5 Ways to Make Love (Without Having Sex)

5 Ways to Make Love (Without Having Sex)
Power of Positivity
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If you want to feel the most powerful energy in the Universe, make love. It’s one of the most unforgettable experiences anyone can ever encounter.  Simply put, making love is creating energy, sourced directly from the divine.

Usually this is a collective effort between two people. But contrary to popular belief, you don’t have to get in-between the sheets to “do it”.  There are many ways to create this divine energy, and you can find an outlet for it in many different facets of life.

Here are 5 ways to “make love” (without having sex)


Focus on the positive

When you remember that making love is simply creating love energy, it becomes simple to see the reason to focus on the positive.  At all times, in all ways, you’re either creating positive or negative energy.  This energy contributes to the collective vibration of the Earth, and ultimately the fate of humankind.  The more you continue to focus on positive loving thoughts, words, and actions, the better chance we all have to make it on this beautiful little space marble.

Choose to think, speak, and do positive as soon as you wake up. Then, be sure to use the many resources available on our website to keep your power of positivity going strong throughout the day and into the next!

Help someone in need

All actions are a request for love. Everyone wants it and no one wants to be without it.  There have been times in our life, and also probably times in yours where you wished someone would give you a call, a kind word, or even a hug when you needed it most.  Loving energy fills gaps and fixes cracks where pieces of our heart have been torn away.  Much like the Japanese art of Kintsugi, loving energy given when needed most makes the spirit stronger and more appreciated than before.

If you feel you can help someone reach a goal, support their passion, or just shine some light in their direction when they need it most, don’t hesitate to do so.

Broaden your perspective

So much negative energy is created in the world today, simply because of a narrow perspective.  How can we know where to direct our loving energy if we’re walking through life with the blinders on?

As the female artist group En Vogue once stated, “Free your mind, and the rest will follow.”  Turning a blind eye to another person due to their color, race, religion, spiritual views, or innocent private habits only creates a void in their heart and yours.  There is an equal chance for loving energy to fill the void – give it the chance it deserves by broadening your perspective of the world around you.  Through a broader perspective, you’re creating a ripple effect of positive loving energy that can have exponential effects.

Make a decision to learn about someone’s culture.  Show compassion and kindness for their lot in life.  Ask about their history, their family, or what makes them most proud.  Through understanding each other more, we can create world peace, true freedom, and benefit from many other windfalls of an expanded perspective.

Get in touch with nature

Nature is a sanctuary of its very own, overflowing with love energy.  When you get out into the great outdoors, you connect with the ever-loving positive energy that radiates from the earth.  Stop and take a moment to simply lay down and feel the warmth of the ground. Listen to the sound of the wind whispering through your surroundings.

As you get in touch with nature, the buzzing of your mind stops and allows you to tap back into a positive thinking mindset without resistance


Last but not least, making love for yourself is the most essential.  Only when you give yourself the love you deserve can you make love for the rest of the world.  Every ounce of loving energy you distribute comes from within, and you’ve got to make sure your wellspring is overflowing.

The flower-children of the 1960’s weren’t too far off with their mantra of “Peace and Love”.  They knew about the loving energy that can be created to help heal the world.  Take time today to be a lover.  For yourself, for others, and for the world.

We love YOU!

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  1. Nabeel Shahid

    October 3, 2014 at 1:51 pm

    I believe a person must master the art of non-sexual lovemaking before she or he has the capacity to make love deserving a physical, sexual contact.

    • Chris Butler

      Chris Butler

      October 5, 2014 at 5:46 pm

      That is a very good insight that makes you think. Great comment!

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