“A great relationship is all about falling in love with the same person over and over again.” – Unknown
Relationships take time and effort. The honeymoon period doesn’t last forever. Sometimes, we have to fall in love with our partners more than once during our time with them. There’s no shame in it, and it’s totally normal in many relationships, especially long-term ones. Falling in love with your partner repeatedly will make the relationship strong and long-lasting. Psychologists who specialize in relationships have figured out the best ways to fall in love with your partner every single day.
Here Are 7 Ways To Fall In Love With Your Partner Every Single Day
1. Focus on the positive
Negativity can worm its way right into your relationship before you even realize it. Things about your partner that you once liked might begin to irritate you. In order to fall in love with your partner every single day, you want to take a step back and look at all of the positives. What is it about your partner that you love? What drew you to them in the first place? Remember all of the good, positive things about your partner and you’ll be falling in love every day.
2. Make time to talk every day
Relationships thrive on communication. Psychotherapist Franklin Porter, Ph.D. says,
“Relationships grow stale generally because the couple avoids confronting the issue…” When there isn’t time to check in and talk with your partner, relationships tend to falter.
One way to fall in love with your partner every day is to make sure you make time to talk with them. Check in and talk about your days, or how you’re feeling. Psychologists agree that sharing your feelings with someone can help you fall in love, and who better to fall in love with than your partner?
3. Do something to make them smile
Remember how much you loved seeing your partner smile when you first started dating? Smiling is contagious, and it can make people fall for one another. To fall in love every day, you should see your partner smile. And the best way to see them smile? Do something to make them smile! Not only will you be doing something nice for your partner, but you’ll also be falling in love every time you do.
4. Stay intimate
Intimacy is one of the things that relationships begin to lack as the years go on. If you want to fall in love and stay in love, intimacy is one of those things you have to keep working at. “Partners begin to take their love for granted and forget to keep themselves turned on and to continue to seduce their partner,” says Sari Cooper, LCSW, licensed individual, couples, and sex therapist.
Being with your partner should feel natural, not like a chore. Find time to spend together in an intimate and private setting. You’ll start falling in love with your partner a little more every day when you keep seeing them at their most intimate.
5. Address any issues right away
Don’t let things fester. A key to falling in love every day is making sure that you don’t let problems get bigger than they need to be. When an issue pops up, sit down and see if you can find a solution as soon as you can. You’ll find that compromising will help you fall in love with your partner all over again, every single day. Working through problems together is key to staying happy and long-lasting.
6. Give yourself time to miss them
Every relationship needs to have healthy boundaries, and everyone needs to have time to themselves. If you want to fall in love with your partner every day, you need to give yourself time to miss them. Spend some time alone, with friends, or with family.
Take a day trip without your partner so that “when you go home to Yours Truly, you’ll both be recharged and ready to come together even stronger,” says CEO of MeetMindful, Amy Baglan. You’ll be surprised by how much love you feel when you give yourself a chance to miss seeing your partner every day.
7. Flirt like teenagers
When you’re in a long-term relationship, you sometimes forget all the fun that flirting can be. Find time during your day to remind your partner how much you want them, and how attractive you think they are. Flirt throughout the day or send flirty text messages for them to find while they’re at work. Getting back into the habit of flirting with your partner will have you both falling in love every day.
Relationships are a lot of work, but they should also be a lot of fun. A partnership doesn’t have to be all about bills and the mortgage. Part of the fun is falling in love with your partner every day, over and over again. These tips should help anyone keep the love in their relationship strong.
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