15 Signs You’re Ready for New Romance

15 Signs You’re Ready for New Romance

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After going through a breakup, it might take some time before you’re ready for a new romance. Once you begin to heal and move on, you might consider meeting someone new. Knowing the signs that you’re ready can help you determine if it’s a good idea to start dating again.

It’s exciting to realize that you’re ready for a romance after a breakup, but it can also be scary. Making sure you’re ready is one of the best ways to ensure a positive experience. If you aren’t sure if you’re ready, you can look for the signs.

Attempting another romantic relationship before you’re ready can cause many problems. Plus, rushing into a relationship before you’ve healed can hinder your process. It won’t help you heal, and it’ll put a strain on your new relationship right from the start.

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Fifteen Signs You’re Ready for New Romance

There is no timeframe on being ready to date again, and it’ll be different for everyone. Knowing what to look for will help you recognize the signs because they’re typically subtle. Before you start a new romance, make sure you’ve experienced the signs that you’re ready.

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1. You Know What You Want and Don’t Want in a Relationship

If you know what you want in a partner, you might be ready for a new relationship. You should also know what you don’t want because it’s just as important. Don’t focus on what you want your future partner to look like, but focus on who they are as a person.

Think about the things you need in a relationship, and don’t even think about spending time with someone that doesn’t fit the criteria. If you need someone open about their feelings or that has certain values, stick to that. By knowing what you want and don’t want, you’ll avoid unhealthy relationships in the future.

2. You’re Open to the Idea of a New Relationship

After a breakup, you might not even want to think about a new relationship right away. When the time to date again comes, and you start to open up to the idea, it’s a sign that you’re ready.

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If the idea of meeting someone excites you, it’s a sure sign that now is a good time. However, if the idea of meeting someone new repulses you, it’s a sign that you’re not ready.

3. You Have Individual Interest and Friend Groups

When you’re in a relationship, you might lose interest in things you once loved. You also might have the same friend groups as your previous partner. If you’re in this situation, you must find individual interests and a different friend group before you’ll be ready for a romance.

After a breakup, start looking for new hobbies that you’ve always wanted to try or revisit old hobbies. Don’t forget to find a separate friend group, too, as it’ll help you move forward. Once you accomplish both of those things, you’ll be ready for a new relationship.

4. Thoughts of Your Ex No Longer Make You Feel Bad

If you no longer get upset or feel heartache when you see or hear about your ex, you might be ready for a new romance. It is a sign that healing has taken place, and you’re ready to take a chance with someone new. However, if you’re still checking your ex’s social media, it’s a sign that your thoughts aren’t in the right place.

If you’re still hoping that you and your ex will get back together, it’s also a sign that you’re not ready. However, if your feelings toward your ex are neutral, you can start thinking about meeting someone new.

5. You’re Done Grieving

If the grieving period has ended, it’s a sign that you’re ready to move on with someone else. Ending the grieving period means you’re not crying every time your ex is mentioned, and you’re not constantly talking about them. It also means that your heart doesn’t still feel broken.

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6. You Can Positively Think Back on Past Relationships

After a breakup, thinking back over the relationship might be a negative experience. Once you overcome that mindset, you can look back and think of more positive aspects instead. When you think more good thoughts than bad ones about your past relationship, it’s a sign that you’re ready.

Being able to think positive thoughts is a sign that healing has occurred. It indicates that you’re emotionally prepared for a new relationship after your breakup.

7. You’ve Accepted Your Breakup and Realized It Was for The Best

One of the essential steps in your healing process is to accept what happened. If you’ve accepted the breakup and can see that it was for the best, then you’re headed in the right direction. While it still might be a sad situation, your acceptance can help you move forward.

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8. You’re in a Better Mood Overall

If you notice that your mood has improved and you’ve been consistently happy, it’s a good sign you’re ready for a romance. The sadness, anger, and other negative feelings will have dissipated, and you’ll experience happiness and joy in life instead.

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Being in a good mood regardless of your relationship status shows that you know your worth. Plus, understanding that you can feel good and be happy alone is a good sign. Once you meet someone new, you’ll be more confident and ready to experience a healthy relationship.

9. You’re Ready to Give and Receive Love

If you realize that you want to give and receive love, it’s a sign that it’s time for romance. You can’t only focus on yourself here because you must be ready to give love, too. One indication that you’re ready is that you desire to hold and support another person.

10. You’ve Learned to Love Yourself Again

After a bad relationship, you might not love yourself very much. A new romance won’t help you love yourself, either. Learning to love yourself is a personal experience, and you’re not ready for a new relationship until you’ve worked on it.

Once you’ve learned to love yourself, it’s a sign that you are ready to meet someone new. With self-love, you won’t have to rely on someone else for your happiness.

11. You Feel Like You Live a Fulfilling Life

When you’re content with your life and feel that it’s fulfilling and meaningful, you might be ready for a new relationship. It shows that you can add value to another person’s life without taking away from yours. Make sure you’re happy with your friends, family, work-life, health, and self-care before seeking romance.

When you feel like you’re living a fulfilling life, you can feel secure moving forward. You’ll know that you aren’t using dating as a way to escape your pain.

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12. You Have Rediscovered Who You Are as an Individual

Learning about who you are as a single person is essential before you’ll be ready for a new relationship. It’s common to lose your sense of self during a relationship, especially if you often had to compromise. Rediscover who you are, and then you’ll find that you are ready to meet someone new.

13. You Don’t Experience Negativity When Thinking About Your Past

While you shouldn’t live in the past, there will be times when you think of it. Little things will remind you of those times, and you might run into people you knew back then. When these situations occur, consider the way it makes you feel.

If you don’t experience negativity when thinking about the past, you might be ready to move on. Try to think of the positives from the past because they helped make you stronger and shaped you into the person you are. When you can think this way, it’s a sign that you’re ready for romance.

14. You Want to Start Dating Again

If the idea of dating again brings you excitement, it’s a sign that you’re ready. When you meet someone and think that you want to spend more time with them, it might be time to give it a try.

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Noticing that other people are attractive shows that you’re moving on from your breakup. However, if the idea of dating again repulses you, then you likely aren’t ready to move on.

15. You Learned from Your Mistakes

If your mistakes are the reason for the breakup, then you must learn from them. You won’t be ready for a new romance until you’ve addressed the behavior and worked to change it. Getting into another romantic relationship without learning from your mistakes will only cause the cycle to begin again.

If you didn’t do anything wrong and your partner made mistakes, learn from that situation instead. You can learn to address or recognize certain behaviors in your partner to prevent the same experience. No matter what occurred, there is a learning opportunity in every breakup.

Final Thoughts on Signs You’re Ready for New Romance After a Breakup

Going through a breakup is life-changing, so you must make sure you’re ready before starting a new romance. If you determine that you’re ready, maintain a positive mindset as you begin experiencing the new relationship. Even if you don’t start a serious relationship, you’ll want to stay positive as you start dating again.

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If you wait until you’re ready before starting a new relationship, you’ll have a much better experience. The relationships you choose will be healthy, and you won’t settle for anything less than you deserve. Remember these signs as you decide if you are ready to move forward romantically.

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Sarah Barkley is a lifestyle blogger and freelance writer with a Bachelor's Degree in Literature from Baker College. She is experienced in all things related to parenting, marriage, and life as a millennial parent, but loves to learn new things. She enjoys the research that goes into a strong article, and no topic is off-limits to Sarah. When she isn't writing, she is immersed in a book or watching Gilmore Girls. Sarah loves reading classic novels but also enjoys a good thriller.

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