relationship.

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10. Good communication

Good communication in a relationship is open and honest. There’s the freedom to be yourself and share your private thoughts without fear of judgment. Both partners can talk about anything. Plus, good communication means you can talk about your concerns or things that bother you about the other person. If this is done with humility and kindness, the corrected person will feel grateful their partner cares enough for them to point out their shortcomings. If your partner refuses to hear your criticisms, this should be a big red flag for you. It would be best if you found out why this is the case. Ask good questions to draw out your partner. It could mean they aren’t as committed to the relationship as you thought.

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11. Commitment to the relationship

Long-lasting relationships are made up of couples who are genuinely committed to their relationship. They both want the relationship to succeed, and they both work towards this goal. They use language and do things that show their commitment to each other. One partner isn’t pulling the other one along to make things work out. They are both in it for the long haul. These couples speak in a way that shows their commitment to a strong relationship. They say things like:

  • Saying “we” instead of “I.”
  • Seeking to build up rather than tearing one another down.
  • Doing the hard work to strengthen their relationship, like reading books on relationships, attending couples’ seminars, or getting counseling if necessary.

If you are the only one making all the effort in the relationship it may be time to step back and reconsider your partner’s commitment. Ask some good questions to determine how they view the relationship and how committed they are to it.

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Final Thoughts on Deciding if Your Partner Is the One You’ll Stay with Forever

If you wonder whether you and your partner will stay together, hopefully, this list will help you find your answer to your big question, “Is this person the one?” If these ten things are in place in your relationship, there is a good chance you’ll stick together for a long time. If not, it could be time to re-evaluate the relationship. Choosing to respect, encourage, and be vulnerable with one another will create a strong relationship. Trustworthiness and good communication are foundational to strong couples. Of course, laughing together and creating unique rituals that make you a special pair will also help grow your happiness together. If you’ve got these in place, you two will be a loving couple, just the ones you admire.

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