A good woman is a treasure in a world that often lacks genuine kindness and compassion. But what exactly are the signs of a good woman? Is it her beauty or intelligence? Or is it something deeper and more meaningful?
As human beings, we all have different preferences and ideals regarding romantic relationships. However, we can all agree that finding a good partner is crucial for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. When it comes to finding a good woman, it can be challenging to determine what qualities to look for. With so many different personalities and traits out there, it can be overwhelming to figure out what makes a woman a good partner.
In this article, we’ll explore seven signs of a good woman to help you recognize a potential partner that is worth your time and effort.
“You can’t keep a good woman down. She can be cheated on. Lied to. Taken advantage of…by every man she’s ever loved. Yet she’s the one they miss in the end. She’s the only one they swear over. For letting her go. She’s the one that haunts their thoughts. She’s the one that’s gathered all her dignity from their misuse and went on to love again. She rises like a phoenix after betrayal – and damn she lights up the sky.” – Rafael Padilla
The Role of Chemistry in Finding a Good Woman
Discovering a genuine, good-hearted person is the first battle. Then there’s this important thing called chemistry. Here’s a frequent scenario: man meets a good woman, a woman meets a good man. They both think “why not give it a shot?” The relationship lasts a while. One or both realize something is “off” or “missing.” The relationship ends.
Why? Because a “good person” is not always the “right person.” How many of us have known that great guy or gal who hasn’t settled? People – and therefore, relationships – are much more complex.
Here are 7 signs you’ve (probably!) found the right woman:
This brings us to the topic of this article: signs that you’ve (probably) found the right woman. We sincerely hope this information helps someone (maybe even you) find that elusive and special person.
1. There is an “instant connection”
While there are exceptions to this rule, most happy couples will say there was a connection of some type; and that they felt it quickly.
The simple fact is that you can’t love someone you’re not attracted to. This not only applies to physical appearance but emotional and intellectual as well.
Since this article is about finding the right woman, here’s a valuable tip for males: looks are not nearly as important to her as they are to you. Humor, confidence, charm, charisma, and strength will trump looks.
2. Your thought patterns are similar (in most ways)
Men in a committed, happy relationship are still affected by how frequently our thoughts align with our partner. Two people meant for each other will often complete each other’s sentences. One will bring up a topic that the other was just about to.
You won’t always agree with each other (a good sign), but that’s also part of the fun.
3. Affection and love grow in time
Following the first couple of dates, one should know whether or not there’s “something there.” In the later stages, pleased couples will reminisce about how their love and affection for one another grew over time.
Imperfections are accepted, even embraced. The love and affection you feel for the right woman overcomes everything else.
4. You laugh together, a lot
If your relationship lacks humor and laughter that’s usually not a good sign. A mutual sense of humor is among the most essential indications of chemistry.
You, like I, have probably known a couple whose laughter and sense of humor are on the level of Eeyore’s from Winnie the Pooh. If they love each other that’s wonderful – and really the only thing that matters.
For those with an astute sense of humor, the “right” woman will probably make you laugh quite often – and vice versa. If not, she’s probably not the right person.
5. There’s a mutual, unshakable sense of respect
We’re not talking about the type of respect shown to one’s boss or “morality-based” respect. When you’ve found the right one, and the relationship develops, your love and adoration for her will be so entrenched that the last thing you’ll ever want to do is hurt her.
She highly respects you as a man. You highly respect her as a woman. Both people do so out of love, nothing else.
6. Your priorities will change
Does anyone know of the playboy who settled down, married, and had kids?
It’s entirely something to behold.
That’s what the right woman does. She grabs your heart, you grab hers, and you both fall in love. For men who at one time loved the single life that period quickly fades from memory. Not only does it fade, but you’re so thankful it has.
7. You want the same things in life
This last one is so very important. Many relationships end because one wants something the other doesn’t. Examples: kids (obviously), a house, living in a different state/country, working full-time or staying home, etc.
While you won’t necessarily want everything the other does, life-changing wants, and needs should be mutually agreed upon.
Final Thoughts on the Traits of a Good Woman
It is more than intial attraction, her shape, form, or looks. A good woman is someone you can rely on, someone who will be there for you through thick and thin, and she won’t betray your trust or love.