Obviously, no relationship is perfect. With that said, no person is perfect, either – however, certain things they do in a relationship can be a dealbreaker or deal maker. A partner shouldn’t save your life; they should add value to an already awesome one. On the other hand, your guy or girl should make you happy the majority of the time and make you feel loved and appreciated. Doing any of the following things should let you know that they’re serious about your relationship and truly love and care about you.

If Your Partner Does These Things, Never Let Them Go


1. Your Partner Calms You Down When You’re Angry

A great partner knows what pushes your buttons and tries to avoid hitting them if at all possible. However, sometimes other people can push your buttons, and the anger doesn’t just go away if you shift your focus. If your partner attempts to calm you down by rubbing your back, giving you a massage, or just talking things out in a gentle way with you, don’t ever let them go. Most people would run from anger in the blink of an eye, but if they stick around through the storm, they’re a keeper.

2. They Don’t Try To Control You

A great partner will let you have your space and not become possessive or tell you who you can and can’t hang out with. They will understand and honor your need to hang out with friends and family sometimes and won’t question your whereabouts every second of the day. A great partner understands your need for solitude and encourages you to spend time by yourself at least once a week.

3. They Trust You To No End

Furthermore, a partner worth keeping will not have trust issues with you and will not give you reasons to distrust them, either. They don’t ask to see your phone to look through your pictures, text messages, and other private things in your life. They respect your privacy and know that you would tell them something vital without them having to find it on your cell phone first. If you haven’t given them a reason not to trust you, then they will have undying faith in you and give you their whole heart without second-guessing themselves. An excellent partner knows that trust must exist to have a successful relationship, and they make it clear just how much they trust you.

4. They Challenge You

If you have a keeper, they will challenge you to push past your comfort zone and become the best version of yourself. They won’t allow you to dwell in mediocrity for too long, not because they don’t think you’re good enough, but because they know you can do better. They encourage you to go out for that half marathon, apply for that job that you’ve been wanting for a while now, and travel to a country you’ve always wanted to visit. They want you to become the most well-rounded, whole version of yourself and constantly raise the bar so that you keep growing as a person.

5. Your Partner Believes In You

They don’t belittle you or tear you down, and they don’t tell you that you can’t do something. They make you feel as though anything is possible and constantly give you pep talks and motivation. A great partner won’t try to compete with you or outshine you in life – they see you as their equal, and therefore, want both of you to succeed. The quiet all the insecurities in your head and make you feel as though nothing is out of reach.

6. They Love You Unconditionally

All those insecurities you once had, you hardly remember now. Your guy or girl loves you so much and wraps their arms around both your “flaws” and your strengths. They love every part of you, the good and the bad. They would never dream of leaving your site because they understand your pain and do their best to heal it. They don’t expect perfection from you because that would be boring and unfulfilling. People’s quirks and insecurities make them exciting and make them human. So, they love you no matter what and don’t try to change you into someone else.

7. They Show You New Things In Life

Your partner teaches you things you thought you’d never learn before. They show you how to play instruments, show you exciting new places to go, and show you what it means to be alive again. There’s never a dull moment with them around because you’re constantly unraveling new layers of them and picking their brain. After all, they have so much knowledge to share. Life truly feels like a dream with them around.


8. Your Partner Inspires You to Be a Better Person

Having a partner who inspires you to be the best you can be is a beautiful thing. Having someone in your corner who cheers you on and encourages you in your endeavors is rare. So, hold on to them and never let them go.

9. Your Partner Loves Your Family

Having a partner that accepts and loves your family as much as you do is a gem. If they make an effort to talk to your dad and mom or play a game with your little brother, don’t let them slip away.

10. They Accept Your Friends as Their Friends

Your friends are important to you. When your partner enjoys being around your friends, it’s significant. Not all partners attempt to get to know each other’s friends. So, if your partner likes your friends and encourages you to hang out with them, take note of it.

11. They Correct You With Kindness

Sometimes you say or do things that hurt your partner. Having a significant other who gently tells you what you did wrong–kindly–is essential. It means they love you enough to point out your faults without condemnation or judgment. Good chance they admit their wrongs to you and ask you for input into things they’ve done or said that has hurt you. This type of communication deepens a relationship. It allows both partners the chance to be vulnerable without fear.

12. They Believe in God

Studies show that individuals who possess faith in God are better at facing life challenges. They are more resilient. This means when they’re in difficult situations, they can honestly admit their negative feelings, but they’re able to bounce back quicker than others to a sense of overall well-being. They look to something bigger than themselves for guidance in their life. Having a partner who believes in God means they aren’t looking to you for their meaning or identity in life. Your relationship is robust because they aren’t putting pressure on you to be their “savior.”

13. They’re Humble

A humble partner is someone who acknowledges that you’re better at some things than they are. They’re content to be themselves without needing attention or fanfare. If your partner is like this, don’t let go of them.

14. Your Partner Is Forgiving

Having a partner who is quick to forgive will make your relationship sweet. They don’t hold grudges or give into resentment. They admit when they’re hurt by something but get revenge. Because they know they make mistakes, they won’t make you feel bad if you forget to do something. A forgiving partner is a rare find, so hold on to them.

15. They’re Kind to Other People

A kind partner will be kind to those around them. Whether they’re talking to your nosy neighbor or cranky real-estate agent, they’ll show respect and kindness. Your kindhearted partner will make you proud no matter what the situation.


Final Thoughts on Have a Partner Who Is Perfect for You

If you have a partner who inspires you, loves your family and friends, forgives you, and humbly finds hope and help in God, hold on to this person. No doubt, your relationship will be sweet.