The death of Robin Williams touched everyone. It’s hard to find anyone who wasn’t touched by this man through his acting and humor.
His death brought depression into the national spotlight and created a discussion around this silent disease. That alone is something to be grateful to Robin Williams for, but we are lucky because he left us with many more life lessons to learn from.
Looking back over his interviews and his movies, there were so much to be learned from this creative, thoughtful and wildly intelligent man. Watch his performances, read his words and listen to him speak and you will see a man who cherishes what really matters and puts into perspective the things that don’t make a difference in the end.
It was hard to narrow down the lessons he left us through his work and his words to just eleven, so we decided to focus on the lessons from his life. If you want more lessons than you just need to watch “Dead Poet’s Society” again. It’s hard to find anyone who has seen this movie who doesn’t recognize the impact it had on a generation.
Williams said this about the film:
“I think ‘Dead Poets’ was probably my favorite, just to get started with the idea of doing a movie that people treated as more than a movie.”
Here are eleven life lessons we can all learn from Robin Williams – in his own words:
1. Do what feeds your creative spirit.
“We don’t read and write poetry because it’s cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering – these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love – these are what we stay alive for.”
2. Do whatever it takes to make meaningful connections.
“I basically started performing for my mother, going, ‘Love me!’ What drives you to perform is the need for that primal connection. When I was little, my mother was funny with me, and I started to be charming and funny for her, and I learned that by being entertaining, you make a connection with another person.”
3. Everyone has story that we know nothing about.
“I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy because they know what it’s like to feel absolutely worthless and they don’t want anyone else to feel like that.”
4. Pursue relentlessly the things you believe in.
“No matter what people tell you, words and ideas can change the world.”
5. There is a lesson to be found in everything.
“You will have bad times, but they will always wake you up to the stuff you weren’t paying attention to.”
“I used to think the worst thing in life is to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone.”
7. Sometimes the best response is no response at all.
“Even fools seem smart when they are quiet.”
8. Find the silver lining in every experience.
“Sometimes over things that I did, movies that didn’t turn out very well – you go, ‘Why did you do that?’ But in the end, I can’t regret them because I met amazing people. There was always something that was worth it.”
9. Keep alive the things that make you feel alive.
“You’re only given a little spark of madness. You mustn’t lose it.”
10. Even the most brilliant, confident and most successful people are insecure at times.
“The essential truth is that sometimes you’re worried that they’ll find out it’s a fluke, that you don’t really have it. You’ve lost the muse or – the worst dread – you never had it at all. I went through all that madness early on.”
11. The is always a need for hustle.
“Winning an Oscar is an honor, but, between you and me, it does not makes things easier.”
Robin Williams taught us about the importance of self-love and the healing benefits of laughter. The loss of such a great talent and human is still felt today. There is much to learn from this beautiful spirit and it starts with finding the humor in everything. Laughing at something that makes you want to cry makes that thing much less scary.
It is still hard to fathom that this brilliant, talented, funny and somewhat tortured soul left this world so tragically.
We’ll leave you with this quote from “Dead Poet’s Society”:
“Seize the day. Because, believe it or not, each and every one of us in this room is one day going to stop breathing, turn cold and die.”
“Oh captain, my captain,” we honor you.